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timorousSAM

I want to make certain that everyone realizes that I am here to look. I might chat. I might respond to the right email messages. I am not looking to find someone to hook up with tonight.

I have been in two D/s relationships. One was very short. The other long...5 years and he is still one of my best friends. He is much older, he is married (his wife knows and is one of my friends) and his life is settled. I had other things that I needed to do so I moved away. This man will always be my friend and you will probably have to talk to him before I decide to do anything, not because I need his permission but because I value his opinion.

My dog is my life. I love her dearly. I somehow adopted myself, except she has endless supplies of energy. She is smart, bratty and endearing.

Intelligence is a turn on. Social liberalism is a turn on. Extreme religiousness is a turn off. Bigotry is a turn off.

Stimulating my mind is a big part of getting me turned on.
In an ideal world, I would like to be someone's #1 girl all the time and when I have times of no sexual interest, he could play with other girls. I am looking for LTR or consistency. I am not someone who has the desire to sleep around. But I am not necessarily looking to move in with you and be together 24/7. I do not know if that is actually LTR or not. I am looking for someone local.
Don't be afraid to message me. I am shy around new people. Sometimes you have to work to get things out of me.
  • Age Play
  • Blindfolds
  • Bondage
  • Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.
  • Chastity Devices
  • Collar and Lead/Leash
  • Confinement/Caging
  • Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)
  • Defilement, Seeing a Partner Dirty or Wet
  • Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)
  • Domination
  • Hair Pulling
  • Handcuffs/Shackles
  • Humiliation
  • Masochism
  • Massage
  • Pain
  • Power Exchange
  • Role Playing
  • Sadism
  • Sensory Deprivation
  • Sex During Menstruation
  • Spanking/Paddling
  • Talking Dirty
  • Titty fucking
  • Vibrators
  • Voyeurism
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
89% Submissive
80% Brat
74% Rope bunny (I find it strange that this is 3rd. I would think it closer to where slave is.)
72% Girl/Boy
68% Masochist
67% Degradee
64% Non-monogamist
52% Slave
50% Ageplayer
47% Experimentalist
45% Primal (Prey)
43% Pet
41% Vanilla
25% Voyeur
22% Exhibitionist
18% Switch
11% Degrader
9% Brat tamer
9% Dominant
8% Rigger
6% Sadist
5% Master/Mistress
5% Daddy/Mommy
5% Primal (Hunter)
4% Owner