Poo-tee-weet.
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Actively searching for people who are well rounded enough to realise there is more to life than their kink. I'm not really into the whole online play thing. I'm the real deal and you'll soon realise that I'll be keen on meeting either at a munch or somewhere for coffee.
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I am looking for someone who'd like to balance their work with kicks, and, just as importantly, affection. While it's the classic behind closed doors play, I also like the subtleties of D/s in public - where only the two of us know.
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I also offer back the loyalty and the trust to share these secret things. In terms of BDSM, I hate to prescribe?things and prefer finding the open-mindedness and fluidity to make things work. The chemistry is the most important factor for me.
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You'll also soon realise I listen to and remember the small things - even if my memory is a bit rubbish. I tick all the manly man type boxes externally but get off on the haziness of gender roles. Note: this isn't a cross dressing thing. More about being able to speak with/play on notions of gender and this extends through to my sexuality. In terms of other stuff: I am quite active fitness-wise, and I train a few times a week. I also do a lot politics - (yeah, check the kinky politico type?clich? Please give me culture, give me education but without the pretension.
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People who have moved me: Orwell, Vonnegut and Bourdieu.
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I'll end with a Twin Peaks reference: "Two penguins were walking across an iceberg. One penguin turned to the second penguin and said, 'You look like you're wearing a tuxedo'.?And the second penguin said 'Maybe I am, Maybe I am'."
2/28/2013 7:16:27 AM
The pic is of me stroking a cat I miss. It's from a video but it still moves me.
