Recently amicably split from a long term relationship.

Ive been in the lifestyle for over 30 years and Im now looking for new opportunities.

Im tall, slim, fit and take good care of myself.

As a man, I like to be in control, I like rope, I like a girl to lose her mind between pain and pleasure.

Im old school, my idea of jewellery for a man, is cufflinks and a watch, but in a woman I can like good ink and metal, all depends on the context.

Bratty is fine, after all thats what your bum is for, a girl that needs to be drawn gently is fine, I enjoy seduction, but I dont want a girl that feels she has to be dragged screaming and kicking towards her submission, lifes too short and thats more like abuse than Ds.

Im looking for a partner in crime, I can accommodate so distance isnt too much of an obstacle as long as youre available for regular meets, if youre married I wont judge but you still have to be available.

Im not interested in online except as a precursor to you being naked over my lap, so if you only want online then Im not your man.

If your profile doesnt have a photo then thats fine but were going to swap face picture pretty soon because there has to be physical attraction on both sides as well as mental attraction.

My likes are many and varied, please feel free to engage and ask questions, Ill do my best to answer.