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If you want my immediate attention, then tell me are you a daddy with experience, I don't mean dress me up in little girl kink, I mean a real care for me daddy, my heart. If you answer with a generic definition of a DOM, that’s not what I'm asking for. I need proof, specific examples, day to day examples of behavior, like what you do when I get home from work. Give me real life anecdotes from past relationships; "then there was the time my baby girl’s cat died and this is what I did” or, “she had terrible PMS and so I did….” You know, experience. It's not that difficult if you are what you claim to be! And tell me about spanking, I need it every day. Not new to this lifestyle. I have experience. Looking for an experienced Dom. I need to be led. You must first demonstrate here the character traits in my experience which prove you to be a gentleman of character. Past time here was simply a disappointment from uneducated rudeness towards me as a woman. You should know most of us receive over five to 12 new introduction letters a day, not including those writing us back. I work, I manage. I'm expected to write logical proposals with each step, goals, why my approach will work with specifics. Do you men not have the same responsibilities? Why don't you approach us like that instead of dumb one liners, nasty nicknames for women and with no clarity? What I consider pleasurable about pain is the level of pain I can enjoy. Beyond that is my 'limit', where actual pain begins. That's no fun: Dragging me around corners up hard steps, while tearing off my favorite work outfits and with your belt beating me, beating me over and over while I'm crying hysterically, that is painful. Or, it can be humiliation beyond teasing or offensive name calling, all which you should know better with me is not honor of my submission, is not my duty to you, is not service to us. Can you handle this? I'm being honest, I know the difference.

11/3/2015 9:40:18 AM I never will understand why a person chooses to live an unhappy married life when divorce takes courage no matter who or what our circumstances are.  I think it is disingenuous to hide the fact you're married (the same applies to making a short reference to such a fact at the end of your profile) and worse not to say it to me when you introduce yourself.  What was I to do after going into the details of our lives, possibly finding a real opportunity to be a couple, then discover by some accident you are married? Again, it takes courage to admit something about oneself we don't like.  I'm not angry but disappointed in finding a person of experience in all those aspects of a Loving Domestic Discipline lifestyle, who lacks the courage to be honest early on.  That is a major, if not the major untenable and irreconcilable violation of trust.