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Welcome to my humble profile, and thank you for showing interest. My name is Anders, and I am submissive man searching for contact with Dominant people regardless of gender, age, shape and size. That is not to say that any Dominant is of interest, just that who I submit to has nothing to do with the mentioned criteria, but rather the Dominant force and power of a person.
This is not going to be a profile text filled with sexual desires and extreme deions of scenarios I am ready to experience. As you all know, collarspace is not a place filled with honest and serious people. What is written in profiles are meaningless until trust has been established and we are able to confirm what is said within the profile texts. If you are still reading, I take that as a good sign that you want to get to know me better :) Thank you for that. And because I am a servant at heart, I wish to fulfill your wish in the best possible way. If you prefer to talk to me and get to know me, just contact me and Ill be happy to talk with you without you knowing anything about me from the start of the conversation. If you on the other hand wants to know as much as you possible can before you contact me, I will write a long and detailed profile text.
All the best,
Anders
Extended profile text
As mentioned, my name is Anders and I am a 35 year old Norwegian man. My entire life I have been what I call a natural servant. What I mean by this is that I believe all living creatures are programmed to search for fulfillment, and I get mine from enabling others to get theirs. When I reached puberty and became aware of my sexual desires, this need to serve was a natural part also of my sexuality. I consider myself a submissive instead of a slave because I would not be comfortable with a Master who just force me to do His/Her bidding, but rather makes me want to do His/Her bidding. I know many Dominants would say "This is not about the subs fulfillment, it is all about the Doms fulfillment", while I would argue that it is about making the sub want to fulfill his/her Dom/Dommes wishes. I do not know if this is the correct definition (most probably are not) but now you at least know why I put submissive and not slave.
If you are looking for a 24/7 nolimit slave, then I am really not your best option. I am 35 and I have some commitments in my life that I am not able or willing to walk away from. I am a father and I am a son, I am a brother and I am a husband. I work full time and I got bills to pay. This profile is not about my fantasies, it is about what I realistically have and want to offer a Dom/Domme.
I am not an expert on BDSM, psychology or relationship. I do not have all the answers, but my fantasy and philosophy is simple. I find pleasure in serving others. I find even greater pleasure serving those who take advantage and utilize my desire to serve them. If I find fulfillment in being told to eat or drink something distasteful simply because I'm told to do, then maybe there is someone who find fulfillment in making me do so? If I find fulfillment in writing a homoerotic love letter to Donald Trum, simply because I am told to, then maybe there is someone who find fulfillment in making me do so? This is the core of any D/s relationship as I understand it. It is not about how sick sexual acts one can do to the other. It is not about how much money one can withdraw from the other. It is all of the above. It is simply about one part finding fulfillment in doing as told, and the other in having what it says done. This brings us to the concept of limits.
BDSM is a part of life or a way of life. Life is set within a given framework. We all have limits on what we can and cannot do. Some soft limits, some hard limits and some undeniable limits. In BDSM I can use these examples: Soft Limit: I dont enjoy drinking coffee, so I would like to avoid the discomfort of drinking coffee. Hard Limit: I am discussed by the thought of drinking urine, and will absolutely not do so. Undeniable limit: I can not breath water.
A Dom should have little problem convincing a sub to cross a soft limit. A Dom would work very hard if He/She wants the sub to cross a hard limit. Regardless of the effort from the Dom, a sub cant cross a undeniable limit.
Online, Real life, money, sex ... all of these aspects have their individual limitations. I love all kinds of humiliation, but even though the thought of other men having sex with my wife arouses me beyond any other consent, I cant post nudes of her online and offer her to other men. Even though it would be humiliating to crawl naked thru the streets of my hometown with a dildo in my ass, I cannot do that. Why cant I ? Because it goes against my nature as a servant. I don't want others to suffer because of me. My need or wish for humiliation should never be the source of anyone else pain. To many this would look like a Hard limit, but for me this is a undeniable limit, because it goes against the very principle and concept of being me. I can not do that anymore than I can breath water.
Pro Dommes/ paid sessions. As a submissive who lives in a vanilla relationship, I am no stranger to the world of paid Dominatixes. Either online or real life. To me this is a sexual thing, and does not fulfill the desire I have as a submissive outside the pure sexual acts. If I am paying you, to do something I want... well then you are not the one making me wanna do what you want me to do... it is a simple as that. This is not to say that I think Pro Dommes and paid sessions are fake Dommes or that I dont see the point with paid sessions.. Im simply saying that it is another "game" all togehter.
Regarding the name.. tricky slave... it is based on the character concept from cartoons and fairytales.. where it is a lower rank "friend", that enables the happiness of the main charcater....
This is probably as long as anyone is willing to read :) Feel free to contact me if there is anything you want from me :)
yours,
Anders
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