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| Hoping to meet a woman who shares the same interest, excitement, curiosity about bondage, restraint, being submissive to a man. I don't want to consider having a strictly vanilla relationship with another woman for the rest of my life. What I enjoy makes no sense to me, it never has made much sense. I hope this site helps me connect with a woman who relates.
I fantasize about creative sex, bondage and restraint, dominating a woman for both our pleasure. But, I don't find enjoyment or satisfaction if a woman is being forced to do anything against her will or she finds it difficult to find joy in creative sex, role play, bondage. I hope that she wants to be told what to do and when to do it, or enjoys being tied up, silenced, and enjoys being helpless to fend off my advances, maybe likes to pretend to fight me off, but secretly enjoys being dominated, pleasing me, and finds pleasure in participating in bdsm. In return, I'm very loyal, very protective of the woman who cares about me, generous, and would be willing to do almost anything for her. I can be a great friend, I want to be a great friend, a partner, but I believe in traditional man and woman roles. Making sure she is safe and enjoys herself is important to me. I'd love to be in a relationship again someday.
About me: I was married for 25-yrs to the same woman, cared deeply for her. With regards to our sex life, it was always very hard for me to share my deeper fantasies with her, she always looked at me with disgust and made comments that made me feel like I was mentally ill or sick. Hoping to find like minded people Here. Sex was always a predictable, boring, tedious chore. My ex wife begrudgingly participated in bedroom fantasies, (pretending that she enjoyed herself?) she always consented to try things, but I always felt judged and guilty for asking. She always said she had no fantasies, I long to her a woman's fantasy and make it come true. A perfect symbiotic relationship where each of our fantasy is the same.
The marriage ended four years ago. I haven't dated much since, I think because I don't look forward to sharing my socially unaccepted sexual fantasies with another woman, or trust another woman with my desires, only to be judged negatively. I can have straight vanilla sex and enjoy it somewhat but it just isn't the same without some additional creative dominant submissive bondage play.
I'm 48 years old, look younger. I'm educated, smart, I'm told I have a great smile. Physically, a stocky frame, a quiet unassuming nature, soft spoken on the outside.
I have no diseases, I'm healthy, I'm not gay or bi. I'm not interested in texting endlessly and never meeting but fine waiting until we get to know each other.. I'm fine with a woman who is experimenting, I appreciate limits. I like to talk, share. I'm looking for a long term relationship down the line. At my job, with family and friends, I'm considered completely "normal". But, I just hope to meet a woman who can appreciate an exciting, safe, bdsm filled sex life. But, also spend time outside of the bedroom dining out, doing things outdoors, going to a movie, traveling, whatever, while we both secretly dream of ball gags, rope, and orgasms.
Email me if this strikes any chord with you, I'd like to meet you.
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