I find total submission to my Husband sexually attractive and emotionally satisfying. I feel the more I submit to him....the more I control him and his feelings for me...It's like Yin and Yan.......

I want to expose myself and my feelings emotionally, sexually and intimately online at collarme without shame or fear of reprisal, humiliation or ridicule in a secretive way.

We have small children, we are also considering giving up our D/s lifestyle in about 3 - 5 years, as this does not go well with normal sensible adults raising normal children in a sensible way. So we are very conflicted with our lifestyle and are very much troubled by it at times as children come first not our erotic fantasies.

We are an easy going, liberal and open minded couple. I enjoy doms helping me find my erotic peaks and me doing something in return to turn them on..and I respect them for it.

I still have a lot to learn to fulfill my dom's fantasies and it helps me learn about myself and my dom. I like to talk online with Male doms, and even female doms about their training experiences and how to be a good sub. I like to talk with a good teacher. I am not sure how far I want to take this. But there are limitations set by circumstances, time limits, kids and our own emotions.

I am in a loving monogamous relationship and am not interested in sex outside marriage without my partner's permission Which is almost always a NO. So Doms interested in a r/t relationship with me hoping that I will change my mind should not email me.

I am fine and okay with an online relationship that will never be anything in real life if you desire the same.