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unownedbeauty

Hi Everyone

I am looking for someone who has a deep desire to submit to one person. I am not looking for a play partner, they are a dime a dozen. I want someone who will wake in the morning and need to submit to me, just to get his day started. I am not interested in game players. They are just a waste of my time.
I believe that on line is a wonderful place to get to know someone, for me it is not the place to play. So if you want to submit on line please find someone else.


If you are still interested, please email me, however and this is a big however, I am not interested in what you want sexually. What I want to know is who you are, really are, not what you want people to think you are.

I live by one moto, that is "Say what you mean and mean what you say".

If you can't live that way please don't bother, also if you are younger then 40, I am really not interested.

I live in Dallas and have just moved into my Dream house, I have no plans on moving so don't ask.
I make floggers for a living and do very well, I have no need for someone to take care of me, nor do I plan on taking care of someone elses bills. If you are able to relocate that is wonderful.
I hope this will help.

One last thing, I have been in this lifestyle for almost 30 years < I can't belive its been that long> so I understand both sides very well.
8/16/2009 7:46:18 AM
Well it looks like nothing has really changed. Is there really no one who understands the needs of a Dommie? Or is it that they just can't read. Maybe they just don't bother to look past a Pic. This is just a WARNING, If you send me something like the email below I am just going to think you are silly and a waste of my time. I will not answer. I do not believe I am asking to much of a sub. Just read my profile. Take the time to put together an email that will wow me, it does not take much now a days to wow me.



Hello Ma'am i would like to get to know you. I am a 53 y old sub professional educated good job muscular work out told by many that I am nice looking. I would you like to chat get to know each other I feel we have a lot in common  I am able to travel and would consder relcoation and understand slavery and had experince Maam
If interetsed pelase feel free to conatct or im me in yahoo or AOL.
6/27/2008 8:55:54 PM

 

 

I am going to try something new. Below you will find some emails that I have received over the last few days. If you can tell me what is wrong with them, I might find you worthy to write back. If ,however you read them and see nothing wrong with them, Please move on and don’t bother me.

 And yes this is a test.

1. Hello - i believe i qualify to send an email stating that i am attentive to Your profile and would be thankful for a reply.

Thank You.

mark

 

Hi -

i have no intention to be rude in fact i want to be the exact oposite and be of interest to You and simply state that i believe i may be of interest to You and am hopeful You will think that as well.

Thank You. Peace.

mark

 

 2. I am relocating to San Antonio.

 

3. hello there....
am daniels by name and am lloking for whom i can spend the rest of my life with and that was why i came over to this site and while searching i was caught by your profile..........can i get an addy to reach you to....mine is fetydaniels@yahoo.com......hoping to hear from you..

 

4. i'm a 32 yo actor/model in LA who has been in the scene/lifestyle for around four years... but would like to find a permanent and nonnegotiable situation of complete and permanent slavery Ma'am.

i would/could easily make the transition from freedom to life in a cage when not serving in some capacity Ma'am.

i am very "service oriented" and would so much like to become just a simple, mere "owned chattel bondage slave" Ma'am. :)





5/29/2008 9:08:03 PM

Dear God, are there no real submissive left in the world. I don’t think I am asking for that much. I am going to give out a few clues to those who are clueless,


1, If you want to be a bad boy, someone who likes to be MADE to do something, you know who you are, you will say things like “ oh Mistress I am such a bad boy, will you whip me now?” then you just like kinky sex. Now there is nothing wrong with role play or kinky sex, it is just NOT submission.


2. Submission is not something that you can turn on and off. It is what it is, you need to submit, it is where you feel safe, cared for and where you are most at peace. For that kind of submission there is no need to punish, a look, a word does wonders. Having your Mistress displeased is the punishment. Now if you are saying what fun is there in that, then you like kinky sex. Now again there is nothing wrong with it, just call it as it is.

 

So all that being said, I AM NOT INTERSTED IN KINKY SEX. I am looking for a submissive. Someone whose sun rises with my good mood. Who is be happy at my feet, because that is their place, not because they are hoping to get some kind of sexual satisfaction out of it. Again that would be kinky sex.

5/20/2008 8:17:15 PM

Ok I am going back on my Soap box.

Why are there so many “subs” that can’t read. Is there anything in my profile that says I am interested in anyone 25? I think not. I think I have been more the clear about my age requirement. My son is older the 25. I have no need to relive my youth, I like where I am now. I think I have been more the honest. And just one more thing, why do so many think it is rude not to answer their emails. If you are taking the time to write an email to someone who has taken the time to spell out what they do not want, is it not rude of you to bother them?  I don’t care if you are the cutest guy in the world, if you have all the money in the world, if you are under 40 you do not have a shot. I feel I have nothing in common with you. And remember here who is the Dom. Oh yes I am, it is about ME, my needs and wants, it is not about what you can talk me into, I can tell you, you can not talk me into anything. My  mind is set. I don’t care if you don’t like it, it is what it is. And when you get to brass tacks it is my life who I want to share it with is up to me. So if you want to get my attention, then you need to be over 40, you need to bring something to the table. You need to email me more then just a hello, if you are to scared to say more, your not my kind. And please dear god stop telling me how pretty I am, you see, you could be the best person, however when you lead with “your so pretty” you come off as that is the most important thing to you. That is fine, if the way someone looks is the most important thing to you, it is not to me and I find it shallow, I am not interested in someone who is shallow. Oh and another thing, I do not need to know the size of you cock. That is just silly to send to someone in the first email. <getting off my soap box>

4/25/2008 4:51:53 PM
Please read before you send an email that will make you look silly.

Number 1
I can asure you that I do not lie. When I say I am not interested in anyone under 40 I am not interested in anyone under 40. If you don't like that, to bad. We all have our likes and dislikes. I do not judge others and could care less if you judge me.

Number 2

If you are looking for a green card or looking to have a Mistress take care of you, well that is not the lifestyle I live so move on. It is just silly to email someone when you do not meet what they are looking for.

Number 3

This is not about what you want to do to me. It is about my sex not yours. I don't need to know what you want to do to me. I really am not interested. I might get interested, however that takes something called time. If you don't have it, that is great, then move on.

Number 4

I do not like to be rude, however I do like to answer all my emails. So please do not make me be rude. It is all in your hands.

Number 5

If someone has taken the time to write a profile, then read it and understand it, just because you might find someone interesting, does not mean you should email them. If you are not what they are looking for then why bother? Just move on.
3/8/2008 10:23:36 PM

For all those who have asked, My floggers can be seen on ebay under this same nic. Happy bidding

8/7/2007 5:01:50 PM
I was going to add this to my profile however it looks to long so I thought I would do it this way. You see I have been getting alot of emails for people who do not understand the moto " say what you mean and mean what you say"

So here it is. If I say I like cookies that means I like cookies. If I say I am not interested in men that are younger then me, that means I am not interested in men younger then me. I am not sure how that means " if I get to know you I might be interested, or that you are such a great guy I would be losing the love of my life by not exporing that".
If someone you thought was cute told you that they were not intersted in D/s would you try to push them into it, or what if they had a limit that says no pain would you beat them, because you knew if they just experinced it they would love it. I can only hope the answer would be no. This lifestyle is about respect, not judge ment. I am not judgeing anyone because of their age, it is just something that I am NOT interested in. I do not wish to waste your time or mine. All you are showing by not respecting that is you would not respect anyones limits.

Getting off my soap box.