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Hello again.
I used to be tsktsk on CM but lost access to that profile so I am here and will be adding more a bit later.Besides,that profile was seldom used and out of date.The owk pic is in fact me.I was in a ponyboy vid back in 1999.The kneeling pic was from about 7 years ago with a friend. A few paragraphs Below in the lighter colour is the passage from my old profile.
Please,I am not interested in any funny business with children or animals.
Online only doming is not in the cards or any exchange of as in a business transaction such as atm piggies or money sluts will get you nowhere with me.I am caring and sharing but not a fool.I would prefer to earn your respect and trust as well as sharing the load of living life.
Communicating is to share interests or to facilitate a meeting.Dont get upset if I waste your time thinking you will be compensated.I have no issues with pros but that is not why I am here.
I have been fortunate to have worked and lived in 3 continents including about half of our provinces.Travel was sometimes for meeting those who share the cm interests.What I learned is not everybody has your best interest at heart and sometimes there are hidden agendas..who knew lol.This included a trip to both the States as well as Europe.
NS is home base but travel or relocation is possible for the right candidate(s). Although I tend to be shy,I like to talk and am able to get along with a lot of people from different parts of the world since i tend to to be non confrontational.Some say I have a bit of a knack for languages too but Obviously English is my main one.
I understand that communication here is a problem from time to time.If I ask questions it is because I have been through this process before and it is not to be taken too lightly.People just cant pack up their current lives and bail across the world on a whim.I will also respond to all messages but I really only get a few.Undherdog can be found in other locations so do a little searching to learn more.
Here to find others for some online interaction , in person conversation and maybe play but mostly looking for a relationship.Poly is not a deal breaker and in fact is not a huge deal .Not into smoke,alcohol or religion thanks.I am ok with somebody who does have a drink from time to time but not a person who overdoes it.My lifestyle is pretty clean and simple for the most part but socializing if ok too even though I tend to keep my own company a lot.Drugs and gambling are also of little interest.
The ultimate goal is to find a significant other(s) who not only enjoys many vanilla interests but to share in our mutual fetish interests.I am single,have some good friends but not the special pair bond that so many (seem) to have.I have never been married,or even close so there is no baggage involving legal battles over property and kids.My health is good and I am not looking to take advantage over anybody.Looking for that which will complete me.I am a white male and am open to folks of Asian or African descent as much as Caucasian.There are particular traits I like to see and colour or ethnicity are not necessarily a part.
I do not need to get off and my kinks are not a lead up for sex.In fact,many of my kinks are effective in lieu of sex although there may be a mental sexual component.Discover my triggers and use it against me is a good way to control my actions.I do have many interests but the ones listed here are the most primal and powerful.The bond is the most important aspect.
Two characteristics that are more important are age and size.For the most part somebody close to me age would be best but a swing of over 12 or so years either side may not be a good fit.The same goes for weight and the swing would likely be around 25 lbs or so please.This is a rule of thumb but not absolute indicators.
The resume aspect is this since i guess it shows up as usefullness.I have funding and income no matter where i may go but am not wealthy and am not a visa with legs.My background was as a special mechanic in the service and so I am pretty handy with a variety of tasks around the home or car and like to work with my hands creating new items.
The culmination of life experience would lead me into a symbiotic relationship based on me giving up power to a lady or a couple where she is dominant. Ideally shethey will be strict,sharp and imaginative.I do enjoy the guidance of worldly and accomplished person(s) looking to offer guidance.Under the right leadership, metamorphosis may be complete to find TPE in a service relationship.Very attracted to ladies and gents my senior. In the sub mode,my motto is below beneath and under.Not interested in actual playtime settings but lifestyle interaction. objectification, humiliation,protocols and rituals mostly keep me in that special place but many other topics interest me too.No matter what ,it is the MENTAL connection I crave between participants.I really need to know that my superiors are enjoying themselves and that they enjoy the interaction. Have been a member of a team previous and that comes easy.My limits are no criminal activity,children or animals.I am open to new things and activities not necessarily listed. I enjoy organizing , tidying and cleaning.Maybe I have obsessive compulsive.Pretty handy working in a yard,repairs,domestic chores. I can lead too if need be or make decisions but usually only after goal posts have been assigned.
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I am still here and off and on,mostly reading profiles.It is a good way to look into the mindset of human beings.Unfortunately,it is not very positive but such is life.never stop learning and being able to help yourself. |
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A lot of folks say they are dominant but i see manipulative.A person who has his or her life in order with a reasonable job or income ,a place to live and no need to get somebody to better themselves is in charge of their destiny.Finding a partner to share life with is a bonus.
Somebody who needs to con a sub to get things is not in charge and using somebody for economic gain is not dominant.
A leader leads by example and inspires a follower. |
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some people tell me something in one message and then reply again a little while later with a different message altogether.I think I am the one confused... |
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SO,you are a findomme eh?How can I top that,especially at such a young age lol? |
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I have a profile here but it is basically useless for the most part. |
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I tend to show up in spurts of great activity or a disappearance great in activity.If ever I see a profile I like,I try to cross reference on . |
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Once in a while I actually get a message.I will respond fairly quickly.
Sometimes after replying,I will wait weeks to get a reply if any at all.Lately i did but it was totally unrelated to our original conversation.I do not think the other individual remembered who I was.
Disorganized or swamped? |
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Clicking on a person's page will often show up as a "who's viewing me" in the column on left of your page.
Just because I click on your profile does not mean that it is mandatory to message you.In many cases,it often states that I am unwelcome to do so.
I am doing so to learn more about you.
Don't assume anything,ask. |
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Willing to relocate is just that,WILLING.Completion is incumbent upon a few factors.
A)Do you have the will and reason to leave your current location,family,friends and job for a possible relationship situation?What if it falls through?What is the fall back plan?
B)Do you have the resources to board an aircraft and/or move your belongings at no cost to your new partners?Are they willing to help?
C)International travel encompasses more than just the first two factors and likely more costs.Plus the fact that there exist a myriad of rules and regulations for every foreign destination.This has nothing to do with WILL but the de facto reality of life and it requires knowledge,funding and patience.Visitation is one thing,residence is another.Can you work?
A and B are fairly reasonable and understandable but C is beyond my knowledge.I can handle the first 2 for the most part.These are obstacles that require consideration.Finding work in this environment is not as easy as it once was either. |
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When I first learn about somebody I want to know more about,I have a look on other sites and search the same handle,to find out more like where you are listed and interests and check to see if it the same.Sometimes I may google the image if it looks like it is a bit too profesional.
I do not mind a brief chat,if it is to feel out for a potential meeting but starting here is ok.Moving onto another location to verify would be a logical step like a fetpage and then maybe a face page.
Am I alone in my concerns?seems a lot of folks have verification issues with individuals posing as women. |
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Sometimes i just like to comment on a profile whether or not I think it is well written or I agree with a point you wrote.
Nothing more. |
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So often i heard that there is SOMEBODY for EVERYBODY but if we have not met up,does that makes us a NOBODY?
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Touchy subject this.
If you have a good paying job because of your responsibilities,you are NOT a sub or a slave.You may wish to play for amusement or relief but the reason you have that position is because of your abilities.
IF you have the money,you have the power and* likely* it was earned.
A real sub is not a CEO or an administrator and thus will not be in those positions.Women looking for a successful tall business man who is subservient to them is not likely to happen all too often.Subs and Slaves are attracted to those in power.
I know that the Alpha is the unicorn but why?I am closest to the idea of a sigma and really do not fall prey to the alpha's charm.I think for myself and am capable but am not a blind follower and watch people closely.I have met few real leaders.
Handing over money so you can pretend is not the same as lifestyle. |
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Sometimes i get on her to look for some lost souls(friends) or search for local people,those who share some particular fetishes or whatever.If I put you in my favorites,it is because there was something striking about you wrote or the way your profile was presented.Take this as a compliment please.If it says so and so not to message...I won't.
I can understand the futility of messaging somebody not in the immediate area but one may not want to give up hope if you share something special with said individual.Probability says otherwise but there is always some chance.In my case,I did travel across the lands more then once.Things didn't work out but I have learned a few lessons too.
People can move but there are some reasonable concerns..on both sides.Finding a new job is one of them for sure.
Lastly,there is a lot of funny business going on..not the haha variety. |
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So,after some technical issues,I am back.
I am not interested in any pay for play,atm sluts or money pigs thank you.Seen enough of that business and it is not for me.There may be a place for it ..fine but not here.
Caring and sharing should be expected and we all know that life costs money and i am not in debt but not wealthy either. Giving and helping comes easy but there are limits.
I can be an online pal,a close friend even but i want a relationship with another human being.
I would also like to direct you to a fetishy place, same name and see if you would like to learn a bit more about me. |
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