Non-sadistic, romatic-type dom is looking for a LTR with a middle age (35+) experienced sub or slave female. I love the vanilla life as well, so you must be comfortable with both your submission and being a refined lady of culture and taste. You must be as comfortable in evening wear as when you are with me alone and wearing only your collar. I am not poly and will not be sharing you with others, although in the right setting you might be expected to be exhibited as a submissive woman who is a creature of rare beauty in body and mind.