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urtakeninhand

Hello, I would like you to know, I am very real and I am a positive person and difference maker in this world. I am seeking to change someones life for the better. I am looking for a Dom/sub or Dom Daddy/sub daughter relationship. I go into some details below, I know I put a lot into my profile, most will not read, but I am not looking for those who want to do little to gain someone but put forth some effort as well. I will be glad to share pictures with who is of interest to me. I am seeking a sub or a slave for this position with me. The level of intensity rises with a slave more so than a submissive. But both will be cared for completley. -------------------------------------------------------- More detail: I have a dynamic personality, intelligent, gifted, visionary, well versed, balanced, worldly, extrovert, warm/young hearted, old soul, loyal, focused in life, mature, full of life, active, people and kid person, family oriented and honorable. I am loyal to those I care for; I have a plethora of friends. I have a lot to be proud of in life and willing to share those aspects if you are of interest to me. --------------------------------------------------------- My desire in a relationship: I have been involved in D/s for decades. My wish is to find a traditional in a sense, “Taken in Hand” / “HOH” type relationship, with Ds involvement in the foundational beliefs and experiences. I am reasonably strict, do believe in domestic discipline, rational, grounded, open minded, nonjudgmental for what I discover within a submissive, and I am very creative. I am not an abuser nor am I domineering, I’m a natural dominant, in fact I am a leader. I am very loving, family oriented; caring and focused on whom I am responsible for in life. I believe in my mate being happy, full of laughter, enjoying life, so understanding her is a must. Yes as a sub or slave, the ability to serve under a positive roof is a must. I do not believe spankings are abusive, nor are toys and bondage. These are all part of our lives if you become mine. I am very open minded in the bedroom activities, those aspects of Ds that create a positive impression on the path. I am one who puts a lot of thought into my actions, ensuring to not damage or hurt ones spirit, mental state or physical being. I believe in a realistic approach to experiences, we live in the real world therefore we must understand our actions could have consequences. I am not a goody goody; I am very intense and creative at times which allow me to bring the most to who is mine. I am more interested in the mental aspects as the remainder will follow where the mind leads us. I would be glad to discuss in detail the interests in Ds with the right one, but understand having as much experience as I do, I have seen or done those aspects I wanted to experience, and my cravings do not lie with the actions more so than what results I obtain. So I am very open to toys and experiences with respect and care for whom I do control, ensuring it remains a positive. I seek her intelligent and not mindless, I desire someone with a mind of her own and am not seeking a doormat, nor am I seeking someone mindlessly following as I am not a micro manager, which means that daily tasks and routines should not need me to direct her ever step along the way as her position warrants flexibility to get things accomplished as long as she remains on the proper path with me. I desire collectively for my lady and I to create a pathway to happiness together as a team. ---------------------------------------------------------- I wish to be on the same unselfish path to love and to care for as she serves and pleases, my approach is not a lazy one as I am aware of my responsibilities, knowing a good dominant takes this serious and puts forth the efforts, also understands my duties in protecting, teaching, caring, understanding, communicating and being there for her on all levels as a positive force, always. -------------------------------------------------- I am also intelligent, motivated, dedicated, passionate, a communicator, caring, risk taker, big thinker/dreamer (nothing is out of bounds in obtaining with hard work), enlightened, a leader, creative, worldly, driven, neat and organized, a leader, wear my heart of my sleeve, uniquely skilled, have fortitude, positive spirit, cup half full thinker, sense of humor and well versed. I do not smoke, nor do drugs and a social drinker only / very happy when in that mode. I am very mature and grounded in my approach to life, live by common sense. I am one without drama, I am a man who knows what he wants and is determined to have it all. I am an excellent teacher, there is so much one can learn if one has an open mind. I am not looking to put things within my submissive but to expose what is there, embrace those aspects and enhance one’s life by what is discovered and understood. I will also teach you that if you do something that makes someone happy then it can't be wrong. Eventually your mind will be free and will continue your journey with someone who accepts you as you are and become happy with the way you are as you are bound to me. I am big on the communication as well; this is important to building a solid foundation and keeping a clean path together. The relationship should be construed as a partnership, teaming effort between the two of us. Any collective effort entered into by two or more people must have a synergistic outcome or it cannot flourish. Oh, it can chug along, ad nauseam, but to truly flourish each of the component parts (people) must contribute by more than just the strictest definition of “their share”. In addition, each individual contribution must blend with the other contributions such that each one enhances each other to produce… a synergy. ------------------------------------------------------------ I am seeking the right submissive in a long term relationship only, not looking for anything casual but be as one completely. One that will compliment my life, not I will always be extremely supportive of her vested interests and those passions she has within. I seek her to become part of me in all ways of life; she must buy into what my life is all about, as I will embrace hers. I am seeking the right one, not seeking to date, play around or waste time on something that virtually has no chance of success. I am a believer in being very forward and honest in who I am and what I want, with hopes she will open to me and allow me to see the truth within her. I do not buy off on games or drama. One other thing you must realize, I am not one that will focus on anyone that does not show clear interest in me.

quietplease77
 
 Age: 19
  Pennsylvania