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| Assumptions about cuckold relationships can be funny as well as annoying. There seems to be a lot of judgments, misperceptions, and generalizations about cuckolding. Here's how most conversations about cuckolding seem to go...
Her: "So you must have a really small penis?"
me: "no, not really"
Her: "So do you like to be made fun of how small your penis is?"
me: "no, not really"
Her: "So are you a sissy?"
me: "no, not really"
Her: "So then you like to watch your Mistress being fucked?"
me: "no, not really"
Her: "So you like to please a man?"
me: "no, not really"
Her: "Then why are you a cuckold?!"
At this point i am at a loss of words.
Cuckolds or wittols fall into many categories. There are those that want their female partner to sleep with others so they can get their own personal porn show or because they want to show other men what a great trophy they have. Others want to be ridiculed and humiliated. Some want to be girls themselves. And then there are those that want to be sexual with men and are in denial about it. This is my observation and in no way a judgment of what may work for others.
However, I don't fit into any of those categories. Since my first sexual awakening I have had had a submissive mindset. From the moment I read BDSM literature as a teenager I was tickled yet afraid of my own reaction. I began writing my own stories as an outlet until years later the chance to explore opened up. Cuckolding, however, was not something I had anticipated submitting to, let alone learning to enjoy. I became a cuckold because I wanted to please a woman who was really into it.
Some years ago a play partner told me she wanted to cuckold me. I was stunned and told her there I didn't think I could surrender to that. I just wasn't the "cuckold type". She moved onto "greener pastures", and I have ever since regretted my inability to submit to her desire to cuckold her mate. She planted a seed that gradually changed my attitude and consequently in a subtle way my desires.
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