Allowing the minutia of your life to gain significance, well beyond any normal level of reality, seems to infect more than a few people around here - and while I waste words whining about them - these creatures subject others to their stunted behavior. don't waste your time and life on such things folks - you aren't as weak as you think - nor they as strong (in fact they have NO strength that you don't give them).

I've discovered an astonishing number of fake Dommes - arrogant, stupid, self righteous - thinking they know everything there is to know about people - they do this to satisfy their own agendas and personal belief systems to help them cope with the manufactured illusions that they live their lives by - meanwhile blaming others for having an option that differs from theirs.