Hello everyone, you can call me Tracy (no, not my real name... if we get to the point of a real meeting then you'll get that tidbit)? :)

I am not new to BDSM and I have a pretty concrete idea of what I'm looking for in a D/s relationship.? And yes, I'm looking for a D/s RELATIONSHIP. Not just a hook up, or a play session, and also not just a boyfriend who occasionally likes to spank and tie me up during sex.

I want a subservient role in a relationship with a man who is self confident, dynamic, creative and fun.? This is real life and not some cheap B-movie rip off of The Story of O.? I don't want a man who will scowl at me all day and then pull me out of a cage whenever his jock gets itchy.

I want a relationship that works in the real world, where normal vanilla activities are not neglected, but where I know He is in charge, where I can trust in His judgment, because he has his shit together and is reasonable.? Confidence is Sexy!? Also I have a job, family, friends.? Life is not just about kinky sex.

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In exchange, He can do with me as he pleases, within sane limits (no blood, no feces, no permanent or visible scars, no breathplay, no headtrauma and no sharing with other men).? I enjoy being humiliated and put down, to be shown that I belong to Him.? I see myself naked, laying at his feet, sucking his toes after he returns from a long day at work, my thick leather collar making my posture perfect, the tug of my leash, the only command he needs give.?

On a personal note (since we do have to click outside of the bedroom) I am a very outgoing person, love to laugh, am college educated (obvious spelling and grammar errors in emails will automatically get you ignored... sorry) and have a light geek side .

If you've read this far, thank you for your interest and if you want to write me, please include the word "Howdy" at the very beginning of your email.? One liners will also not be answered.? Max age of 40. And if you don't have a picture on your profile, please include one in your message.? And please tell me a bit about yourselves.?

Tracy