Toronova

Submissive Application

Must have BDSM test results

Must have a photo


Please answer the following questions by XYZ

1 How do you see yourself serving me?

2 Why do you think I am an ideal fit?

Please provide your daily schedule and answer the following

3 How do you see me fitting into your schedule?

4 Every car has an oil change schedule What is yours?

5 What is your astrological sign?

6 What are your daily habits?

No Pic Rule

Life is so much more peaceful once I decided to not respond to the "no pic" guys. Those men tend to be a waste of time. They're not showing their faces because they have wives and girlfriends. Who needs drama? 

Now, if they have no city and no photo, COMPLETELY avoid.  These men are ghosts who don't want to found by their SO or you. 

The travelers are the funniest.  "I'm traveling to your town....." Stop!  You're not vaxxed and you have no recent STD results.  If I wanted to fuck Al Bundy, I can do that locally. Just No! 

Women are Not Bookmarks 

For some reason, men have the idea that women are waiting for them to get back to the chapter they left off on.  My love, like time, women move on. 

If we have not moved past the hello stage, you are not a candidate. If I haven't spoken to you in over five days, you are not a candidate. If our kinks don't match, if you have no photo or city noted on your account, you are not a candidate.  You know what you are?  A waste of time. 

The Dreaded Canned Response 

I'm done getting spammed.  Feel free to use this when you just can't.

Dear applicant

Please dont waste your time in spamming women. Were interested in men who are genuinely interested in us and have mutual interests.

Being a submissive means you are looking to obey and serve. Since you failed to mention any of these key points, Im going to presume you were bored.

Dame

Unsolicited DIC PICS in CALIFORNIA 

Gentleman, please be aware that unsolicited dic pics in the state of California carry with it a $2500 fine.  I need to go charge someone with breaking the law.

Hurt Feelings 

Why is it that you're hurt after getting called out for lying? You knew you were lying to start with. 

The things I've heard this weekend: 

I'm interested, give me your number  

             Texted me after day drinking. Proceeded to get mad at me for my BS

I'm moving to San Diego. Looking for a Mommy Domme.  

           Really? From which zip code?  Never heard back, guess he's not from LA

You are perfect, please let me serve you.

          You live in Russia

Maybe, I should leave until Mercury Retrograde is over. 

Long Distance Love

As some of you may know, I have no issue with long distance relationships.  Last night, my sub and I had a great time. He lives overseas.  We discovered the voice option on the Lovense.  It vibrates when you listen to the message. Needless to say, a good time was had by all.

The BDSM Test and other Pesky Things

 I'm an experienced dominant, but more so, I am an expert at shutting down a lot of foolishness. 

The BDSM Test

There are a lot of people on here who have no idea what this world is about.  They are hypothetically submissive or dominant.  They have no idea who they are.  I request people to take it because it's important to know who you are, what you may be into or what mostly is required to maintain a relationship with you.  

I Bet You Can't Make Me Submissive

This is a sucker's bet.  I don't work for free and until you have something to wager, that bet will never be on the table. 

The Confession

I've never XYZ.  I'm not a priest, so I don't need to know what experiences you've had.  By the way, the confession has lately been confused with asking a question.  If you cannot communicate what you're looking for, it is not my job to be your therapist and go ten rounds with you, unless you're paying me. 

 Submission vs Service

Submission is about serving the dominant.  You are here to worship and obey.  When you contact a dominant with requests which do not fit the above criteria, you are looking for a service. Expect to pay a fee because you are not looking to establish a relationship with a dominant, you are looking to satisfy YOUR kinks. 

Long Distance Relationships

I've talked about this before, but allow me to further explain the dynamic.  Not my monkey, not my circus. My first question is: How does this relationship benefit ME? When I ask that question, some of you think I'm asking if you've been to Alioth.  There has to be a mutual benefit to both parties. Otherwise, you're asking for a service. 

The Dominants

I have filters on my mail.  Mail from dominants is highlighted in blue.  I will never open them, thank you for viewing my profile.  I am not interested.  

Thanks for reading.

Willing to Serve Long Distance 

Yes, but do you have travel money? I saw this video where a man had 12 mini adventures a year and One big adventure.   Long distance relationships no joke. They require maintenance. Something your car also needs, but you don't do it. No matter how old my car is, it gets washed every week. The oiled is changed on the manufacturers suggestion. My last car was on a 7500/3000 mile cycle.  

Keep dreaming, lover boy.

How to Read BDSM Test Results

I borrowed someone's results to prove he was lying.  He told me he was into domestic work and wanted to crossdress.  I call it a lie.  The Boy/Girl results would have been at least 50%.  The best I can figure is he need to be degraded.  That sounds like work to me and I am not looking to work unless I'm getting paid.  In addition, he's over 50% switch, which means he's looking to take control.  We were definitely not compatible.  

Results from bdsmtestorg

100 Degradee
96 Slave
93 Submissive
92 Pet
88 Voyeur
84 Rope bunny
78 Masochist
76 Experimentalist
64 Nonmonogamist
63 Exhibitionist
54 Switch
51 Primal Prey
44 Brat
20 Vanilla
0 Ageplayer
0 BoyGirl

Is it just me, or did everyone lose the "Read Mail" tab? 

Leave a message at the sound of the tone☎️

The Art of the Long Distance Relationship

There are A LOT of submissive men who are volunteering themselves to be long distane submissives. Some even volunteer to say that they are relocateable. Lets just say that some of you lack the fundamentals to be one.

Long distance relationships are not a "just add water" formula.  A really good LDR begins with a connection. They are two good friends who talk about their daily life and kink up their relationship.  

As a long time dominant,ds I've had LDRs with men in Australia, the UK, and on a very rare occasion men in GMT1.  Yes, awareness of time zones is essential.  You may be going to bed, but your girl may be just getting home from work.

Kink begins with vanilla.  Introduce yourselves, allow a person to get to know you, discover who the person is and what your mutual kinks are.  Are you really compatible, and do you really want this person to be your friend?

Kink begins with vanilla an introduction, commonality, communication skills, respect, trust, and then common kinks and values If it did not begin with vanilla, youd be handing me over your paycheck 

Rogue, it's so Bridgerton.  

I love this season of Dr. Who

I have discovered mail filters.  That cut the unnecessary out. I've also found a few friends. It's so nice to chat to normal people.  

This is definitely not FL.  I feel like I keep banging my head against a wall.  Why must so many men be fuck bois?  I've needed to instill a new rules, Must have a picture, must have taken the bdsm test, definitely must be west coast.  Maybe, I'll actually find what I'm looking for. 

My apologies while my ad is being approved once more.  Everytime I decide to edit it, it needs to be approved.  

Its been a very interesting 24 hours on CS.  This is definitely not like all the other kink sites.  Submissives are coming out of the woodwork, kinks of all kind being offered to me, but sadly, everyone is concerned with THEIR kink and not the person administering it.  I guess men will be men, sadly.