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tigerjoaniescott

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Bare minimum req's for me: *Be single. No married or involved people. Couples considered on a very limited basis. *Be employed and/or in school. You need to be doing something with yourself. *Be geographically near me. No long distance or "Internet only" relationships. *Be sincere. No liars, no game-players, no "I was going to tell you right away, but..." *Be careful what you say to me, I pay attention and I'll know when you contradict yourself, and I'll walk right away from you. *Be open to communication. Be ready to read and write and talk a lot before you get anywhere with me. *Be intelligent and educated. Use full sentences, proper grammar and spelling. Write like you give a shit. *DO NOT EXPECT SEX. DO NOT EXPECT FIRST MEETINGS TO BE SEXUAL NOR HAPPEN IN PRIVATE. If you want easy sex, go pay for it, or find an easy girl to fuck and throw away. Me: self-respecting, sharp-tongued, strong-willed, and rather submissive. I read many profiles in which dominant men and women talk about not wanting a "doormat" of a partner, and then you meet someone like me who looks for mutual trust and respect, someone who insists that she and her limits are respected, and you spit out the word "b*tch" with all haste. Make up your minds. It is a privilege, a PRIVILEGE to have someone of quality submit to you. It is equally a privilege to submit to someone of quality. The sweet part: I am an experienced BDSM player in search of new friends and playmates. Ideally, I'd like a closed dating relationship with somebody kinky, as I find when I try to date "vanilla" that it never works out. Although I'm a bit submissive, I also like playing with my partners and inflicting a bit of pain on them, too. I live for yoga, cycling, videogames, books and words, traveling, and exploring. Let's go to the beach, let's go up North, let's do things around town, and if and when it comes to sex, let's make sure it would turn vanilla to chocolate. ;) Be smart, be real, be honest. BE DISCREET. I am not public with my private life, especially not with my sex life. Don't bullsht me and I won't bullsht you. I have very high standards for others and I hold myself to those same standards, too. Anything less than the best is a felony.

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7/16/2013 6:58:27 AM

It's like this: I know I'm not the only one you're talking to, whoever you are.  You're not the only one I'm talking to, either.  Let's all be honest about this.  

 

I know some people jump when somebody they're interested in dangles the possibility of "others" in front of them.  Of course you have others in your life, if it serves you better to spend your time with them, do that.  Do you have free time when I don't or vice versa?  Well, then of course you'll spend it with somebody else, don't be silly, and don't try and use it as some kind of odd FOMO leverage against me.

 

I assure you I'll be making the choices that serve me best and keep me in balance.  I'd hope you'd do the same for yourself.


7/11/2013 7:40:53 AM

RED FLAGS:

When you start in with terms of dominance and submission (ie Sir, Daddy, Mistress, pet, slave, slut, dear etc.) before we've even gotten through basic introductions.  

 

When you push for a phone number or other more personal contact information before comfort has been reached.  If we feel like we want to meet off-line, maybe you can have my phone number then.  You can have direct contact to me when we are no longer strangers to each other.

 

When you attack me for creating a strong presence in my profile but still speaking of being submissive.  If you knew what it was to be a submissive women and what can happen to submissive women in the hands of the wrong people, you'd not begrudge me my strength and my attention to self-protection.

 

 

 

 


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mistresssadistiq
 
 Age: 32
  New York