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tigerflower

semi-reclusive, creative, sadistic femdom in established kink-based relationship looking for friends, occasional play partners and service orientated submissives in South East London. Not into timewasters! My romantic needs are met by my partner, potential subs or play partners note you will NOT come between us..
My play style is rough,primal and violent...biting, slapping, hair pulling, cbt...and creatively experimental...zentai, masks, changing image and perceptions, exploring mindsets and emotions. If you want to play then be prepared to be hurt. Also be prepared to spend time with myself and my partner...poly situations not entirely ruled out.
The softer side of me enjoys nurturing and supporting those around me and needs assistance in day to day life maintaining the home and freeing me to focus more on my art/craft. To this end a more service orientated submissive is sought. You will be expected to clean efficiently and know that your role is to make my life easier. Those who drive particularly welcome.
more about me;
From the age of (far too young) I knew and acted on my needs to hurt and control men. My childlike joy at seeing men in pain being tempered somewhat by time and experience but never the less remaining a strong and primal drive within me.
I've had adventures, taken insane risks and at times played far from 'safe', thankfully my enthusiasm for learning and exploring have never abated and now comes with the added benifit of wildly varied experiences, mistakes made and lessons learned!
Passionate, intense, intelligent and forthright I can often come across as serious, arrogant, staid and aloof to those who don't know me well. Those who invest some time find a warmer, kind, empathic and humourous soul, happy to share time and be supportive to those of like mind.
In looking I am drawn far more by who you are than a list of what you like, the activity used to illustrate and express a dynamic is far less important to me than a 'click' and willingness to explore together and I have found great delight in finding areas of compatibility in situations where it was not immediately obvious. The right attitude trumps experience and ability everytime.
Drawn to the offbeat, I enjoy those who are smart, able to laugh at almost anything (including themselves), open-minded and of kind humour. I do not enjoy snobs, particularly of the intellectual variety, or those whose self esteem is based in putting other people down.
Getting out and about is challenging for me. My priorities are, and will always remain, my health, homelife and quite exceptionally wonderful partner. Not looking for romantic relationships or a riotous scene life but for those with whom I can fulfill and further explore my sadism and dominance within the context of friendship, intimacy, mutual respect and responsibility.

Physically I am short, very round, on the prettier side of plain with a luscious twinkle in my eyes. I don't indulge in the 'Mistress uniform' so if you're looking for a corset clad, whip wielding stereotype you will be very disappointed.
If, however, you are looking to engage with someone knowledgeable, fun and over all very 'real' then get in touch..

4/7/2013 8:14:35 AM

less than a day on the site and already sick of being referred to as goddess...especially by those who say they have read my profile...where is my mention of being a deity? 

 

Nowhere!

 

Now get over yourselves and try and talk to me like a normal human being, I am one, flawed and imperfect as they come...just like you!