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Im an extremely submissive guy looking for a Ds relationship. I am looking for a LTR with a Dom that involves service and mutual support, care, and affection for one another, in addition to sex. I am not looking for hookups. Sex without the power exchange element doesnt mean much to me.
Power exchange is far and away my most important kink. The next two are diapers and leather. By leather, I mean more the traditional role of a leather sub, than explicitly the leather items themselves. Submission for me is mostly mental. Of course there are physical aspects, but I seek a Dom who can get in my head. For example, sex to me could mean a worship session where Im 100 focused on my Dom. I may get no sexual pleasure, but the mental pleasure and physical support means that even though I didnt orgasm, Im still 100 satisfied.
I gain pleasure from serving my Dom in most aspects. I like seeing my Dom happy and knowing that Im the source of that happiness. I seek a Dom that is affectionate, strict, gives discipline when warranted, takes care of His sub, and has the patience to teach His sub the best way to serve Him. I do not handle pain well, but what little I can take, I will if it makes my Dom happy. My pain tolerance can also be built up over time. I am interested in a situation where I live with my Dom (and hopeful significant other), however, I value my financial independence, whether thats from my own source of outside income or working in my profession. While I believe all parties should contribute to the financial health of the household, I am not interested in financial domination. I buy gifts for my Dom when the mood strikes because I want to and care about my Dom, not because its required.
My kink list includes the following
Power Exchange
Diapers (generally wet only)
Leather (and all the traditions that go with it)
Water sports
Humiliation
Cum control
Light to moderate bondage
Discipline
Flogging
Submissive side of age play
Anal play
Underwear (briefs in specific)
Jocks
Wedgies (on occasion, it comes and goes)
CMNM (especially if the clothed Man is wearing a suit)
Boot, foot, and whole body worship
Possibly more that i havent tried
Limits
CBT
Blood
Permanent marks
Illegal stuff
Drugs and smoking
Breath play
Rimming someone else
I am not immediately looking to relocate, but it could be a possibility for the right person and a lot of discussion.
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