I am not trying to be rude or anything, however, one thing that has been bothering me since I have joined this site is the pervasive thought that all a slave is, is a sex toy. This is idea is not only prevalent among Masters, Mistresses, Dom, and Dommes, but also among other slaves. Not only is this thought incorrect, but it may cause many headaches for those who are searching. While, yes, I admit that as slave I am able to express my sexuality much more, that is not all I do. I cook, clean, garden, take care of the house in general. So, as a piece of advice, for my fellow subs, slaves, or kajira, perhaps instead of stating that all you want is for someone to use you, mention what you can do for them, and what you bring to a relationship. As for the free, instead of stating you want a person who you can push to the sexual extreme, list what you would expect from them. You will find people who sex is all they think about are less flaky than their sex maniac counterparts. A Free/slave relationship is really not that different from "normal" relationship, and like "normal" relationship, sex is 3rd on the totem pole of the 4 major requirements for successful relations. Thank you for reading my thoughts.