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 txblkchick

 Submissive Female

 Houston 

 Texas

 5' 7"

 135 lbs

 35

 Bisexual

 African Descent

 03/04/10

 

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only

Roommates

A Poly Household

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 Antique Shows

 Travel

 Hiking (Expert)

 Running

 Weightlifting

 Body Worship

 Bondage

 Cages

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Gags

 Hair Pulling

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 Obedience Training

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 Comedy Shows

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 Science Fiction

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 Beachcombing

 Clubbing

 Fishing

 Shopping

 Bicycling

 Horseback Riding (Beginner)

 Anal Play (Beginner)

 Begging

 Blindfolds

 Canes and Crops

 Collars

 Corsets

 Exhibitionism (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community

 Foot Worship

 Housework

 Humiliation

 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Objectification

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 Public Play

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 Spanking

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 Renaissance Faires

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 Crossdressing

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 Outdoor Bondage

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 Shibari

 Watersports / Toilet

 Knitting

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 Veganism

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 Cybering

Hello my lovely kinksters! Just to confirm I do have a Dom. Looking for females for casual or long term fun in the Houston area. Maybe even travel to the right one for occasional fun. Dommes would be better since Im sexual submissive by nature. Bisexual sub men that are open for mmf with my Dom are always welcome. If you are listed as Dom or not listed as bisexual I am not interested. If you lie on your profile to strangers you will lie about anything. Any other questions just ask. Cant wait to hear from yall muah! And please dont refer to me as Goddess Miss Mistress etc. Im not dominant. Dani will do

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6/21/2016 7:44:02 AM
Finally got a Tumblr account. Same name

6/19/2016 9:59:03 AM
Happy Father's day kinky ones!

6/19/2016 9:59:01 AM
Happy Father's day kinky ones!

6/1/2016 3:51:40 PM
Hello my fellow kinky ones! Never did this before but figured why not. Currently looking for a female to fulfill a cuckquean fantasy. Basically I will be the female version of a cuckold. Would love someone in the Houston area but traveling to you is an option as well. Female can be switch sub or Domme but understand my Owner will be in control of the situation. I am willing to cam verify and would like to meet in person sooner than later. If you aren't camera shy even better but definitely not required.

5/20/2016 5:40:23 PM
I'm right in the middle of the book "Domination and Submission: A BDSM handbook" by Michael Makai. It really is a good read. I don't necessarily agree with everything in the book but it's an awesome intro to the lifestyle I wished read it years ago.

3/31/2016 1:08:44 PM
Hello my fellow kinky ones! It's been way too long since I have written one of these. I have had so many topics go through my mind and it will take some time catching them up with my journal entries. I am back with my Owner and yes I am very much still over the moon about it. And I have been lucky enough to make some meaningful connections on here. Hopefully sooner than later I will have my sister to complete our household.  Definitely can't wait for that. I am allowed to play with male subs and switches but since I have no desire to dominate anyone, I mainly look for switches. I have been told I have a lot of choice considering I'm a slave. Its something I have to laugh off. I love this site but I find so many are judgemental on here. Every Master has their own training style. I think it may even change depending on the slave. But it seems so many feel the need to compare and criticize another's method.  Why can't we just support each others journey? Plus I think if you don't agree with another's method you should at least tell that person not their slave. To me it seems very undermining and petty. I don't believe this lifestyle is a one size fits all. And that's the beauty of it, there is something for everyone right? Well hopefully lol. And I will eventually post new pics for the future switches I will meet and of course my future sister :). Stay kinky :*!!!

3/27/2016 3:20:11 AM

3/27/2016 3:19:56 AM

3/27/2016 3:17:09 AM
Happy Bunny day!

3/27/2016 3:16:55 AM
Happy Bunny day!

3/27/2016 3:16:41 AM
Happy Bunny day!

3/3/2016 6:37:35 PM
Looking for munches in the Houston area!

2/14/2016 1:03:39 PM
Happy Heart day kinksters!!!!

2/6/2016 10:09:37 PM
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1/16/2016 1:28:18 AM
i am my Masters property, all i do i do for Him To make it clear...I am back with my Dom. And looking for fun with females and select males switches? Real time only. PoP-Property of Patrick

1/16/2016 1:21:09 AM
They are the ones who bring meaning to our lives, who happen to inspire, who spark a fire that we carry with us for the rest of our days, who are but pillars of hope and sometimes sacrifice, life-changers, life-savers, catalysts. Chirag Tulsiani

1/8/2016 7:25:57 PM
Hello my fellow kinky ones! I'm hoping 2016 has started off amazing for y'all. I have to say mine has been very kind to me. When I started my journey I wanted to show not only the good but the bad parts in my search. Unfortunately I have hit a bad spot. That's where the apology comes in. It's mainly to some of the Doms I have spoken to. Many I was able to contact individually and apologize. I think I got most of them but to the ones I missed this is for you. When I started searching again I thought I was ready but I realized I wasn't. The truth is I was trying to recreate my previous Dom in another. I honestly haven't gotten over him and I shouldn't have started looking again. It wasn't fair to you and I am sorry. I have always been an advocate for people to be themselves. And that's not what my actions were saying. So once again I'm sorry. But it did make me really consider if I could serve another. I have heard many opinions on the matter. And I honestly don't think I can. As much as I love to serve. As much as I crave it. I only crave to serve one. I know I cannot serve anyone else. There would be no passion behind it. I would be just going through the motions not living for another or doing anything I could to see my Dom smile. It wouldn't be real. Serving someone but secretly wishing they were someone else. And that's just not right. That just doesn't seem right.

12/31/2015 4:58:29 PM
Happy New Year to all you kinky ones!!!!!

12/29/2015 12:18:12 PM
Hello kinky ones! My best friend asked me a question the other day that I have thought about often. I will post my answer to that question but I really wanted to hear from you guys as well. Would I ever give up on finding a poly household? I wanted to know if you guys would give up on finding a Dom, slave, sub etc? Would you just settle for a vanilla life? I'm not judging just really am curious to know other views.

12/24/2015 10:11:28 AM
Something I found that I thought others would enjoy. http://www.bornslaves.com/principles.html PRINCIPLES & COMMITMENT INTRODUCTION AND TRANSMITTAL By SlaveMaster INTRODUCTION So, you think you want to be a slave? Whether or not to become a slave is probably the most important decision you will ever make, and it will probably be one of the most difficult. If you are truly meant to be slave, and don't pursue becoming one, you risk living unfulfilled, denying your destiny, and living with the "hole" in your life that keeps telling you that something is missing. If you decide to become slave, then you must go through the arduous, challenging task of giving up your ego, abandoning being human, and accepting every experience necessary to become that which you are meant to be. Either way, a difficult decision. There is no easy route, nor alternative. You must be convinced that being a slave is the very best thing you can do with your life. This process will replace who you are now. Becoming a slave requires a devoted commitment to the truth. All slaves are human before being BORN. Most of the experiences required to become a slave, you cannot even imagine now, as a human. You cannot become a slave out of desperation, or out of a lack of other choices. Every day, all the way through the process, you must know that you are doing the very best possible with your life. Slavery cannot be a second choice, it must be your first choice. This is not like arranging a trip to Disneyland. This isn't entertainment. This isn't for play. It is a very serious process, and a serious commitment. This will define who you are, how you act, how you live, and what you do, for the rest of your life. The process develops through sessions that give you the chance to become informed about what that means, and time to incrementally accept and adjust to what is being learned. Ultimately, you must be made to accept absolute obedience, without the possibility of questioning your SlaveMaster, in any area, no matter how small, forever. Submitting to each step of the processes that will make you a BORN slave will be the last decision you will ever have the right to make. A slave cannot decide to become a slave; it can only decide to go through the processes that make it a slave. If a slave could decide to be a slave, it could just as easily decide not to be. This is a real process, that results in real slavery, with the same, real, lack of control and decision making that characterizes slavery. This is not an agreement, this is not a legal issue, not a contract. This is a planned process. It develops an animal that cannot live in any other way, but in absolute obedience to one man, for whom it lives its life, and whose life it lives. A slave is a special creature of the universe. it is marked with a calling to do what humans cannot. it is developed, strengthened, empowered, given structure, fabric, and timbre that makes it immutable, solid in its self identity and self esteem. Complete obedience is the price of admission. Any less, and a man remains too weak to be slave. it must also experience everything necessary to know what a slave must know to live as slave, before being BORN to slavery. BORN slaves are qualified to be slaves, and know they're qualified. Becoming a slave requires a tremendous amount of effort and time, both for the slave and for its SlaveMaster. For those who are geographically separated, there is also the expense of travel. There is an emotional and psychological cost that comes from being exposed to a strong, single truth. All of life's issues, focused and placed before the slave must all be dealt with. There is no escape, and nothing goes away, it is only postponed at best. There is no way to cheat the process, and no short cuts. Regardless of experience, no one has a head start. Absolute honesty is a slave's creed, and is critical to beginning the relationship with your potential, permanent Owner, your SlaveMaster. Too much is at stake to be dishonest, and the process uncovers every truth, even those invisible to you now. It is futile even to hope that any dishonesty can succeed...."

12/24/2015 9:40:45 AM
Happy holidays my fellow kinksters!!!

11/25/2015 6:26:09 PM
Happy Turkey day!!!! Gobble Gobble t

11/18/2015 6:04:40 PM
Katherine Mansfield Risk! Risk anything! Care no more for the opinions of others, for those voices. Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth.

11/14/2015 10:20:12 PM
Prayers to everyone in Paris.

11/8/2015 4:37:33 AM
As long as I have a want, I have a reason for living. Satisfaction is death. George Bernard Shaw

10/31/2015 10:04:43 AM
Happy Halloween!!!

9/28/2015 10:23:09 PM
Hello my fellow kinksters! How I have missed our chats lol! Wow so much has changed this year and though I have wanted to share it with you, the wound was fresh and open so I needed more time. I have often debated on journaling the negative aspects of my journey. I feel like there is so much negativity in the world so far...do I really want to add to it? The truth is life sucks sometimes. And I go through my own doubts and struggles like everyone else. But I do try to stay positive and feed out positive energy daily. That being I am not with my Dom anymore. Even after separating it has taken me time to even consider looking for another. I have discussed with others how tough it is to move on. I have asked myself am I really ready for this? And I really don't know. I can only try. It's easy to give up. But when you are really passionate about something you have no other option. And that's how I feel I have no other option. The first Dom I met talked about a poly household and I even discussed it with a potential sister. Though his version of a poly household didn't fit mine,the idea was implanted. And I knew it was the missing link. The idea of a poly family! I just wasn't sure if I could find someone who actually wanted the same household as me. And I did. We tried our best to make it work but it didn't work out. This is why I'm for only looking for local Doms. But for two years I had my personal inspiration. So many things were realized by in that time. The main thing being a Master inspires serve he doesn't demand it. I am not a follower by any means. Most of us aren't. I say that because of our lifestyle preferences. And our courage to not follow society's version of what defines relationship. So for someone to inspire me or anyone to follow them says something. For any Dom to inspire lifetime servitude says a lot. I do wonder if I will find that kind of inspiration again. I do know I won't settle for less. No one should. Muah D

7/3/2015 12:19:40 PM
Happy 4th of July my kinksters!!!

5/25/2015 2:16:29 PM
I hope everyone is having a fun and safe Memorial day! Don't forget who made it possible so we can live free!!!

5/10/2015 8:08:38 AM
Happy Mommy day!

4/20/2015 1:28:12 PM
Hello kinksters! As a lot of you know I am working a blogging website. And I have ideas in my mind I will discuss but I wanted to know what you guys would wanted to discuss. Also, I wanted to know anyone in Houston area into digital photography that would be interested a paying gig. After all I need pics to go with the webpage. Hope all are having an amazing day and are staying kinky!!!

4/5/2015 5:45:03 AM
Happy Easter my fellow kinksters!!!

3/25/2015 9:11:52 PM
Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1803-1882 Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising which tempt you to believe that your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires ... courage.

2/5/2015 11:47:13 AM
They are the ones who bring meaning to our lives, who happen to inspire, who spark a fire that we carry with us for the rest of our days, who are but pillars of hope and sometimes sacrifice, life-changers, life-savers, catalysts. Chirag Tulsiani

2/2/2015 2:49:47 PM

i am my Masters property, all i do i do for Him To make it clear...I am back with my Dom. But always looking for fun with females! And I will cam verify for females. PoP-Property of Patrick  


1/18/2015 11:13:31 AM
Hello my fellow kinksters! I hope this new year has blessed you new prospects and an optimistic view about 2015. Last year was such a rough year for me on many levels. But that's life sometimes. But I feel blessed for all the struggles because it always presents the opportunity to not only prove what you are made of but more importantly to grow. And of course though I lost him for a while I do have my Dom again. This year definitely feels like its "the" year for us to me. And I'm always right about those kinds of feelings. I'm hoping you guys are feeling the same about your relationships. I'm sorry about not writing so much in my journal last year. I feel like I was in limbo last year for personal reasons unrelated to my Dom and I made mistakes that haunted my relationship with him. Even though there were million and one reasons why I didn't deserve it, he gave me a second chance. I feel like the luckiest slave! I am so ready make new friends and learn more about becoming a better slave and of course person. I would just love to find an experienced slave mentor male or female. I promise I have no secret agenda just want to learn more from a slave's perspective. I will begin setting up a website for my blog by summer to document my training and just my life as slave. I'm thinking "A slave's life" lol. And of course I will take more pics. Maybe you guys can help me with different ideas. If only I could tie myself up and take them lol.

12/30/2014 4:24:35 PM
Happy New Year my fellow kinksters!!!

12/20/2014 5:14:36 PM
Happy holidays my fellow kinksters! !!

11/29/2014 2:10:03 PM
A man should look for what is, and not for what he thinks should be. Albert Einstein Hello there kinksters!  I hope everyone had a lovely Thanksgiving. Mine was a day of reflection.  My week did not start off well but I refuse to not to give thanks on what I have been blessed with. I haven't written in my journal in a while but I do have so many thoughts and feelings I want/need to get out. I want to share my life epiphanies with you because I feel like some one needs to hear it. And I definitely need to release it. I am glad you guys enjoyed my last entry. I have been pressed for time but I will share the gems I find the net with you.      One that keeps popping up in my mind is acceptance of others whether you are in agreement or not. Being without a Dom was a very sad time in my existence but it wasn't because I was without a Dom but because I was without MY Dom. I wasn't looking for another. I wasn't even considering replacing him. I honestly just wanted to chat and meet new people. I stated this in my profile and repeated it if necessary by email to some. But it seems most just read unowned and stop there. To say it got frustrating telling others I'm only looking for friendship is an understatement.  And it made me think: All of these Doms wanted to be accepted and respected for their stands on bdsm and their god given right to dom but most wouldn't accept that this slave's right to have beliefs and her choice to decide who she serves especially when its not you.  Yes I want to serve but what is my service worth if its given so easily.   I cannot tell even count how stressful it was going back and forth with some over me serving them. I said no. And alot were not accepting that answer because its not what they wanted to hear. It makes you sound so ordinary. If that makes sense.  I know you want a slave of your own. I get it. But trying to force feed yourself on someone else won't work either. And I don't mean for this to sound negative because I think I talked to some potentially awesome Doms. I just didn't get see them in their true nature.  At least that's what I tell myself 😉! I will write my part 2 of acceptance soon.

11/27/2014 8:02:30 AM
Happy Thanksgiving day kinksters!

11/10/2014 8:32:13 PM
10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive     The best way I’ve heard submission described was at M/s conference in 08. Submission is not following your Master. It is preceding him, clearing the path, and reporting back to him on any pitfalls or problems you see ahead. It is trusting him, to guide and navigate, to keep you safe.   The most common way I’ve heard Dominance described uses words that I wouldn’t use to describe a dog. Especially today – there are a LOT of anti-Dominant posts, and a lot of “Submissives Deserve XYZ” posts. But one thing I’ve almost never heard…what do Dominants deserve? Where is our "10" list?     1. Know your Responsibilities.   Dominants have responsibilities. We hear a LOT about that in our community. We have the responsibility to be forgiving and understanding. We have the responsibility to be strong and independent. We have the responsibility to be wise and patient, and to be controlled and in control of ourselves and our partners. We have to accept accountability for whatever happens with the submissive. We have the responsibility to take responsibility (and accountability) for both our actions, and (often) our submissives’ actions.Well, submissive responsibilities exist too. (No, not “suck my dick daily” kinds of responsibilities. Those are play rules, or relationship kinks.) Responsibilities in submission are supposed to include communication with your Dominant. Having patience with the relationship. Working to build trust with your partner. And having realistic expectations of the relationship, while understanding the meaning of discretion when things need work. You know…all the stuff below?     2. Remember Patience?   Patience is a virtue, virtue is a grace, and grace is a little girl…When you start dating someone – you don’t ask them to marry you the first week out. Nor the first month, or (hopefully) the first year. So why are you in a rush to be “collared” immediately? Why is there this pressure to invent a myriad variety of “collars” to validate every single status change in the relationship? Date. Hang out. Talk.The same with fetishes. I understand you are a HUGE anal slut. But let’s build up to that. Yes, I can probably put together a scene with 23 different ass sensation toys, and a half dozen different positions, with FancyRopeWork (tm). But why? Let’s share other experiences. Let’s learn each other before moving into what should be a permanent relationship.It takes time before a dominant becomes YOUR Master. It takes time for us to learn your little idiosyncrasies. It takes experience to recognize your body language, and to be able to intuit your fears and your feelings. There will be false starts, and stops, and pitfalls, and awkward situations. If you actually want a relationship with your Dominant…be realistic about it. (see #3)Expecting us to immediately rock your world...it happens sometimes. But most of the time, it takes time and effort before we know you well enough to really rock out.     3. Have Realistic Expectations.   You aren't perfect? Well, neither am We. We’re learning every day. A good Dominant (one who will eventually be worthy of the title “Master”) is constantly working on those imperfections, through self-help, personal exploration, educational classes, and reading. Expecting a 29 year old to pay for all your dates, have a fully equipped dungeon, be the perfect boyfriend, help pay your rent when you’re behind, god-like lover, and be a Master-of-All-Toys is, frankly, naive.It takes a lot of work to build a relationship - and that relationship has to be built from both ends. We understand that you are sacrificing a lot when you surrender your body - often, so are we (see #9). We are as giving as we can be of our time, our money, and our emotions. It hurts us just as much when we're dropped, dumped, manipulated or lied to. But, you may have noticed, we don’t have “Dominant support” groups, by and large. So while you’re risking more of your body and heart on the front end – we’re risking a hell of a lot of our soul and our mind on the back end.If we’re with you, and making an honest effort…respect that. We respect you (even when we’re calling you cunts while whipping your ass) for your ability to take pain and suffering and then turn it into something amazing. We recognize your talents and efforts. Please, recognize ours.     4. Consistency.   It’s a real roller coaster ride to have a submissive who is one person in the morning, another at night, and a complete third when she skips her meds (see #7). And roller coasters are fun…but they don’t make for great daily activities.We’re going to do the best we can to enforce the rules consistently. To respond to your needs as much as we can, when we can. To be the same Dominant on Monday that we are Saturday night. What we ask in return? The same thing from you. Make the effort (see #9) to follow those rules. Don’t give us the A#1 effort Saturday night at the party, and then just coast on the relationship for the rest of the week.There’s something to be said for a sub who is the same Monday through Sunday in her level of devotion, her level of commitment, and her level of caring. We honestly don’t care if that level is low, medium, high, or barely existent. We’ll work with that – that’s what a Dominant does. We motivate, we train, and we guide. But if you’re giving us a different persona and a different level of submission every other day… the greatest Master in the scene couldn’t deal with that 24/7. Neither can we.     5. Discretion within the relationship.   Yeah, so. Going online and chatting in a slaves group, or on , about how your Master doesn't scratch your itch, or how you're so disappointed he didn't do SexyMoveA#1 last night? That's not cool. We don't (believe it or not) go around gossiping with every Dominant we know about how tight your ass was last night, or how funny you looked sobbing after an emotional edge play scene. Please have the same courtesy - don't assume that just because you're the submissive, you can talk about anything in our relationship that you want to and call it "submissive sharing". If you have a genuine issue in the relationship - we should be the first person you talk to about it. Not your online friends. See #10 about that.This is not an endorsement of abuse. If you are being abused (physically, emotionally, financially, psychologically, sexually, etc.), for the love of God, go to your local shelter. Your nearest victim advocate. Or the closest police station.But please bear in mind – below that particular level? Relationships will always have problems…talking to your partner solves a LOT of them.     6. Trust.   (No really, actual trust, not "earn it or else" trust)No, this doesn’t mean trust me immediately from word one. That would be insane.But this ties in with #8 and #9. You’ve heard the old adage “trust takes time”? Well, trust also takes effort. And communication (see #10). From both parties. Trust is a two way street. If your Dominant has to constantly prove that he’s worthy of your trust, then why are you with him?I was once with a woman who had me convinced that it was a Dominant’s job to constantly be earning and re-earning trust. I heard the mantra of “a Master /earns/ trust” at least once a day. The entire relationship was one long marathon of constant effort to “earn” her trust by doing everything she wanted, and never disagreeing with her. It took a slap ‘round the head and shoulders by a senior Dominant and very trusted friend before I realized that I was being used.     7. Sanity.   This is a no brainer. But unfortunately, it rarely gets spoken of in our lifestyle. If you have depression, bi-polar, manic episodes, or have been described by previous friends, dominants or family members as a "wild and crazy" type...the odds are that you, in fact, need therapy. Possibly medication. There’s no shame in that – a HUGE percentage of people in this modern world have psychological issues that need to be addressed with pills or therapy. Please seek it BEFORE approaching a dominant. We, in return, will attempt to do the same for our own issues. Entering deeply emotional and effort-related relationships should be done AFTER the mental health issues are addressed and under control.     8. Stop Recycling the Past.   Your last Dominant hurt you. Or didn't measure up. I understand that, personally. My last submissive didn't either (see #7). But that said...this is us, starting fresh. I certainly want to know if your last Dom was abusive, hurtful, or cruel. You need to know if my last submissive was, too. That's part of the whole "communication skills" thing in #10 and it will affect how we interact. I do NOT, however, need to hear a daily address list of the A-Z of everything you ever disliked about him...or a weekly update on how I compare to him. Considering that I probably don't do any of the former, and don't care about the latter. This is a new relationship. You wouldn't enjoy me constantly comparing you, out loud, to my last girl. You wouldn't enjoy an intimate partner constantly comparing you to their last lover. I don't enjoy it either. Keep the past, in the past.     9. Honest Effort and Understanding.   You want us to know how hard submission is? Well, we want you to know how hard Domination is. We have to think in three dimensions about the emotional and psychological impact of everything from our tone of voice to our tools, from our clothes and cologne to our cock and cunt hair. It's exhausting at times, and just like submissives...sometimes we burn out. Sometimes we're too tired to be SparkleMasterLeatherDom/me. And just like we are expected (by our Dominant brothers and sisters, if not by our submissives) to be consistently understanding and supportive of slaves rights and feelings...we deserve a little consideration ourselves.     10. Communication Skills.   Domination AND submission. Master AND slave. Top AND bottom. Please note the "and". You AND me. Kenova AND Cassie. Snowy AND Toy. The "and"? That has a lot of meaning. It means that just as much as you expect us, the Dominants, to communicate with you about your training and performance...we expect the same. We deserve the same. If you have concerns - you need to talk to us, not post it on . If you feel hurt, you need to sit down and have a heart-to-heart with your Dom, not slam them to all of your friends. If you honestly believe that your Dom has problems? Talk to them about it. Be a big girl/boy/boi/slave/slut/whore/bottom/queer/toy/androgyne.But if you can't communicate at least as well as you expect your Dominant to communicate to you? If you aren’t making the honest effort (see #9) to become a better communicator? Then you're the problem, not the Dom. Because everyone needs a reminder*

8/12/2014 9:44:50 PM
Hello my fellow kinksters!

It has been forever since I wrote in here. I have try to start entries but just couldn't find the words. As you can see from my profile I am unowned. Its such a depressing state. Some days are definitely harder than others. Sometimes its a real struggle to even get out of bed. But the messages of encouragement from you guys really helps beyond words. Its a hard feeling/state to be in for me. I have been unowned before and I felt lost but this time I feel empty. That's why I am not currently looking. I would be lying if I said I didn't miss my old Dom. It still makes me physically nauseous to think of kneeling to someone else.

That being said I still chat with others and one person asked "What would I look for in a Dom if I were looking?". I told him a person who had a good heart. Someone who was honest and honorable. A person I respected. I was told I asked for too much. And I thought what a sad world we live in when a person with those qualities is too much to ask for. I didn't ask for someone rich, famous, model good looks or that would promise me an easy life. I am realistic and understand even a Dom is person with flaws and I will accept and embrace them. I have flaws and all I want to be is accepted by my Owner. It is my belief a slave should make his/her Owner's light shine brighter because that is the effect they have on them.

I realized how much that was true now. I have said in previous journal entries how I have changed from serving him and its just unreal. I used to have dreams but now I have a vision. I have accomplished so much in the short time and its because of him. I don't believe anything is out of reach now. This includes the poly household I see in my mind. Even now. I expect good things and I hope everyone on here does too. We deserve it. Of course at times our light will shine brighter than others but just always let it shine. Muah Danielle

8/10/2014 12:59:56 PM

7/24/2014 7:37:59 PM
The whole secret of existence is to have no fear. Never fear what will become of you, depend on no one. Only the moment you reject all help are you freed. *I love this quote about having no fear. I know some of you took it as an upset moment from parting ways with my Dom but it is not. I just meant taking chances on things that scare us.

4/9/2014 11:12:36 PM
This slave worships her Master so much she even dresses like him ;-).

3/17/2014 9:41:46 AM
Happy St Patrick's day! Muah

2/14/2014 1:54:44 AM
Happy Sex & Candy day! Muah

1/31/2014 1:54:02 PM
All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him. Buddha 563 BC,483 BC A

1/3/2014 10:34:00 AM

"Many a woman borrows a man's heart; very few could possess it."

--Kahlil Gibran


1/1/2014 11:59:01 AM

I am getting far too many texts, phone calls, and emails to response to all but from the bottom of my heart I want to wish everyone emailing me on here Happy New Year! May 2014 bring lots of love, happiness, & kinkiness to you all! Big Muah


1/1/2014 4:13:57 AM

Happy New Year! !! Muah


12/31/2013 1:08:36 AM
Hello my fellow kinksters! I must say I absolutely love your journal entries. They are so raw & honest. I really feel your joy & your pain. It seems of late there has been more pain than joy. Maybe its the holiday season. It can be a depressing time for some. And also being the end of the year doesn't help. Especially if you realize you didn't accomplish all of your goals for the year. I can definitely relate the latter because this time last year was the toughest I had ever been though. I was so confused about what I was being pulled at both ends and realizing I had some tough decisions ahead and not sure if I was ready to make them. It was an emotional and depressing at times journey. But I got through it and so will you guys. Don't let anyone or anything stop you from getting what you deserve:happiness. There are so many emotional vampires, not only on this site but in life, it can be overwhelming. The ones that are meant for you should lift you up not continuously bring you down. Dont let them steal your light because that's what they desire and feed off of. Someone very special to me once say you have to show you are still in the fight. And thats what we are all in right the fight for happiness in our own kinky way ;-). Muah

12/30/2013 3:24:43 PM
Remember it's not how you started the year it's how you finish it! Have naughty fun & a safe New Year Eve ;-) And each year is like a rebirth so what are you going to do in your next life?

12/26/2013 2:55:01 PM

An actually email to my King...



Hello Sir. I hope your time with your family is going well. I was going to make another journal entry but then I thought since you like them so much and they end up being about you anyway why not just write to you in an email. So here goes...



I have been traveling for work and spending a lot of time thinking. Thinking about why I'm so enchanted with you and i smile every time i think of you. And I think or I'm sure its because you get me. Even when I say it wrong and my actions are inadequately expressing what I would like to express. You understand my intentions.



  I'm very inexperienced to this lifestyle and I know I come with a  vast set of issues so for you to still want to train and bre*d with me makes me want to please you even more. 



I wanted you ever since the first time I saw your profile.  It was a very instinctual need to be with you. I know now its because I'm submissive natural and so I would naturally be drawn to someone who is dominate.  



But what was so surprising to me is how at ease I felt around you. I told you get really nervous around new people.  And that is an understatement to say the least. I usually have borderline anxiety attacks around new people.  And I didn't with you. I knew it was coming and you talked me out of it.  It felt so natural being with you. And it freed my mind so I could do what I was born to do: serve you.  



It has changed me completely. I am literally not the same person. It gives a stability I have never had. Knowing there is someone out that gets me. And even though I am unsure about so much in my life right now. I don't doubt what I have with you. And what we will have. 



Muah


12/24/2013 12:53:10 AM

Happy holidays my fellow kinksters!


12/6/2013 7:17:58 PM

If you want a long lasting relationship just follow the golden rule NEVER LIE. Always remember; be kind, be honest, be true, and all of these things will come back to you. 

 

By Collar me username

 

Missjeanette50

 

 


11/28/2013 4:46:34 AM

Happy Turkey Day!!!! :-)


11/11/2013 4:46:28 AM

Thanks to all the Veterans for keeping America free! Muah


11/8/2013 4:42:26 AM

 I'm sorry about the slow response for emails. I am staying in a location where there is like no reception. Muah


10/31/2013 8:18:57 AM
Happy Halloween!!!! :-D

10/22/2013 10:10:43 AM

You know it is really hard to take a grown man or woman seriously when their main profile pic is that if a cartoon. Esp porn cartoons. 


10/21/2013 11:10:34 AM

Man I hate moving!!!


10/18/2013 10:17:03 AM

New pics time!!!


10/15/2013 8:22:28 AM

Treat him like a king...fuck him like a whore-txblkchick 


10/11/2013 9:41:47 AM

Courage is doing what you're afraid to do. There can be no courage unless you're scared.

 -Eddie Rickenbacker, 1890-1973

 Hello my kinky ones! Haven't wrote in my journal in a while and thought I would let you know what I have been pondering for quite some time. I post pics very often and though usually I receive compliments on my pics sometimes I get unpleasant emails because of them. So I figured I will response to those emails head on. It has been said I am teasing Doms with them because in my profile it states I have my Alpha. I wasn't aware Collar Me had so many watchdogs monitoring taken subs and slaves profiles. I was also unaware once taken you couldn't post anymore pics. I guess I didn't get that memo lol. But I think most don't realize why I post them so I will let you know a little about me and my background.

 I grew up in a very conservative household that drilled modesty into my head. I was taught girls shouldn't want or attract attention from the opposite sex. So it was modest attire for me always. These pics represent my growth as person and my accepting what my body was made for sexual use. If someone would have told me I would have pics of my body and face posted anywhere I would have called them crazy. I never even liked my picture taken fully clothed with others. These pics represent how far I have come. I look at them now and it really seems surreal that its me in those pictures. I never thought of my self as photogenic or that I would invoke such passion in others. I have always been the girl that avoided eye contact with others because I am so shy.  A lot of people took it as me being stuck up which makes me sad because I am not at all like that.

 

I actually started taking pics like these because of a Dom that I met last year. He liked pics. But I will tell you that was a struggle. And he even had to laugh at some of my attempts lol. It was just so weird taking them. Now I love it. So if feel like I am trying to lead you on I'm sorry you feel that way but it isn't the case. I am just trying to be a better slave. And conquer my fears hence the quote. I hope everyone is having a lovely day.

 

Muah

Danielle


10/5/2013 7:39:36 PM

So excited just got my Halloween costume!!!! ;-) its called Harbor hottie


10/4/2013 4:09:57 AM

slavery is not about suffering. . . . slavery is about service.  slavery is not about humiliation . . .     . . . slavery is about humility.  slavery is not about pain . . .     . . . slavery is about being present.  slavery is not about being used . . .     . . . slavery is about being of use.  slavery is not about control . . .     . . . slavery is about letting go.  slavery is not about what is done to you . . .     . . . slavery is about what you do for others.  slavery is not about abuse . . .     . . . slavery is about acceptance.  slavery is not about proving anything . . .     . . . slavery is about being real.  slavery is not about contempt . . .     . . . slavery is about respect.  slavery is not about how you look . . .     . . . slavery is about how much you care.  slavery is not about denying yourself . . .     . . . slavery is about being open.  slavery is not about bondage . . .     . . . slavery is about freeing your spirit.  slavery is not about punishment . . .     . . . slavery is about discipline.  slavery is not about being unable to escape . . .      . . . slavery is about being committed.  slavery is not about submission . . .     . . . slavery is about obedience.  slavery is not about fear . . .     . . . slavery is about trust.  slavery is not about sex . . .     . . . slavery is about love.  slavery is not about pleasure . . .     . . . slavery is about happiness 


10/3/2013 8:02:20 AM

You guys are really loving the red! And I'm loving that ;-). Thanks muah


9/25/2013 6:05:05 PM

Far too important not to borrow.. When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you

1. Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.

2. Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.

3. Stop lying to yourself. – You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.

4. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. – The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now. 5. Stop trying to be someone you’re not. – One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.

6. Stop trying to hold onto the past. – You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.

7. Stop being scared to make a mistake. – Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.

8. Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.

9. Stop trying to buy happiness. – Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.

10. Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else. Read Stumbling on Happiness.

11. Stop being idle. – Don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can’t make it to second base with your foot on first.

12. Stop thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.

13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. – Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.

14. Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. – In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.

15. Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.

16. Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”

17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. – Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.

18. Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too. If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.

19. Stop letting others bring you down to their level. – Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.

20. Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. – Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what you know in your heart is right. 21. Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break. – The time to take a deep breath is when you don’t have time for it. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.

22. Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. – Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.

23. Stop trying to make things perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.

24. Stop following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.

25. Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t. – It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.

26. Stop blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.

27. Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.

28. Stop worrying so much. – Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.

29. Stop focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right. 30. Stop being ungrateful. – No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.


9/25/2013 6:49:28 AM
'Everyone deserves to be loved but few deserve to be worshiped.'-txblkchick ;)       WORSHIP 1 : to honor or reverence as a divine being or supernatural power 2 : to regard with great or extravagant respect, honor, or devotion

9/19/2013 2:34:09 PM
I don't know if its the humiliation aspect of it but becoming a cuckquean sounds more and more appealing to me.

9/18/2013 8:18:32 PM
I really can't express the release that happens when my Alpha makes cry from sex. The first time this occurred I knew it would change me. Most guys don't want to hurt me and so the first signs of pain stops them cold. But my Alpha loves the fact that I'm taking so much pain for him. And that's because he could only get half of his cock in. He is so large he would have seriously damaged me if he continued. So you can imagine how intense it was. It was such an accomplishment for me. I wanted to please him so badly but I was also terrified of taking him anally. Esp since vaginal sex with him left me so sore. But as usual my need to bring a smile on my Alpha's face always wins. And trusting he knows how hard to push me. And would never permanently damage me only use me very roughly. He truly understands the role of a slave. My completeness comes from his happiness. It truly has nothing to do with kinky sex. Its from him teaching me how to please him and then letting me do my job. If I can take pleasure from him sexually all the better. But that isn't my goal or objective. Its to satisfy him and keep a smile on his face. I could cum just from hearing him cum. Well if he allows me to ;-). My devotion for him really scares me. He is unlike anyone I have ever met. And it makes me want to stop at nothing to please him. I know this entry seems random but I read a journal entry today of another sub's crying experience and I'm so happy to hear others appreciating the acceptance of sacrifice for their Dom's pleasure. Its very touching and bonding experience. It brings a smile on my face. Muah Danielle

9/17/2013 4:41:31 PM
Man I love Vegas!!!

9/11/2013 2:24:27 PM
With so many superficial elements going on in our lives. Lets not forget this day and what happen 12 years ago and how it changed so many lives. I can still remember where I was when I heard about the towers.

9/6/2013 11:00:04 PM
Going to Las Vegas the weekend of the 14th and looking for some fun places & girls there.

9/3/2013 2:35:43 PM

Hello my kinky ones! I hope everyone had an amazing holiday weekend. August was a rough month for me but it’s over and I have no doubt the rest of the year will ROCK! How can it not football season officially starts next week! And between the guys in those outstanding uniforms and the cheerleaders I am def ready.

 

I haven’t written many journal entries but I have had a chance to chat with some of you which I always love. And I have been asked by many slaves/subs how to approach the dilemma of their Owner/Dom wanting a poly household and them wanting a monogamous relationship. I hate that so many keep their slaves/subs so guarded. I understand it since so many are disrespectful of another one's property but against other slaves/subs suck because how are we to obtain knowledge about how to find a good Owner/Dom. I have had a lot trouble with site because of this. It’s one of the main reasons why I try to record my journey. I hope that it will help others.

 

Now as far as the poly household situation goes. I think that if it’s not for you then you should look for an Owner that wants a monogamous relationship. I personally want a poly household and I have had to turn away guys because it’s not what they want. It isn’t to say that they are bad Doms but just they aren’t compatible with me. A poly household isn’t for everyone. And there are many different types of poly households. Just because there are other slaves doesn’t mean it’s an orgy lol. But man wouldn’t that be nice ;). I think as a slave/sub you really need to know yourself first. I think what confuses a lot of Doms and me is when a girl lists herself as bisexual when she really isn’t. And even as a bisexual it doesn’t mean you want a poly relationship. To me a bisexual is some who can have a full blown relationship with a man or woman, in the same regards as a heterosexual. And I think a lot of women like to play with girls but are too jealous to share their Dom long term. Some girls just play with other women because they are ordered by their Dom to. That’s still a lot different than bringing another girl or guy into the relationship.

 

But I also think a lot of don’t communicate fully with their potential Doms before they are into a serious M/s or D/s relationships. There is a getting to know each phase that I think many rush through. You need to be able to talk to your Dom about the future he or she wants in detail. Every conversation cannot be about sex, at least not if you want it to be long term. You will have to build a respect for them because (if you are a slave) they will control every aspect of your life. And you should want them to. Subs are different. They basically set the tone for the relationship. But for a slave you have to be to the point that you worship your Owner, literally. How can you reach this point if you barely know each other?

 

This is where the hard part (for some at least) comes in. You should have a list of basic questions to ask a potential Dom to know if you are compatible with him or her. And if they don’t want to answer them, run the other way. I emailed my questions about a week or two of getting to know my Alpha. And he answered about 90% immediately. Showing me he has put thought into how this can work and he is serious about a LTR. He didn’t try to avoid them or bully me into thinking I should just trust him. This is how you earn trust and devotion.

Good luck muah Danielle

8/25/2013 3:49:00 PM
Thank you all for responses to my Shibari question. Can't wait to try them out. Muah PS my nipples are really that dark naturally lol. Since I receive about 3 questions a day onthem.

8/24/2013 3:37:08 PM
I'm looking for anyone to give me some pointers or point me to the right website for Shibari. I love rope play and would love to take.pics in it ;-)! I hope everyone is having a lovely day muah!

8/17/2013 11:04:22 PM
Go Texans!!! :-)

7/28/2013 6:37:46 PM

"The True Nature Of A Slave

The true nature of a slave is a prismatic wonder of honor, pride, and self-sacrifice. Within all its glory and surrounded by dedication, obedience and infinite patience, a slave is truly one with the universe. A slave has a great need for structure and form, but they also crave flexibility and acceptance. A slave seeks no recognition, nor award for dedication; they selflessly give of themselves and ask only that they be allowed to serve.

There is nothing so wondrous as to look into the eyes of your slave and see the reflection of your heart laid out before you. I have never known pride until I saw it though the eyes of my slave. To understand at that moment, that it is because of my slave that I am allowed to be whom I wish to be, a Mistress.

There is a purity of spirit within a slave that can be matched by nothing else. There is a sense of respect and honor that knows no bounds. A pride that shows for all to see, and an understanding of self that is beyond most. A slave must know him or herself and must be secure in who they are and all the choices they make in order to serve. When a slave kneels at a Master/Mistresses feet and looks up into those eyes, they know beyond a shadow of a doubt that they are exactly whom they wish to be. Even in a world so devoted to forcing its will upon them, at their Master’s /Mistress’s feet they know freedom."

 

http://dominantguide.com/178/the-psychology-of-slavery-understanding-consensual-slavery/


7/23/2013 10:25:16 PM
Sometimes rum really ROCKS!!!

7/22/2013 10:23:09 PM
I don't understand what is so hard to understand. I am not a Domme. I am a slave. I will not be your Mistress. My Alpha wants a male sub to be used as a cuckhold. You won't have sex with me. And I love it when Doms come to me & ask to serve my Alpha with me. You need to change your profile because you are not a Dom. And I don't want your money. Materials you have do nothing for me. Its the power he has over me as a King and the obedience you show to our King as my sister slave that attracts me to you. Know your place. And to all the Doms show respect for another's property. You show you have intergrty when you do and you are man enough to resist instant gratification. Because I can assure you that you will not get it from me. He will make you earn it. Because a slave is the reflection of the strength of her King.

7/11/2013 12:21:52 AM

I got an email today from a lovely couple saying my recent pics show a more playful side of me. The truth is I am a very playful, easygoing type of girl. I know my journal and sometimes profile can be intense and deep but that is just one side of me. I am a very passionate person esp about my beliefs. And I am a thinker. Learning my true calling as a slave has explained a lot about my destructive tendencies.

 It has really helped me accept certain truths that will benefit me in the long run. Going from being a slut/whore to being my King's slut/whore is one of them ;). Accepting that I shouldn't be allowed to make decisions for myself is another. The biggest and hardest is knowing I can depend on someone and fully trust them.

 I was told once I shouldn't put myself out there. But I would be as fake as most of the Fin Dommes on here if I didn't ;). I am a real person who feels love, hurt, fear, and confusion at times. And if I do I know others do too. You should know you are not alone. When I was down the support I received was overwhelming, unexpected, and at times brought me to tears. And that was from strangers. It meant so much. So I want to share my journey with you and let you see the reality for a slave trying to find her place. 

 I have never been more at peace as I was when I was serving my Alpha. He didn't have to demand it or force it. Just tell me how to serve him. No games or tricks. All he had to do was let me serve him. Let me be what was I was born to be. It was magical. It was my paradise.


7/9/2013 6:03:20 PM
Got this email today from another member who really understands the different bond between a sub & slave. "all one has to do is listen and it helps i have had the fortune to be around a few women who made the transition from sub to slave in the beginning i was painfully unaware of the vast difference between sub and slave in time i learned the amount of time and acceptance it takes a woman to be a slave and the amount of strength required from her and her dom the emotional and mental support is staggering at times as well as the acceptance required of the dom to give more of himself to satisfy the need of his slave. slaves need a bonding with their dom unlike a sub a slaves needs her dom to be centered and show his care and devotion subs do not require as much" Well said. Muah

7/7/2013 2:01:24 AM
Ok new pics time!

7/3/2013 6:11:40 PM
Hope everyone has a safe, fun Independence Day weekend holiday! Happy Bday to the USA!

7/3/2013 12:48:42 AM
My Dom allows me to keep in contact with Doms I have known before we connected. Today one of them informed me he is now a sub and has found a Domme. I ask "I thought you had Dominant Male listed in your profile?". He then informs me that he also has an account for a submissive male. I know...weird! Ok so I then ask why not just have switch account? He tells me because they aren't taken seriously. Well, I wonder why? Look personally I don't think there is a such thing as a switch. If you have been fucked and aren't doing the fucking at anytime then you are a sub. Sorry about the cuss words but its the best way to put it. A true Dom never submits. I don't see a problem with admitting it. Hey I'm a slave. That's why I need more than a Dom. I need a Master. I don't want a "switch". They aren't strong enough for me. And it makes me think "Thank goodness I have found my King!" But whatever you may label yourself as good luck on your journey and I hope you find what you seek. Muah Danielle

7/1/2013 2:33:57 PM
I luv the results so far in my bimbo transformation but I have to say: SURGERY SUCKS!!! Lol. Plus, I feel like my new boobies are taking forever to drop! I'm so ready to take pics of these bad girls! ;-) And I think I found my sister slave. I hope my Alpha will be please with my selection. Since it is always about him in the end. Muah for my Sir!

6/29/2013 11:48:09 AM
Being away from my Dom is painful.

6/28/2013 7:50:50 PM
I'm sorry boys & girls but I am not a Domme, model, or porn star. I'm just a slave. Its just not me sorry unless my Dom tells me otherwise of course ;-). But thanks for the offers. Good luck in your search. Muah

6/28/2013 10:29:27 AM
Have a friend visiting and told him about my plans to become a slave. It feels so nice not to be judged for that decision. If only it was that easy with family lol!

6/21/2013 1:02:24 PM
So excited! Just joined and plan on going to my first luncheon tomorrow. My screenname is txgreychick.Still figuring out the site. Hopefully I will have my profile completed by Sun. Everyone have an awesome weekend!! Muah

6/19/2013 8:14:57 PM
I have been pretty much confined to my home for a while. And its official I'm addicted to Game of Thrones. After I'm done watching all seasons available I'm reading the books. I blame my Alpha ;-)

6/16/2013 8:23:25 AM

Hello my fellow kinksters! I am so bummed out about the video. I really wanted you guys to see me in action. But there isn't a way to post it here. I heard it is possible on  but I am still having issues just emailing it. I will take any recommendations at this point. The file is 292MB and I have tried Dropbox and that didn't work. On the plus side I have gotten to cam with a lot of you and that's always fun. And wishing all fathers a  Happy Daddy's Day! muah


6/11/2013 4:57:36 AM
Ok upon taking a look at video options on collar me. I realize there isn't a way to upload a video. I will have to email it. But don't even bother asking if you can't verify you are real on cam. Its only fair. Plus, the file is fairly large so if you know a way I can easily send let me know. I will prolly use dropbox. Have a lovely day! Muah

6/10/2013 5:51:02 PM

*this sums up slavery to me*




slave acknowledges that its purpose for being is to serve Master’s Will.


its function in life is to please, worship and obey its Master, whose property slave is.


slave swears to always honour its Master through obedience and service to Him.


 

its mind and body are His to use in any way He chooses.


slave realizes that Master is under no obligation to explain His orders or to justify His punishments, but it is under every obligation to obey Him and accept His punishments.


As a slave it lives to worship, obey and please Master, Who gives meaning to its existence.


slave exists to serve


6/10/2013 5:50:38 AM
Hello my fellow kinksters! Well I have met my Dom and started my training with him. I will post a cock training video later on today. But I am very nervous about it since I really hate being in front of a camera. It will be the first of many with him I hope. I cannot wait to introduce you to my King.

6/4/2013 8:35:57 AM
I am a very respectful person. I understand people have boundaries and want them respected. That being said I know not all people are into black men or women, which is fine. We can still be friends. And I understand some only want black women or men. I like white guys. It’s my preference. I wrote that in one of my journal entries. And that preference has been respected by every black man that I received an email from. Yet I hear a lot about how worthless black men and how much they shouldn't be served or worshiped. I want to make it clear I don't feel that way. If you want to worship a BBC do it! So what if a lot of white women love black men or want to worship them. Who cares! It’s a taboo thing just like white men may like black women. Yet, I hear that black men are worthless as a whole. It’s so racist and untrue that it’s just sad. How can you honestly group a whole race together? It’s ridiculous! I don't think nor have I ever believed one race is superior over another. Stupidity doesn't discriminate. And for so many worried about not getting judged for their choice to live the BDSM lifestyle and complaining about the world not being accepting there sure a lot judging on this site. I love all people. I love their energy and I feel like we learn from others. I do like race play but it is just that PLAY. What really pisses me off is it’s such an insult to my father, brothers, uncles, cousins, and nephews. Especially when I hear more often than not how they would love to breed me, because my name is txBLKchick and the baby will be half black. I have met fucked up people from every race and have fucked people from every race or at least tried to lol. One thing I have learned is everyone strives for the same thing: happiness in life. 

6/2/2013 11:03:17 AM
*i am my Masters property, all i do i do for Him* Hello kinksters! Hope everyone is having an awesome weekend. Wanted to give updates. I'm meeting the Dom I am enchanted with this week and hope fully will have video up next week if He approves of course. So I am still not interested in Doms.

5/24/2013 10:04:40 AM
I wanted to give thanks to the men & women of past & present in the Armed Forces this Memorial Day Weekend. Thank you for all your sacrifices so we can live free. Never forgotten. And everyone have a safe & fun weekend! Muah

5/22/2013 11:44:16 AM
 "The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer - because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement, not the possession of a brainless slut". -Ayn Rand 

5/17/2013 7:09:35 AM
Hey my people! I feel like I'm always focusing on the negative in my journal entries. So I wanna change it up. As with any site cm has some less than favorable quirks but overall I love this site. I have met some amazing people and received incredible insight from emails and journals on this site. So though it may get very frustrating and believe me I know fakes are everywhere remember there are genuine people here looking to make a real connection.

5/12/2013 2:42:50 AM
Happy Mommy Day!!!!

5/11/2013 11:48:25 AM
Someone asked if I was scared career-wise about putting a face pic on this site. And the truth is I'm terrified. I work in a male dominated industry and a female has to work 3X as hard to gain the same amount of respect as a male. But I would rather be myself and deal with the consequences then have them believe I'm something else. That includes my family & friends. I understand most won't understand my desire to be a slave. But in the end its my choice and if I'm happy shouldn't they be happy for me? I'm so tired of pretending to be something I'm not. So when I read a Dom wants to appear vanilla to the world and bdsm at home its an instance turn off. And if I can admit what I am as slave how can you not as a Dom? Esp when you have no face pic up. I mean you are a Dom. A king amount men. How can you be worshiped for what you are if we can't see your face?

5/8/2013 10:42:28 AM
Well I'm glad you guys like the shirt. It goes so well with my cage. I guess I have my outfit for my first video. ;-)

5/6/2013 5:40:57 PM
Ok new pic. Tell me what you think

5/4/2013 4:21:11 AM
I get a lot of emails asking me to Dom others. I'm sorry but it just isn't my role to play. I have done it before but it never feels right. I belong on my knees. But maybe we can serve a Dom together. That would be some real fun. Esp me and a bi guy serving a bi Dom. That would be so hot. Sharing a cock with a guy.

5/2/2013 6:00:04 PM
I am very smitten with someone. We will see were it goes. But I know before I am collared. I would like to post a couple of videos and live action pics so you guys can see me in action. And maybe give me some pointers. ;-) Starting to feel like myself again and smiling a lot more. I'm thinking a pic with what a blk girl looks the best in. But I would like to hear your ideas. You guys have the most creative minds.

4/26/2013 3:57:31 AM
I got this email today and thought it was cute. "The most beautiful thing a black girl can wear is cum .."

4/24/2013 4:49:27 AM
I swear when a relationship ends its seems like the end of world it seems. Esp a relationship involving so much trust and control but I am slowly moving on & healing. And its because of the support from you all. Thank you. I didn't realize how strong one has to be to become a slave. Or at least the type of slave I'm striving for. Giving total control. I think the hardest part is financial domination. Because I have always been so independent when it comes to that. So not working will be a shock to me. But I know to tend to all my Owner needs I should stay at home. It scares me but my need to be the perfect slave def trumps that fear. And someone told me the resolution on my primary pic isn't very well so I will try to find some more. I will take more soon. And I have a surprise in June to show you all. It will show my dedication to becoming a good pleasure slave. I just hope my future Master approves. Have an awesome day kinksters ;-)! Muah

4/21/2013 1:11:32 PM
I swear everything happens for a reason and I get the advice I need just when I need it. I got this email from a stranger today: If you'll excuse my intrusion, I'd like to say a few words. I don't know a whole heck of a lot about S&M (At least, you know, compared to some people) but relationships are kind of my forte... There are three mistakes people tend to make that I wish I saw less of. The first is the people who try to hold onto a relationship that hurts one or all of the people involved. Sometimes the pieces don't fit. It doesn't mean someone is right or wrong, it just means they aren't right for each other. There's nothing more tragic in my opinion than a couple devoting their lives to each other, and being unable to see that they're only devoting their lives to each other's misery. The second mistake that happens all too often, is that one or all enter without a clear expectation of what they want, or where they're going with it. It seems to me that it's harder on the submissive, because they are so often convinced that their position is to follow meekly, and never bring up what their concerns are. They tend to feel that they've failed, and that's almost never true. Not everything can be planned for, but the broad strokes should at least be talked about. Where do you want to be in five years? What direction is our relationship going? What will you want from your partner in terms of communication, affection and time? The third thing, is all in the aftermath of a relationship that didn't work. And I'd like to place emphasis on didn't work, it didn't fail. It just didn't work. You learn from it, and keep your head held high. So many people spend months, even years, agonizing over the mistakes they've made, or all of the if I had only sentiments that they miss out on opportunities to appreciate a clear blue sky. I'm not saying don't take time to get your emotions in order, but I am saying do so, and get back on your is too beautiful, and entirely too short to let any setback keep you down. After all, as the Tibetans would say, losing hope is the only true tragedy. I don't know everything, though. Give it some thought, if it helps, then I am glad. If it does not, then I am still glad to have tried. Feel free to send me a message, if you're ever so inclined. I'm always happy to talk. - Will PS; Not that it's any of my business, but you're beautiful. *Thank you much Will*

4/17/2013 7:03:17 PM
I got an email today that has really opened my eyes. I always assumed the sub did something wrong if the relationship goes sour. It never occurred to me that the Dom may be in the wrong. Because of my nature to please I hold a lot on my shoulders and blame myself if someone is unhappy. But I'm learning I need a gentle Dom/Domme. I don't mean sexually of course but one that understands the major transition I am making. And is willing to help me through the process. I didn't disobey my Mistress. I would never disobey my Owner. Its not in my nature. If I am owned by one then I'm trusting them completely. I think a lot of Doms don't understand the responsibility they have if they own another person. I say this because I get so many emails stating they would like to relocate me & own me. This is the first email. My question is why? Wanting to have kinky sex with someone & owning them aren't the same. You know nothing about me. Owning someone is so much more than sexual. Your slave will complete you. As you will her. You will feel so much more than you ever have before. You will become a stronger person because your needs will be met. And you know your search is over. Life will begin for you. As it will for your sub because her desire to serve and be loved for it will be fulfilled. Your bond will be for life.

4/16/2013 10:31:25 AM
From the bottom of my heart I wanted to say thank you for emails. This has been a very difficult time for me and your words really help. I wasn't expecting such emails from strangers. I do know what I am and who I was meant to be. I don't doubt that. I realize it will take time to get over her. Its normal. But she did confirm that I need to be owned and how complete I will be once I am again. Its hard for a slave to breathe without an owner. The natural order is off when this happens. I know I will breathe again. I am lucky because I communicate with some awesome mentors that remind me that I have a true submissive's heart and my Master/Mistress will come for me. For now I wait. Thank you all. And I am keeping the pics up. It helps with the transition of becoming a slave full time. And makes me feel closer to my bdsm community. Big muah Danielle

4/13/2013 11:44:08 PM
Ok I have been drinking so I have the courage to post this pic. But don't be surprised if I take it down tomorrow lol

4/11/2013 6:15:57 PM
I'm sorry guys been super busy with work but I haven't forgot about you all. I have quite a few that follow my journal entries and there will be more soon. Promise ;-) Not to change the subject but I just wanted to say I so admire everyone that shows their face in their profile pics. I'm a very shy & private person but I have been trying to build the strength to put mine up. I know when I become a full time slave I will have no choice anyway. But I would like everyone to know what I look like esp if they want to consider me as their slave. Muah Danielle

3/31/2013 1:08:03 PM
Happy Bunny Day!

3/25/2013 10:14:35 PM
I see now this is needed. My limits are kids, scat, animals and permanent damage mental or physical ( to myself or anyone else). Some interests include rape play, gang bangs, and orgies.

3/24/2013 10:17:49 PM
10 things a Dominant needs from a submissive The best way I’ve heard submission described was at M/s conference in 08. Submission is not following your Master. It is preceding him, clearing the path, and reporting back to him on any pitfalls or problems you see ahead. It is trusting him, to guide and navigate, to keep you safe. The most common way I’ve heard Dominance described uses words that I wouldn’t use to describe a dog. Especially today – there are a LOT of anti-Dominant posts, and a lot of “Submissives Deserve XYZ” posts. But one thing I’ve almost never heard…what do Dominants deserve? Where is our "10" list? 1. Know your Responsibilities. Dominants have responsibilities. We hear a LOT about that in our community. We have the responsibility to be forgiving and understanding. We have the responsibility to be strong and independent. We have the responsibility to be wise and patient, and to be controlled and in control of ourselves and our partners. We have to accept accountability for whatever happens with the submissive. We have the responsibility to take responsibility (and accountability) for both our actions, and (often) our submissives’ actions.Well, submissive responsibilities exist too. (No, not “suck my dick daily” kinds of responsibilities. Those are play rules, or relationship kinks.) Responsibilities in submission are supposed to include communication with your Dominant. Having patience with the relationship. Working to build trust with your partner. And having realistic expectations of the relationship, while understanding the meaning of discretion when things need work. You know…all the stuff below? 2. Remember Patience? Patience is a virtue, virtue is a grace, and grace is a little girl…When you start dating someone – you don’t ask them to marry you the first week out. Nor the first month, or (hopefully) the first year. So why are you in a rush to be “collared” immediately? Why is there this pressure to invent a myriad variety of “collars” to validate every single status change in the relationship? Date. Hang out. Talk.The same with fetishes. I understand you are a HUGE anal slut. But let’s build up to that. Yes, I can probably put together a scene with 23 different ass sensation toys, and a half dozen different positions, with FancyRopeWork (tm). But why? Let’s share other experiences. Let’s learn each other before moving into what should be a permanent relationship.It takes time before a dominant becomes YOUR Master. It takes time for us to learn your little idiosyncrasies. It takes experience to recognize your body language, and to be able to intuit your fears and your feelings. There will be false starts, and stops, and pitfalls, and awkward situations. If you actually want a relationship with your Dominant…be realistic about it. (see #3)Expecting us to immediately rock your world...it happens sometimes. But most of the time, it takes time and effort before we know you well enough to really rock out. 3. Have Realistic Expectations. You aren't perfect? Well, neither am We. We’re learning every day. A good Dominant (one who will eventually be worthy of the title “Master”) is constantly working on those imperfections, through self-help, personal exploration, educational classes, and reading. Expecting a 29 year old to pay for all your dates, have a fully equipped dungeon, be the perfect boyfriend, help pay your rent when you’re behind, god-like lover, and be a Master-of-All-Toys is, frankly, naive.It takes a lot of work to build a relationship - and that relationship has to be built from both ends. We understand that you are sacrificing a lot when you surrender your body - often, so are we (see #9). We are as giving as we can be of our time, our money, and our emotions. It hurts us just as much when we're dropped, dumped, manipulated or lied to. But, you may have noticed, we don’t have “Dominant support” groups, by and large. So while you’re risking more of your body and heart on the front end – we’re risking a hell of a lot of our soul and our mind on the back end.If we’re with you, and making an honest effort…respect that. We respect you (even when we’re calling you cunts while whipping your ass) for your ability to take pain and suffering and then turn it into something amazing. We recognize your talents and efforts. Please, recognize ours. 4. Consistency. It’s a real roller coaster ride to have a submissive who is one person in the morning, another at night, and a complete third when she skips her meds (see #7). And roller coasters are fun…but they don’t make for great daily activities.We’re going to do the best we can to enforce the rules consistently. To respond to your needs as much as we can, when we can. To be the same Dominant on Monday that we are Saturday night. What we ask in return? The same thing from you. Make the effort (see #9) to follow those rules. Don’t give us the A#1 effort Saturday night at the party, and then just coast on the relationship for the rest of the week.There’s something to be said for a sub who is the same Monday through Sunday in her level of devotion, her level of commitment, and her level of caring. We honestly don’t care if that level is low, medium, high, or barely existent. We’ll work with that – that’s what a Dominant does. We motivate, we train, and we guide. But if you’re giving us a different persona and a different level of submission every other day… the greatest Master in the scene couldn’t deal with that 24/7. Neither can we. 5. Discretion within the relationship. Yeah, so. Going online and chatting in a slaves group, or on , about how your Master doesn't scratch your itch, or how you're so disappointed he didn't do SexyMoveA#1 last night? That's not cool. We don't (believe it or not) go around gossiping with every Dominant we know about how tight your ass was last night, or how funny you looked sobbing after an emotional edge play scene. Please have the same courtesy - don't assume that just because you're the submissive, you can talk about anything in our relationship that you want to and call it "submissive sharing". If you have a genuine issue in the relationship - we should be the first person you talk to about it. Not your online friends. See #10 about that.This is not an endorsement of abuse. If you are being abused (physically, emotionally, financially, psychologically, sexually, etc.), for the love of God, go to your local shelter. Your nearest victim advocate. Or the closest police station.But please bear in mind – below that particular level? Relationships will always have problems…talking to your partner solves a LOT of them. 6. Trust. (No really, actual trust, not "earn it or else" trust)No, this doesn’t mean trust me immediately from word one. That would be insane.But this ties in with #8 and #9. You’ve heard the old adage “trust takes time”? Well, trust also takes effort. And communication (see #10). From both parties. Trust is a two way street. If your Dominant has to constantly prove that he’s worthy of your trust, then why are you with him?I was once with a woman who had me convinced that it was a Dominant’s job to constantly be earning and re-earning trust. I heard the mantra of “a Master /earns/ trust” at least once a day. The entire relationship was one long marathon of constant effort to “earn” her trust by doing everything she wanted, and never disagreeing with her. It took a slap ‘round the head and shoulders by a senior Dominant and very trusted friend before I realized that I was being used. 7. Sanity. This is a no brainer. But unfortunately, it rarely gets spoken of in our lifestyle. If you have depression, bi-polar, manic episodes, or have been described by previous friends, dominants or family members as a "wild and crazy" type...the odds are that you, in fact, need therapy. Possibly medication. There’s no shame in that – a HUGE percentage of people in this modern world have psychological issues that need to be addressed with pills or therapy. Please seek it BEFORE approaching a dominant. We, in return, will attempt to do the same for our own issues. Entering deeply emotional and effort-related relationships should be done AFTER the mental health issues are addressed and under control. 8. Stop Recycling the Past. Your last Dominant hurt you. Or didn't measure up. I understand that, personally. My last submissive didn't either (see #7). But that said...this is us, starting fresh. I certainly want to know if your last Dom was abusive, hurtful, or cruel. You need to know if my last submissive was, too. That's part of the whole "communication skills" thing in #10 and it will affect how we interact. I do NOT, however, need to hear a daily address list of the A-Z of everything you ever disliked about him...or a weekly update on how I compare to him. Considering that I probably don't do any of the former, and don't care about the latter. This is a new relationship. You wouldn't enjoy me constantly comparing you, out loud, to my last girl. You wouldn't enjoy an intimate partner constantly comparing you to their last lover. I don't enjoy it either. Keep the past, in the past. 9. Honest Effort and Understanding. You want us to know how hard submission is? Well, we want you to know how hard Domination is. We have to think in three dimensions about the emotional and psychological impact of everything from our tone of voice to our tools, from our clothes and cologne to our cock and cunt hair. It's exhausting at times, and just like submissives...sometimes we burn out. Sometimes we're too tired to be SparkleMasterLeatherDom/me. And just like we are expected (by our Dominant brothers and sisters, if not by our submissives) to be consistently understanding and supportive of slaves rights and feelings...we deserve a little consideration ourselves. 10. Communication Skills. Domination AND submission. Master AND slave. Top AND bottom. Please note the "and". You AND me. Kenova AND Cassie. Snowy AND Toy. The "and"? That has a lot of meaning. It means that just as much as you expect us, the Dominants, to communicate with you about your training and performance...we expect the same. We deserve the same. If you have concerns - you need to talk to us, not post it on . If you feel hurt, you need to sit down and have a heart-to-heart with your Dom, not slam them to all of your friends. If you honestly believe that your Dom has problems? Talk to them about it. Be a big girl/boy/boi/slave/slut/whore/bottom/queer/toy/androgyne.But if you can't communicate at least as well as you expect your Dominant to communicate to you? If you aren’t making the honest effort (see #9) to become a better communicator? Then you're the problem, not the Dom.

3/24/2013 1:24:44 AM
Author: Dr. Robert W. Birch Ph.D. ©Sexologist & Adult Sexuality Educatorhttp://www.oralcaress.com/oralcaress@aol.com Used With Author(s) Permission Relationships are often hard to maintain, even when two people profess undying love for each other. A major problem in a relationship is that one or both partners continue to make the same errors but then cannot understand why the relationship is in trouble. It is almost as though they are determined to do things their way, even at the risk of damaging a good thing.In my clinical practice, I have discovered at least 22 errors in thinking and communicating that people make, which if repeated, have the potential of destroying a relationship. Which of the following errors are you making? 1. Rigidly maintain that you are always right, even when you do not have all the facts! 2. Never apologize, even when you are proven wrong beyond a shadow of a doubt! 3. Be relentless in rubbing it in when you are proven right! 4. Dogmatically maintain that you know your partner's motives better than he or she does! 5. Assume that your partner should understand your needs and should respond immediately without being asked! 6. Totally ignore your partner's priorities and insist on your own! 7. Operate on the assumption that your partner's sexual need cycle is identical to yours! 8. Add deep psychological meaning to your partner's sexual disinterest, and take it very personally! 9. Do not ever admit hurt, but go immediately to the expression of anger! 10. Identify your partner's character flaws and family secrets and use them to make a point when logic fails! 11. Use guilt to manipulate, to get your own way or to punish! 12. Become proficient at catching your partner being bad, but do not ever comment if you catch him or her being good! 13. Cut no slack, yield no ground and push your argument until your partner walks out the door... then follow the coward! 14. Do not let go of the past, rehashing your version of it as often as possible! 15. Cling very very tightly, claiming that you will surly die if you are ignored! 16. If you are not a clinger, then stay emotionally/physically distant, and show no signs that you really care for your partner! 17. Make promises, but never keep them! 18. Be factious so you partner never knows when you are being serious! 19. Always make excuses for your bad habits! 20. Insist that what you have to say is always more important that what your partner is saying, so interrupt! 21. Pretend that you understand what you partner has said, even if you have no idea of the point that was being made! 22. Act as though you do none of the above and it is your partner who must make all the changes!

3/23/2013 6:04:59 PM
*I thought these were good rules Rules, protocols and rituals of a slave slave train­ing rules, These are my rules that a slave trainee will study, learn and be respon­si­ble for obey. MY 50 Rules of sub­mis­sion for a slave to learn dur­ing slave training.  slave train­ingyou will be expected to learn these 50 slave rules as part of slave training: 1) i sub­mit to the will of my Mas­ter and i’m bound to Him. i accept His author­ity over me for my pur­pose is to serve, obey and please my Mas­ter. i will be man­aged, dis­ci­plined and con­trolled in a man­ner ben­e­fi­cial to my slave train­ing and long-term ser­vice and inclu­sion in his house­hold as a slave. 2) i accept that part of slave train­ing is the actual phys­i­cal con­trol of my behav­ior. i will have no pri­vacy from my Mas­ter. The space i occupy, all my time, phys­i­cal actions, pri­vacy and rela­tion­ships with oth­ers are con­trolled and man­aged by my Master 3) Com­mu­ni­ca­tion with my Mas­ter is one of the most impor­tant aspects of my devel­op­ment as a slave.i am respon­si­ble for answer­ing each and every e-mail sent to me by my Mas­ter and when not in His pres­ence, i will send Him at least one e-mail or con­tact Him each and every day. i must be both spe­cific and explicit in my speech.i will give com­plete and accu­rate answers to each and every ques­tion that my Mas­ter asks of me.i am allowed no secrets from my Master.i will work hard to wel­come this open­ness of body, mind and soul. 4) To receive plea­sure i must earn it. i must always give thanks to my Mas­ter for all i am given imme­di­ately after receiv­ing it, for such things are gifts or priv­i­leges granted to me by Him. This also includes any pun­ish­ment and dis­ci­pline that i may receive so that I may grow in bondage and serve him better. 5) i will not hes­i­tate in my obe­di­ence to my Mas­ter and will respond quickly to all orders given. 6) I will­ingly dis­cuss any issues I have with my Mas­ter that lim­its by trust. my goal is to trust my Mas­ter and know His con­cern for my total safety that includes my emo­tional, psy­cho­log­i­cal, social, sex­ual, and phys­i­cal health. 7) i will work hard to give my Mas­ter con­trol and turn my will over to Him.  i know this is my duty as His slave and i desire to serve and please Him by doing so. 8) i am always in sub­mis­sion to my Mas­ter whether He is present or not, ready to please Him at any­time, in any place, under any cir­cum­stances, regard­less of who may be present. His plea­sure is more impor­tant than my discomfort. 9) When i am not in the pres­ence of my Mas­ter and i have choices to make — i will per­form them to the best of my abil­i­ties and within the bound­aries and guid­ance He has estab­lished for me. If some­one speaks ill of my Mas­ter, i will defend Him and report this to my Mas­ter immediately. 10) The oppor­tu­nity to please my Mas­ter is very impor­tant to me. i will seek out oppor­tu­ni­ties to do so. my great­est felt sat­is­fac­tion is real­ized when i know i have pleased my Mas­ter. There can be no greater pain or suf­fer­ing i can feel than when my Mas­ter is not pleased with me. i will accept the guid­ance i will need to be put back on track so that i will be for­given and once again be pleas­ing to Him. 11) i will learn all the posi­tions my Mas­ter wants to teach me to the best of my abil­i­ties and when dis­play myself to him using them . i know that by using the slave posi­tions i am enabling by Mas­ter to bet­ter man­age and use his slave. 12) my entire sex­ual being now belongs to my Mas­ter. my Mas­ter is in com­plete charge of my sex­ual desires and i wish that He mold them in a way that is most pleas­ing to Him. i am a sex­ual and sen­sual being and my entire body is to be avail­able for my Master’s use at all times. It is my Master’s choice as to how my sex­ual being will be used to please him.i must never reach orgasm with­out explicit per­mis­sion from my Mas­ter. My fail­ure to receive per­mis­sion before cum­ming will cause me to endure the pun­ish­ment Mas­ter will put upon me. Such plea­sure must be seen as a priv­i­lege so that i do not take advan­tage of it. i am to undergo intense pussy train­ing so that i will learn to bet­ter serve and please my Master’s needs with by pussy.i will never touch my breasts, nip­ples, pussy or clit with my hands or sex toys in any man­ner where i could expe­ri­ence sex­ual or sen­sual plea­sure with­out per­mis­sion from my Mas­ter. i fully acknowl­edge that i no longer have own­er­ship of my sex­ual being.When i have been given per­mis­sion to play with myself i shall do so in the fol­low­ing man­ner: work­ing my clit almost to an orgasm and then stop­ping for a few min­utes, then work­ing it again to almost at orgasm and then stop­ping for a few min­utes, and then finally work­ing it again to a full orgasm. Then and only then shall i enjoy an orgasm on my own. Should i cum before the third tier – i will tell my Mas­ter so i may be pun­ished. i will play with myself in this man­ner even in His presence. 13) The safe­word given to me by my Mas­ter can be spo­ken at any time — even When i have been told to be silent. If i am not able to ver­bal­ize it – i trust my Mas­ter will show me how i can express it. Safe­words are for my pro­tec­tion as well as His.My Mas­ter does not view a safe­word as a lim­i­ta­tion of His author­ity, but as a means to insure my safety. Because i am granted a safe­word, i am expected to cor­rectly use it. I can be pun­ished if I attempt to use it for con­trol or to set basic lim­its on my Mas­ters author­ity. It is a safety device only.my safe­word is “red light”. i can­not be pun­ished for using my safe­word. i will prac­tice remem­ber­ing my safe­word. i may also, if get­ting close to my lim­its say ” yel­low light”. My Mas­ter is under no oblig­a­tion to stop at the yel­low light warn­ing. i have no right to con­trol a scene by the use of the safe­word, it is intended for pro­tec­tion and to inform my Mas­ter that i am unable to trans­fer the pain unto plea­sure. My Mas­ter judges how to use the information.In gen­eral, i am not allowed a safe­word dur­ing pun­ish­ment. i must remem­ber that pun­ish­ment could never be very effec­tive if i were able to con­trol it. i must take pun­ish­ment in full mea­sure so that i will focus on the cor­rec­tion of my behav­ior for the long term, for unlike dis­ci­pline, pun­ish­ment is not what i will want again. i should know bet­ter than to dis­please him and accept his punishment.  14) i must con­fess to my Mas­ter when i have dis­obeyed (inten­tional or not) so that He may decide if such vio­la­tions require me to be dis­ci­plined and/or pun­ished. i must accept what­ever deci­sions He makes by thank­ing Him for His choice. If i am dis­ci­plined or pun­ished, i must focus upon how sorry i am for not behav­ing in the way that i have been taught — for i have dis­played an unac­cept­able act which is dis­pleas­ing to Him. i must remem­ber to thank my Mas­ter for my punishment. 15) i will endure what­ever dis­ci­pline or pun­ish­ment my Mas­ter gives me so i can become a bet­ter slave for Him. i will work on build­ing up my tol­er­ances to the level my Mas­ter needs me to have, being care­ful not to push myself fur­ther or faster than i am ready to endure for Him, so that i may be able to expand my lim­i­ta­tions and increase my value to Him. i fully acknowl­edge and accept that my Mas­ter has the right to expand my lim­its as he wishes. 16) i shall never think of myself as a weak per­son for it takes a strong female to com­mit to the drive inside me, to serve, to obey and to please a Mas­ter. i must remem­ber that how well i behave enlight­ens and empow­ers me to become even closer to who i am — a devoted slave, of good rap­port to a Mas­ter who truly under­stands my needs in rela­tion­ship to His own. 17) The needs of my Mas­ter must always come first before mine own for they offer an oppor­tu­nity to please Him. i must be atten­tive to the needs of my Mas­ter and always be ready to respond to them to the best of my abil­i­ties and in the way He has shown me. 18) i am allowed and expected to sug­gest ways to fur­ther my slave train­ing or use of me, ver­bally or through my jour­nal, as long as i address my Mas­ter prop­erly first. 19) i know that other than any hard lim­its and safe­word that he grants this slave, i can make no demands or place lim­its on my Master’s author­ity. i can give Him no orders. i don’t con­trol his time or who he chooses to give his atten­tion too. i know that attempts, by me, to limit His power, con­trol or sta­tus as a Mas­ter would lead to me being punished. 20) i must always respond fully both phys­i­cally and ver­bally to what­ever my Mas­ter does with me. The expres­sions of my emo­tions and my phys­i­cal responses are impor­tant to Him. i must never hold back any part of their dis­play, regard­less of how intense they may be, unless restricted by restraints or orders to do so. 21) my health is impor­tant to my Mas­ter. i will eat prop­erly. i want to be healthy and of sound mind and body, free as pos­si­ble of any per­sonal lim­i­ta­tions, when pleas­ing my Mas­ter. i can not refuse my Master’s deci­sion that i seek med­ical atten­tion, if so ordered. If placed on a diet by my Mas­ter, i will obey His deci­sions as to my method of weight loss and make rou­tine reports to Him as to my progress. After los­ing the weight my Mas­ter requires, i will main­tain the weight that pleases Him. 22) i will always lis­ten with a strong inter­est in what­ever my Mas­ter has to say dur­ing my slave training. 23) i will not date oth­ers or form a rela­tion­ship with oth­ers with­out per­mis­sion from my Mas­ter. i will not com­mu­ni­cate with other Mas­ters with­out my Master’s per­mis­sion. This includes in per­son, tele­phone, instant mes­sag­ing or e-mail. i will report all con­tact directly and quickly to my Mas­ter. My Mas­ter makes the deci­sion as to what types of con­tact i am allowed to have with other Mas­ters. My Mas­ter can deny, grant or ter­mi­nate any com­mu­ni­ca­tion i have with oth­ers when he wishes. 24) Pun­ish­ment Rules:i know my Mas­ter has the right to dis­ci­pline or pun­ish me any time He wishes for any vio­la­tion. i will sub­mit to any dis­ci­pline or pun­ish­ment my Mas­ter sees fit. i know that i will be pun­ished or dis­ci­plined for vio­la­tions of the rule, both writ­ten and oral, in order to cor­rect my behav­ior and to insure He find me pleas­ing. The pun­ish­ment will fit the vio­la­tion that i have com­mit­ted. my Mas­ter shall deter­mine how and when and where i am to receive this pun­ish­ment. i know that as a stan­dard i will be pun­ished for the fol­low­ing reasons: cum­ming with­out permission,tak­ing a Mas­ter, boyfriend or slave with­out permission,talk­ing back to my Mas­ter in a way that shows rebellion,will­ful fail­ure to serve, obey and please,attempt­ing to force my dom­i­nant side upon my Masterattempt­ing to get out of this con­tract, with­out cause,major vio­la­tions involv­ing — safety of a seri­ous and/or dan­ger­ous nature, and vio­la­tions of law.i have the right to plead for a lesser pun­ish­ment, but my Mas­ter is under no oblig­a­tion to grant a reduced punishment. 25) When told to per­form a duty for my Mas­ter, i will do so with­out delay or ques­tion unless i do not under­stand the mean­ing of the order. i may seek clar­i­fi­ca­tion of any order from my Mas­ter. This is not to be inter­preted as a means of argu­ing are dis­agree­ing with my orders. 26) i will always show respect for my Mas­ter. i will find ways to serve and please Him and show my worth as a slave. If i dis­please my Mas­ter i desire that He inform me so that i can cor­rect my actions. i am respon­si­ble for all words that i speak. i will not ques­tion my Master’s author­ity over this slave. 27) i know that being stub­born could be dis­pleas­ing to my Mas­ter and i will not dis­please Him by dis­play­ing this self­ish behavior. 28) Any feel­ing of anger, mis­trust, or other counter pro­duc­tive emo­tions will be expressed to my Mas­ter in order that He may find a way to cor­rect these feel­ings. It is my duty to do so. 29) i wor­ship my Mas­ter. i wor­ship my Master’s whip, respect my Master’s right to use it for His plea­sure and my punishment. 30) my mouth is for my Mas­ters plea­sure. i will learn that: 31) i must always wear reveal­ing and sexy cloth­ing of good taste around my Mas­ter unless given per­mis­sion to do oth­er­wise. The cloth­ing i wear will allow easy access to my pussy, ass and breasts. my basic attire in the pres­ence of my Mas­ter shall always include a col­lar given to me by my Mas­ter. i must never be con­cerned when i feel too much of my flesh is show­ing, how­ever i can ask my Mas­ter for per­mis­sion as to how to han­dle my dis­com­fort. In pub­lic, i am to wear a dress or skirt with­out panties around my Mas­ter. i must remove all of my cloth­ing in the way i have been taught when my Mas­ter com­mands of me to do so. 32) i must sleep in the nude and wear the col­lar pro­vided by my Master. 33) my legs, under­arms and pussy must be kept com­pletely shaved smooth and clean so that noth­ing of me is hid­den from view. Unless oth­er­wise given per­mis­sion — my hair must be kept in a man­ner that is pleas­ing to my Master. 34) When­ever Mas­ter speaks, even when i am speak­ing, i am to imme­di­ately become silent. i must never inter­rupt Him unless He has shown me how to com­mu­ni­cate with Him. This rule does not apply in an emer­gency. i will lis­ten each and every time my Mas­ter speaks so i can learn or receive His orders. 35) Only through sub­mis­sion can i find my true self. my life becomes com­plete by pleas­ing and serv­ing my Mas­ter. Only in com­plete sub­mis­sion to my Mas­ter shall i real­ize the depth of the love i have within and will learn to freely express it. 36) i may, at times, offer var­i­ous parts of my body to my Mas­ter in hopes He will take plea­sure in using them in what­ever way He wishes. my only hope will be that my offer­ing will please Him. If not, i want Him to pun­ish me. 37) i must always remem­ber how pleased my Mas­ter is when i think of myself as sexy and show­ing off my assets. my behav­ior must always dis­play a sex­ual con­tent how­ever sub­tle. i am expected to learn how to feel and be happy. When i walk, run, sit, stand, kneel, reach out, speak, or lis­ten – i will do so in a man­ner pleas­ing to my Master 38) my Mas­ter may use me as He wishes. i know that my Mas­ter is train­ing me so that i may be of long-term ser­vice to Him. 39) If i am sent to serve oth­ers, i will do so in a way that is pleas­ing to my Mas­ter. This is not intended to mean sex­ual ser­vice of others. 40) i am to focus on my ser­vice and obe­di­ence and accept the fact that i am being trained for con­tin­ued and last­ing plea­sure to my Mas­ter. The more i learn and strive to please my Mas­ter the more pleased He is with me. i am not expected to mis­be­have to get atten­tion. i am expected to learn how to serve and obey. 41) If i am wear­ing a dress or skirt and no panties and i am going to sit down — i must sit on my bare skin in pri­vate or in a vehi­cle unless told otherwise. 42) i know that how i PRESENT myself to my Mas­ter is impor­tant. I know that being my Master’s slave will require behav­ioral changes on my part and I will learn my Master’s “slave”, “ser­vice” and “at ease” modes. These modes are given to me by my Mas­ter to show me how i will act at all times. 43) When pos­si­ble i will place myself on my Mas­ters right side while sit­ting at His feet or walk­ing in pub­lic or pri­vate. i will not walk in front of my Mas­ter, unless directed to do so. When walk­ing, i will heel to my Master’s right side. 44) Dur­ing train­ing, my Mas­ter will estab­lish goals for me and i am respon­si­ble for their com­ple­tion on a timely basis. i will inform my Mas­ter if i am not moti­vated to accom­plish the goals. i am respon­si­ble for insur­ing that i under­stand the goals and may ask ques­tion to insure i under­stand them. i know it is my respon­si­bil­ity to insure that i fully under­stand the goals my Mas­ter estab­lishes for me. 45) my per­for­mance as a slave will be eval­u­ated based upon my ser­vice to my Mas­ter. Detailed athttp://bestslavetraining.com/BESTperform.htm. I will freely answer and ques­tions that assist my Mas­ter is assess­ing my performance 46) Any rule can be dis­obeyed or delayed if it con­flicts with com­mon sense safety, fam­ily, or causes employ­ment prob­lems. i, if pos­si­ble, will report in advance why i can’t com­ply with cer­tain rules so that my Mas­ter can make the final deci­sion as to how i should act. If prior noti­fi­ca­tion and approval is not pos­si­ble, i will report all details as soon as pos­si­ble to my Mas­ter. my Mas­ter expects me to obey all His orders and rules at all times, but real­izes the impor­tance of my safety, fam­ily and employ­ment. This shall not be con­sid­ered a blan­ket invi­ta­tion to dis­obey any of the other rules. i real­ize that i am only relieved of pun­ish­ment if my dis­obey­ing or delay­ing is jus­ti­fied. my Mas­ter makes the final deci­sion as to what is jus­ti­fied. If my Mas­ter deter­mines that my fail­ing to obey does not meet the spirit of this rule, i will be sub­ject to his punishment. 47) my Mas­ter may freely own, train and use other slaves for His plea­sure and ser­vice and may if he wishes use me with them. i have no right of refusal to my Master. 48) There are occa­sions where my Mas­ter will assign another slave to train me or assign me to train another slave in some area of which i have knowl­edge and skills. If i am to be trained by another slave i will give her my full atten­tion and do my very best to learn from her, If i am to train another slave, I shall not hold back infor­ma­tion and teach her all the skills nec­es­sary to prop­erly serve my Mas­ter. Pleas­ing my Mas­ter means devel­op­ing and Master/slave fam­ily unit. 49) my pur­pose is to serve, obey, please and to sub­mit to the will of my Mas­ter, i am fully aware that i am owned by my Mas­ter but i have no own­er­ship of him. . my Mas­ter does not com­pare me to other slave and wishes that i become all that i can be as a slave. i earn my Master’s respect and love based upon my skills, tal­ents and abil­i­ties not my sis­ter slaves’ tal­ents. i am not to focus on the behav­ior of other slaves, for their train­ing is in the hands of my Mas­ter, If I find myself jeal­ous of another slave’s skills or the atten­tion she is get­ting, I shall present myself to my Mas­ter and report my feel­ings. i will work hard o develop and add to my Master/slave family. 50) i am respon­si­ble for main­tain­ing a cur­rent list of these rules and all other mate­r­ial pro­vided for my train­ing. i know that after train­ing i am to still main­tain and study these rules that will be used as a basis to gov­ern me over a long term period. i am not expected to mem­o­rize these rules, how­ever i am expected to study them and know them and abide by them. Each rule may have more than one mean­ing, depend­ing on the topic and i will know all mean­ings as pro­vided by my Mas­ter. The final deter­mi­na­tion as to the mean­ing of each and every rule, reg­u­la­tion, and/or guide­line, pun­ish­ment, and the con­tract will be deter­mined by my Mas­ter. my Mas­ter is the supreme author­ity as to there mean­ing. i will yield to his authority.   http://bestslavetraining.com/about/cuffsmasters-domain/rules-protocols-rituals-slave/

3/19/2013 12:02:28 PM
For all.the people wondering why I'm not collared yet I will explain. My situation is an unique one so that it was difficult finding the right Dom. Plus, I wanted someone specific to be my Dom. I am new to this lifestyle so trying to find what I needed also took time. I could have been collared many times over but it wouldn't have been right. I'm not desperate by any means and I do believe good things come to those who wait. So I'm not going to settle. Slavery is lifelong and one doesn't want someone to have your submission who doesn't deserve it. This is why I wanted to change my approach & find a sister slave first. For help in my decision of the right situtation. In the end each slave serves their Master in their own way. So for the slaves to get along all the more better but not necessary. I would like us slaves to really bond because I think if happy slaves will serve him better. And I want a family type atmosphere. I have found my sister slave & Domme and once settled we will begin our search for our Dom. Muah Danielle

3/18/2013 9:23:07 PM
Well I have found my sister slave!!!! And words cannot express how excited I am! Once we are settled we can begin our search for our Dom to complete our family! Hope everyone is having an awesome night muah!

3/17/2013 10:28:47 PM
I will update my profile very soon but for now I am looking for a sister slave. And we will search for a Master together. I don't want to join an established poly household. I feel the dynamics wouldn't work for the situation I would like. So email if interested. Have a lovely day! Muah **It has been so hard accepting I have to make the transition from a vanilla life to my natural state as a slave. And I think more often than not we believe we are in this alone and no one could understand our personal dilemma. At least that has been the case for me until yesterday. I received an email of someone going through the same situation. I am not owned but I do train occasional with someone I met on here. But I am on here a lot to read journals and ask questions from others more experienced in this lifestyle. I get a lot of interesting emails but overall I have been blessed to have received training & have mentors to help me with my transition. I have thanked them individually but I would like to say publicly thank you for helping me find comfort in knowing my place. Muah**

3/17/2013 10:10:20 PM
Yes, the cage in the last picture is mine. And I can't even begin to describe the feeling I have when I'm in it. It really puts me in my place :-). I don't want or deserve to sleep on a bed again...but I can still do other things on a bed ;-)! I know a lot are partying tonight unfortunately I have to work :-( so give or get a spank for me. And be safe. Muah

3/17/2013 4:56:11 AM
"A woman must be continuously physically dominated. A man should be unafraid to use his biologically given superior strength to assert his ownership over a woman's body at any and all times. Of course, physical domination comes in several forms --- it comes in the form of reprimanding a woman when she misbehaves (slapping her, pulling her hair, twisting her arm, beating her ass or cunt, torturing her tits); it also comes in the form of using a woman sexually (fucking her throat, ass, and cunt whenever the mood strikes a man). Second, a woman must be continuously mentally dominated. A man should constantly be reminding a woman of her proper place --- reminding her that she was born to serve a man, to be property, to be owned and used. The more a woman hears the truth, the better she is able to come to terms with it and fully embrace it. Lastly, a woman must be practically dominated. By this, I mean that steps must be taken to practically limit her ability to free herself from ownership." Muah Danielle

3/17/2013 4:54:42 AM
Happy green day to all muah! ;-)

3/15/2013 10:42:37 AM
I will update my profile very soon but for now I'm looking for a sister slave. And no I'm not owned yet :-(.

3/14/2013 10:12:55 PM
Life is good! This week has ROCKED!!

3/11/2013 8:39:17 PM
I have never craved discipline and order as I do right now. I am at a crossroads and I know what I decide now will change my life as I know it. I try to ignore my desire to kneel and be collared but it so scares me because I can't. Its what I go back to again & again. Its essential to me like air. I need it and I am starving without it.The truth is I am lost if I am uncollared. Every sub is.

3/10/2013 5:34:48 PM

I am back FINALLY!! Ready to make some friends and have some fun.

muah

Danielle


2/20/2013 3:52:31 AM
I have to admit the quality of emails from Doms has improved exponentially. I am very pleased. I'm only looking for local friends right now but I'm working so much I am unable to response to most emails so if I send you a friend's invitation I will email you as soon as can. Muah

2/14/2013 5:00:31 PM
I'm getting a little fed up with the quality of "Masters" on this site. Did you not learn how to approach a stranger? I am not your slave so don't talk to me like I am. I put Danielle on my profile because that's what I would like you to call me. The last picture is to show some of the race play I have done. It does not give me permission to address me in that way.

2/14/2013 11:46:38 AM
Happy candy & kisses day! Muah to all

1/23/2013 7:56:17 AM
* I swear I get some bad azz responses! I got this email the other day and I think it rings so true. BDSM is not a game it is a LIFESTYLE, it is a true MINDSET! A Bad Dom demands, a Good Dom requests and a Great Dom INSPIRESTrue Master/Dom possesses;     a. A Firm Hand.    b. A Strong and Firm Mind.     c. A Positive Gaze.     d. A Firm Grip.      e. A Good and Soft Heart. The submissive has to be a true reflection of her Owners (the submissive is lost when she is not owned and doesn't have Owners/Masters/Dominants to serve) – No drama and a No bullshit policy, because bullshit is NEVER necessary in any relationship.   We enjoy Mental Power Bondage, Mental power control, and Spiritual Bondage, over the submissive – to have control of the heart, control of the mind, control of the inner being, control of the soul, then the body comes under this control willingly and faithfully. The bond between Master/Mistress and the submissive is very strong, stronger than marriage.  The submissive will let down their walls which lets the Master/Mistress see into the soul, so that they won't have fear and will feel safe. The largest part of submitting to someone is trust; because without trust there cannot be any service.  It is the submissive's responsibility to serve her Owners in all ways that pleases them, and knows her place with her Owners! This is the belief that the submissive's Owners/Dominants are here for the submissive to serve, obey, honor, be caring, be faithful, do as she is told, be trustworthy, be loyal, be honest, be structured by the Master/Mistress. 

1/19/2013 7:13:44 PM
There have been a lot of emails asking if I am in to race play because I am seeking a white Dom. Its funny because that was only a perfererence of mine. That being said I am not opposed to race play. I have dabbled in it a bit and I am willing to try more with the right person.

1/18/2013 9:08:37 AM
I'm so happy that ya'll find my post about the Rules for Doms useful. I wanted to ask for any advice for a sub looking for a Dom or Domme or how to be a better sub once you have found a Dom or Domme. Thanks muah

1/16/2013 6:44:41 AM
I thought when I put I was only looking for white Doms I would receive a lot of negative feedback but it has been quite the opposite. Thanks for all those positive emails! Muah!

1/15/2013 5:10:34 PM
Someone sent me this today: "Do you want to be a slave? or are you just in it for a really good fuck? Not going to excuse my directness." Really? Do you really think I can't find that on my own?

12/30/2012 7:33:15 PM
Happy New Year to all! May 2013 bring health, love and lots of kink. ;-)

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