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toescurled69

Tall 6'4" 270 former football player who is still active in many different sports in administration of them. A Dom who is great listener and professional, clean cut, and thoughtful but the other side of me after work. That?s when the fun begins and (though I can be quite nasty to my ladies if they so want it ;}>). I will pull your seat out for you and send you flowers, but I can also provide a great conversation and fill your brain with useful and useless information. I enjoy the effect sensory deprivation, bondage, caning and discipline has on My subjects and I enjoy whatever means it takes to get the desired effects I have a very personal touch. You will feel at ease with me ? but on your toes. While I am compassionate, I am also very much in charge. I love to open you up to new possibilities and teach you new things. ? Pleasure, pain, bondage, transformation, and knowledge?. I will take you places you never been!! There's a fine line between cuddling and holding someone down so they can't get away. I am a strong believer that being either a Dominant or a submissive does not preclude the person from being a person. I have never treated a sub as simply an object. That is not to say that I oppose humiliation techniques--that is many times part of the submissive lifestyle. But I do not believe in dehumanization techniques. I prefer a thinking, intelligent submissive who makes controlling her a bit of a challenge. While I enjoy role play, I prefer to help the submissive push her limits in both traditional sexual and nonsexual situations. But, for this to happen, we must trust each other. And I recognize that trust takes time to develop.