What is a Submissive?
It seems to me there are many different types of Submissives;
Role Play Sub; These Subs like to "play"
the part for a few hours minutes or maybe even a weekend, then go back
to their vanilla life, they seem to want to decide when where they will
play the part.
Online Sub These sub vow eternal obedience to
their Dom and follow every order as they should, then change their
screen name or site and find more and new Dommes to do the same with.
Sexual Sub; these kinds of submissive's want the kink or fetish. They
want to be restrained, blindfolded, spanked, flogged, beaten or whatever
their fetish is. Once the sex act is over they go away happy until the
next time.
A true Sub; "serves from the heart, they don't need an Owner driving
them to do something, they do it willingly, gladly, eagerly. They see their Owner's glass half empty and they fill it, they take care
of their Owner's needs sometimes before the Owner realizes what it is
They want. They don't need words of praise, the fact that their Owner is content
and comfortable is praise enough. They don't need others to see that they're submitting, the fact that
they are is more then enough."
With that said, it seems I fall into the category of "Sexual Sub"
Now is that a BAD thing? Should I forget about the BSDM lifestyle and just find a kinky partner? I do not think many Dommes would be interested in a Sub like this, would they?
I am interested in any comments you may have.
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