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I'm looking for a special girl to have a long-term relationship with. I've been into 'being DOM' since my divorce in 2007. I've had 2 serious relationships since my divorce, that lasted about a year. I took some time off but now I'm ready to move on and find someone to spend my free time with. I'm not looking for a wife and I'm not planning to live with anyone else any time soon. I've got 3 kids that live with me half the time. When they are with their Mother, I'd love to have a girl to spend my time with. However, I will add... I'm not ruling anything out, I'm just not seeking a wife or someone to live with at the moment.
Daddy
Besides being 'DOM'... I also like to be 'Daddy' for my little girl. It's sometimes referred to as Daddy/daughter relationships.
However, and I want to be perfectly clear... I'm not into kids... Pedophiles are offensive to me... I date women around my age (would consider younger but anyone I date must be at least 30).
The first Daddy/daughter relationship I had was nothing complicated... she liked to act like a little girl when we were fooling around and she liked to call me Daddy... and, of course, I liked to swat her bottom when she was naughty and treat her like my princess when she was a good little girl... It was the sweetest, most honest, and innocent and sensual, erotic, sexy... relationship I've been in. There is also something very 'primal' about being DOM... it appeals to things I don't understand... on the level of a cave man dragging the girl he's attracted to back to his mancave by the hair!... Dom/sub is a huge turn on in so many ways and the dom/sub 'current' is always flowing through the relationship and it's really a wonderful thing.
My second LTR was a bit more complicated... she liked to wrestle and be held down. Her Father started wrestling with her on the floor when she was a young girl and it went on into her teens. As far as I know there was never any abuse but I think it went on a little long (into her late teens) and so, as she became older... it excited her and now that she's older, it's very exciting for her to wrestle, be held down, call me Daddy... I'd never met a girl who got so wet before. It was such a turn on for her, so erotic, and exciting... and when we finally gave in I'd pin her ankles together with her wrists and we'd fuck so wonderfully hard OMG... it was just unbelievable for both of us. I want to emphasize that this was all role playing (nothing I did was really rough and of course she knew she could stop any time...)
So..., those relationships ended for very different reasons and I'm still friendly with both girls. I can explain further if you're interested but the bottom line for me is that I really enjoy turning my girl on. I like the role of Dom and nothing is more exciting to me than knowing whatever it is I'm doing is totally turning my girl on... I know that calling your significant other Daddy doesn't appeal to some women and it's OK if it's not 'your cup of tea'... I like being Dom and I'm interested in girls who are submissive in general... My primary turn on is pushing my girl's buttons and getting her really turned on... so she aches for me.
Kink Specifics
I'm not into pain or humiliation... Nothing I want to do to you will leave a scar, welt, or mark... I've never used and I'm not turned on by blood, needles, poo or wee or anything most people would consider way out there like that... I like to be in charge when we're in the bedroom fooling around... Honestly, I think most women would be turned on by what I want to do to you... I like to pull hair and spank (firmly but gently), I like to give my girl instructions... ie. bend over, spread your legs... I like to know that she will do what I ask her to do...
Frequency:
Ideally, I'd like to find someone I could get together with a couple of times a week... At a minimum, I'll want to be able to spend time together at least once a week (I know there will be sometimes where we won't connect but as a general guideline... once a week is what I'm thinking would be my minimum...) I would love to have someone I could go away with for the weekend to the beach or mountains... or someone who would come hang out with me at my house for the weekend... I'm not seeking a relationship that I have to keep a secret.
My Kind of Dom
I think I'm different than some Doms... Some sites talk about a D/s relationship as one that is totally focused on the Dom's wishes and pleasure and the sub is there only to please him... and yes... I like my girl to please me... but all the orders I give my girl are all about turning her on. Nothing turns me on more than my partner's excitement... In fact, if she's not into it neither am I... So, I'm always focused on pushing my girl's buttons and I'm good at it (if I do say so myself!). :-)
1 on 1
I'm a one woman man... I like to have a very intimate connection with my girl and I can't imagine sharing that with anyone else... it doesn't really compute for me. However, if the right situation presented itself... I might be open to it. It's one of those things every guy fantasizes about but I'm not sure it's really very practical. It's certainly not something I need or something I'm going to go looking for... I'll never come to you and tell you that I'm planning on bringing someone else into our relationship... I'm not interested in a Harem... I've had more than one girl tell me she left her Dom for that reason...
My Girl's a Priority
I've been searching for a partner for over a year and I'm lonely, horny, and I ache to be with my girl and feel her in my arms... It's a priority in my life to find a partner. So, if we get together and I'm interested in you, you can be sure that you'll be a priority in my life. I'm going to make sure you know I think you're beautiful and that you know how much I appreciate you spending time with me...
Mutual Attraction
This is a difficult subject... Of course, we have to be attracted to each other... In general, I'm not attracted to someone who is too much over weight. A little is OK... I'm not perfect either... but I'm not attracted to BBW or someone who's got an extra 50lbs. I've met so many women that I truly like but I'm just not attracted to... and sometimes, weight just doesn't show up in photos... Surprises when people first meet can create an uncomfortable situation.... So, at the risk of sounding a bit shallow, I decided to mention it up front. I don't want to be shallow and I don't really think I am... I'm just not attracted to that kind of body style... I know there are many who are...
Conclusion
I'm honest, financially secure, happy, always always always interested in playing or fooling around with my girl... ;-) (I was going to say that it is important for my girl to have a strong sex drive but I decided against it because I think if the relationship is hot the sex is too... so a girl may not have been that into sex with her last few guys but maybe with the right guy she'll enjoy it more and want to be with me more often)...
I've never had any trouble with the law... don't have any STD's, I'm sane (for the most part - I think anyway... I do have some memory issues!), and mostly happy... but I'm lonely and I'll be much happier once I find you. Please contact me if you're interested... I'm a good guy and I can't wait to find my girl and start our wonderful relationship.
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| Age: 47 |
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