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Being raised in a good southern home, with traditional values, I find being submissive a strong plus. This does not mean I am close-minded, but rather the opposite. I love and adore men, but am not looking for a "Daddy" figure, I have one. I am by nature a polite and well spoken individual. I have a mind and do love to use it. I have a vanilla life, but seek, crave, NEED something more. I am not interested in jumping right into sex, sexually explicit conversation, web cam shows, or any of the other lovely games people seem to want to play.
I am a single woman and a single mom. My daughter is NOT part of any arrangement, as she is beautiful and innocent (like all children should be) and will stay that way. Though, I do hope to eventually be granted at least one more child.
I am 28 from NWA, I am not athletic, or thin, hell, I will go so far as to agree I am, by any definition of the word, Fat. It does not bother me, it is simply a fact. Something I am working to change, but refuse to let guide and rule my life.
I have my monthly own income, so I am not seeking a "sugar daddy" or someone to scam. While, I am willing to relocate, I am in no hurry to jump into something dangerous. I would rather find and commit to the one Man/Dominate that I can offer my submission, obedience, love, and loyalty to, than to spend countless hours playing the silly games of pretend doms.
I am looking for the LTR and not interested in anything NSA. I still have intact many of my "old school" values, but know I am a better person when I submit my will to someone stronger and trustworthy.
I realize that to many this commentary may not sound like it is coming from someone with a submissive bone in their body, but I assure it is. I just see no point in wasting anyone's valuable time. As I said, I do have a mind, and will also admit that at times I do forget myself. I tend to be a very passionate person, so while my ultimate goal is to always be pleasing to my "Sir" I may need to be reminded to watch my tone or tread lightly.
I have no desire to "top from the bottom" but seek someone who can truly TOP. I am willing given time, trust, and affection to FREELY offer my submission to that one Dominate male who is both willing to understand and truly control me.
I cannot offer my trust easily or quickly for many reasons. One being my child and another being a very, very bad experience with a Dom a few years ago. Like they say "Once bitten...".
I will be adding or be more than willing to share my photo with those who care to read my profile and tell me that is their desire.
I do ask, and I really do mean ask, that if you respond to my profile you do so in a way that does not leave me questioning how serious you are, or whether you are just play pretending to be anything other than the kid picked on in school looking for a way to "rule the roost".
I will respond in some way to anyone who takes the time to read my profile and message me, as manners are NEVER over-rated. And being rude gets us nowhere in life.
Thank you for taking the time to read this as I realize it was rather lengthy and somewhat jumbled. I am not always great at getting things from mind to paper without the stimulation of an actual conversation.
Always,
tired of playing.
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I have experienced many highs and lows in my life, I have looked into myself and explored who and what I am, and I have thought about who and what I hope to one day be. My journey is no where near done, I simply hope that I can and will continue to embrace tomorrow and each new challenge before me courage and enthusiasm.
Life is a journey that helps shape and mold us into the people we are and will become. It isn't something we have all the answers to at 18 or even at 88, it is something that continues to reveal itself to us, throughout our lives...if we keep our eyes and our minds open.
For me, learning ME and what I want and need was one of the hardest and most rewarding things. With that knowledge I was opened to a world of possibilities and hopes. I realized so much about myself and can now offer more of myself to the person I am seeking.
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As I sorted through and read profiles, because at times I find them both amusing and interesting, I found that some people truly don't believe that a submissive person has any or very little self-respect. While, I agree, some submissive people have issues with their self-worth, self-esteem, and or self-respect; I do not believe that is always the case.
I am an intelligent, open-minded, loving, caring, and well rounded human being. I happen to believe that a relationship needs a dominate personality and a submissive personality. And submissive does not always mean a rug or something to be walked over. Two dominate personalities would never accomplish anything do to constantly bickering over who's way is the right way. Just as two submissive people could never accomplish anything because neither could successfully and comfortably take control and the lead.
Being submissive is not ALWAYS a sign of weakness, but can be and most likely should be a way to make two people stronger. When both parties learn, grow, and find an understanding within their dynamic that works for them, how can either person truly be weak? They always have each other to lean on, to care for and about, and remind them of their center.
Perhaps, I have it all wrong and my own views of what I am seeking are not compatible for here...but I will be giving it time and genuine effort to find what and who I seek.
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