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53 yr old submissive male, 5'9", 180 lbs, divorced, good shape, very active, very smart and usually pretty funny! Seeking (eventually) a real partner, friend and (dominant) lover -
The most important things about me are that I’m very smart, kind, empathic, supportive, optimistic, and can find things to laugh about easily. When I’m comfortable, I’m usually pretty funny. I’m a good listener and possess more self-awareness than you can shake a stick at. I’m a romantic. Love Astaire and Rogers.
I have a wide range of interests. I’ve studied martial arts for many years. I love the outdoors and like to hike, bike and camp. I studied dance many years ago, and still like to do it (casually). I love movies and completely lose myself in them..
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I’m easy going by nature. I’m very intuitive and sensitive. Really. I even read Anais Nin when I was in my 20’s. And not for a class. And Doris Lessing. Okay, Doris Lessing was for a class. But I really liked her.
I'm affectionate and love affection in return. I don't mind talking about my emotions (too much). How cool is that? I'm generally very communicative and very articulate. After years of a difficult marriage, I've become very comfortable talking through relationship issues honestly and fairly bravely, which I think is especially important in a relationship with a D/S dynamic.
I’m not very competitive, more of an individual sports kind of guy. Things I’ve done before and would do again- tennis, ice skating, skiing. On the other hand, you’d need a gun to get me to jump out of a plane. Even with a parachute. I'm not a thrill seeker. I hated getting in trouble when I was a kid.
I’m definitely a night person. I’m pretty brain-dead in the morning until the coffee kicks in. I probably wouldn’t hate you if you were up and at ‘em and perky in the morning. At least, I’d try really hard not to. (Remember – I’m sensitive, right?).
I'd like a relationship with plenty of room for D/S, but not 100% - I don't see myself as a 24/7 slave (except in fantasies) or dropping to my knees on command in the frozen food aisle of Shaw's (maybe in the organic food aisle....). I have kids in school and need to be "normal" when I'm out and about. I envision a relationship where much of the time we're a fairly regular couple, supportive, mutually interested, etc - but with the underlying D/S dynamic there - more than just scenes but not complete lifestyle. I definitely would be good with D/S that extended beyond the bedroom, but probably not beyond the front door.
A good partner for me would be very smart, kind (other than when you're being cruel :) ) and possess an easy sense of humor.Someone who generally gives people the benefit of the doubt. A love of the outdoors and an active lifestyle is important. If you like to talk about movies, books, psychology, I can trust you with my heart AND you want to dominate me, I will be one lucky guy.
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