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untamedsoul75

I have been in Domsub and Masterslave relationships before, but they came about organically. I have never really been part of the scene, or talked to many people that were, so I am lacking in terminology and knowledge of how everyone else does it.



I would be open to discussionmentoringhelp from other DomMasters, and would love help in finding a new partner.

Okay, lets get a few things out of the way that will make some of you just hit the back button...



1. I have PTSD from the military. I have worked by myself and with counseling for years to get to a place where Im pretty even keeled, and know how to stay that way.



2. One of the ways I keep even keeled is by controlling my environment pretty tightly. This means I need control of a relationship if I want to be in one. I have learned that it is better to not be in a relationship than to be in one that takes me to bad places. This means I am looking for a loving Domsub or Masterslave relationship.



3. Im a big, hairy, tattooed, bearded, long haired guy.

Ok, now for some of the good. Im pretty caring in my own way. Im not too good at flowery talk, but Im dependable for a shoulder to lean or cry on, and am very protective and attentive. Im also very open to your input on how things should go, and respectful of limits and feelings.



I am looking for a long term relationship, hopefully a life-long one. But, of course, I realize these things take time. I am not going to be the guy who is ordering you around the first couple times we talk. I want to get to know a person a little first.



Some things Im looking for-An active person.-A well read person.-Physical attraction is, of course, important. I am attracted to smaller hwp women.-Very open minded in the bedroom.-Nonreligious.-Childless.-Not hung up on image or having stuff just to have it.-Problem solver, able to accomplish tasks without being micro-managed.



About me-Very well read.-Nonreligious.-Musical-Have traveled the world, and plan on traveling more in the future.



Im not too sure what else to write. If this interests you at all, please feel free to mail with any questions. I will not ignore any real messages, even if I dont think the person fits my need.



Thank you for taking the time to read this, and good luck in your search.
PandaBabii
 
 Age: 24
 United Kingdom