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Hetero Male Submissive, 38,  Near Newcastle, United Kingdom
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So a little about me... Well I think you can see most of the basics from the profile ination (see the full profile for the list of interests). But I guess my main interests are bondage and sensory deprivation. However, I am relatively inexperienced, so am willing to try new things. In particular I would like to try more anal play... Have had a couple of experiences (fingers, enema) and would like to try more.As for what Im seeking... Well Ive recently returned to the UK after a few years of working overseas in a very BDSM-unfriendly part of the world so a little bit rusty! Would be nice to find someone to show me the ropes again (pun intended!) and see where things lead. Im more interested in something that has the potential to lead to a normal LTR but where BDSM is a part of the private life.Anyway, if you want to know anything else, just me a message.












 Submissive Male

 Near Newcastle 

 United Kingdom

 5' 8"

 186 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Female

Female Led Couples


Online Romance


 Being blindfolded

 You tying me up

 Being massaged


 Online Chatrooms (Expert)

 Web Surfing (Expert)


 Bar Hopping (Expert)

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining (Beginner)



 You disciplining me with a cane (Beginner)

 Being allowed to wear your collar (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Rear End Play (Beginner)

 Being gagged by you (Beginner)

 You putting me on a leash (Beginner)

 Being allowed to give you massages (Beginner)

 Munches (Beginner)

 You deciding what I wear

 Role Playing (Beginner)

 Sensory Play

 Shibari (Beginner)

 Being spanked by you (Beginner)

 Wax Play (Beginner)

 Board Games

 Card Games (Beginner)

 Comedy Shows

 Puzzle Games

 Science Fiction (Beginner)

 Simulation Games


 Cooking for you

 Photography (Beginner)

 Badminton (Beginner)




 Gardening (Beginner)

 Soccer (Beginner)

 Curious About:

 Beachcombing (Beginner)



 Body Worship







 Genital Punishment

 Foot Worship

 Gas Masks


 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical fetish play

 Plastic Wrap Bondage


 Suspension Bondage



 Archaeology (Beginner)

 Astronomy (Beginner)




 Electrical Play


 Computer Expert

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Journal Entries:
9/23/2013 2:17:16 AM
So another week and I'll be back home in the UK for good after a few years spent in a very BDSM-unfriendly part of the world working! Looking forward to getting home and helpfully dipping a toe or 2 back into the BDSM world. Be nice to start making more new contacts on the scene and perhaps being shown the ropes again ;)

10/13/2012 9:03:21 AM

Well... Another year older. Another year wiser? Who knows!

2/5/2010 2:48:28 AM
Scam warning...

Just to alert people, there seems to be a scam which is finding people via this site which uses some robots on AOL and Yahoo.
Someone will send you to a profile and ask you to add them. You'll get some "small talk" to start, which will probably involve the person having to go and let the dog out. A few lines later you'll be asked to sign up to a site; in my case it was something like bootyparty (dot) com so you can session with this person.

I have seen 2 of these now, but not signed up for either. If you google for "Do you have a doggy? What kind?" (include the quotes) there should be a pastie (dot) org which gives an insight into the way the bot works - there are phrases it looks for and standard responses it will give.

1/13/2010 1:40:04 PM
Right, off on holiday tomorrow. No idea if I'll have much access to this place while I'm away, so may be February before you hear from me if you message me.

4/16/2009 5:29:43 AM
Well, I am now more or less settled overseas. Been here nearly 7 weeks now. Internet is not the most reliable, so may be on fairly sporadically. But it's better than nothing :)
Anyway, look forward to hearing from people soon!

5/17/2008 6:57:00 AM
OK, so I have been sent a 20% off voucher for an online bondage equipment shop... Any suggestions on what I should get with the voucher?

5/21/2007 1:42:02 PM
#when i wake up, yeah i know i'm gonna be
#i'm gonna be the man who wakes up to you...

ok, so i have recently borrowed the proclaimers greatest hits album from the library, and am really enjoying it!
if this just bad and wrong and i need punishing for it,; or am i just a latecomer to the great band? ;) answers on a postcard (or riding crop!)

4/14/2007 6:46:06 AM
Well, I'm back from the middle east! Been up since 6am yesterday morning since I couldn't sleep on the flight... Not enough legroom, and a few occasions where the seatbelt signs were on, including once to fly around a pretty intense lightning storm. One or 2 bursts were so bright it looked like daylight outside instead of the back of night!
Wouldn't object to being brought a chinese tonight, followed by a nice relaxing massage, followed by sleep!

3/31/2007 2:09:29 AM
Am off on holiday today for 2 weeks. Should be back sometime in the afternoon on April 14th. Feel free to leave a message and I'll get back to you on my return.

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