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Respect is earned : Honesty is expected : Trust is gained : Loyalty is returned
Above all its not just about sex and the fore plays....its the special dynamic between two people... in short a multi leveled relationship is what I seek or just mutual friendship with respect. Am not perfect,neither do i want someone who is perfect,being respectful and friendly does not make me a weak person,being a good leader is about showing a good example and being able to earn the respect and trust of other,I do not have to hold a whip to show you am Dominant,Some has lost the value of their vanilla life,because they have taken the life style too serious and then its just about sex and play to them and No connection,I can;t imagine myself treating another like an animal without attraction.. being submissive doesn't make you a door mat,but seems most women just don't know what they exactly want, every great relationship starts with simple friendship. without the foundation of friendship which gives two souls time to learn about each other, No relationship can be built.
I am 48 normal short of bloke generally shy but confident underneath. I am very well travelled mainly due to my job, I love being close to the sea especially when it is rough and windy. I am intreasted in art (although i am no expert)history and occastionally sport. I like joke and have genrally madcap sense of hummor. I love to cook or eat out and am fond of a glass of red wine. I am told i am a good listener and people generally find it easy to talk to me.
I am quirky intelligent warm caring and a natural Dominant and have been all of My life. I am attracted to submissives/slaves that want to please and thrive on the attention & nurturing that brings from Me. I have been in the lifestyle for a while and in various types of relationships from Top/bottom to Master/slave & Dominant/submissive. I recently discovered I am very capable in a Daddy Dom baby girl/sub relationship.
I enjoy most Music, the outdoors, the beach & flea markets ( to name a few of My interests) I grew up on Rock & Roll but adapted to country when I moved to Texas waaay back. Jazz on a Sunday morning lounging about & reading the paper is one of My favorite things. I like to cook ( although mostly on the grille ) I am a positive thinker & like people that feel the same about life. I believe every day is what you make of it.
I would like to meet one caring person, whom i can treat well. I like bubbly happy people, who i can have a laugh with but equally have a long serious conversation with at times. Like many of us i guess the physical element is one part of this but i think these things work best with people with whom you can also connect well with.
As i said before i would prefer meet one special person who i can spoil. Im not looking to ruin any relationships yours or mine, just feel life is not a rehearsal and we have to make the most we can out of our turn on the world. im just looking to put a bit of sparkle back in mine and i hope yours.
Because i havn't listed my interest doesn't make a stranger to the lifestyle,you have to connect first and find what we can do together that would be fun.
There are many things to say.........and listen......guess will keep that for future.
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