Hello, my name is Phil and I've joined this site to look for a dominant woman who wants to be in control in a FLR with a outwardly successful guy who is completely and utterly subservient to her in every way.
I am 42 and I've been in a vanilla relationship now for nearly 20 years. I have a child in this relationship. Why then am I looking on here for a relationship? Because this one has all but ended, we have stayed together for the sake of our child but she is only ten and so this could go on another ten years and that's not fair on either of us. I know I want to be in a FLR, something my current partner would not go along with. I don't want to just quit and leave us all in limbo, perhaps that's being selfish of me, but I'd like to understand that I'd found the right person first.
My experience with FLR and dominant women is almost non-existant, but I know I want someone to take control of my life. I'm a successful IT project manager and I've been with my company for almost 20 years. I am completely happy and confident at work and can continue to work there to bring in the money.
If you want a relationship where you are demonstrably dominant in public as well as in private then I have no issue with that, similarly if you want an outwardly "vanilla" relationship that changes once the doors are closed I am perfectly happy with that also. I am not expecting this relationship to be all about sex, I am not having some rediculous "50 shades of grey in reverse" fantasy, I understand that this will be about servitude and submission first and foremost.
I would very much like to hear from you if you are interested. For obvious reasons I'm not going to post photos but they will be available on request. If you would like to know anything more please contact me.
Phil.
5/9/2013 5:06:05 PM
So I've been looking for a couple of weeks now, I just seem to keep finding Fin Dommes which as interesting as that might be its not really what I am seeking. If there are any ladies seeking a submissive husband please take a look
