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I'm 27. I work for dell. I'm am extremely sexually open. There is not much that I won't at least try. Alternative lifestyles are not new to me. I've been in some sort of AL my entire sexual life. I like both boys and girls, but I prefer boys. I am in a serious, committed relationship with the most wonderful man I have ever known. We've been together for over 4 years and are getting married on October 20, 2012. Between us we have a grand total of 3 kids... all girls... ranging between 1-9 years old. I was a culinary arts major, until it started killing my love of cooking.
So now on to the stuff that you are really wanting to know
I am a switch... I am happy being a switch. I am also in a very committed relationship. I am very happy in it and I have no desire to leave it. So do not message me saying that you could do for me what my partner cannot I will laugh at you because he gives me EVERYTHING i need and/or want. What we do with other people is just icing on the cake. As I said before, I have been in the lifestyle for many many years. My first real relationship was 11 years ago and was a complete d/s relationship.
I am not, by nature, a social person. So if I act a little weird about hanging out, please do not take offense. Catch me on a different day and i'll probably be all about it.
if you cannot hold a decent conversation with an intelligent woman, then DO NOT MESSAGE me. I am so sick of getting messages on here saying things like, "Nice tits." Seriously, if you can't even form that into a respectful compliment such as, "your breasts are simply beautiful." then don't bother.
I'm not really on here looking for anything in particular. I am hoping to meet some new friends, hopefully local. I would love to get back into the scene again and start being a little more social!
As I said above, I am a switch so here's what I like and don't like...
AS THE ONE HOLDING THE CONTROL
I enjoy being gentle. I enjoy using toys, along with crops, bondage straps, floggers, and more. I want you to be your own person. I am not looking to break anyone's spirit. nor do I want yo be your sole purpose in life. I want someone who wants to worship me like a goddess. I want someone who knows there place without me having to break them emotionally. But if I am pushed.... I am quite the sadistic person.
WHEN I RELINQUISH MY POWER
I am very picky about who I hand myself over to. I have a hard limit when it comes to anal... fingers/tongue, yes... cocks, no. That is saved for my mate and it will not change. I enjoy a gentler touch, as well as the occasional roughness. I prefer a more psychological approach to being dominated, as opposed to physical. You must realize that my Partner comes before you. If he is not ok with something, then it WILL NOT happen. I will not clean you house, fetch your shoes, or cook your meals.
I am sure there are other things I am forgetting and I will update as I remember them.
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