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Looking for a sub to tie between these columns. One who aspires to have being called things like "fuck toy" or "fuck puppet". Women who refer to themselves in such terms turn me on. I only joined the world of BDSM several years ago when my marriage fell apart. For most of my life I suppressed my interest in BDSM. First I was just interested in sex with bound women. But as time passes I realize how much of this I have repressed and how long it has been a part of me. The interest and desires have been there a long time. Partners I have met here and else where have let me explore that. Layers of the onion continue to peel away. My interests include bondage, spanking, flogging, "humiliation/degradation", teasing and orgasm denial. My interests also expand regularly. I still don't consider myself a real sadist, but sometimes I do enjoy causing "discomfort" and know many women find pain can make sex more intense. I find myself excited by women who refer to themselves in derogatory terms. ( A favorite scene from 6 Feet Under: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBAxa5lGkTE )
8/11/2016 4:01:35 AM
Life moves pretty fast.  If you don't slow down once in a while, tie a woman down to a bed and do things to her flower; you can miss out. 

11/9/2015 6:03:03 PM
When I first ventured here years ago I wondered if I really was a dom.  I had suppressed that side of my personality for years. 

But the more I talk to submissive women and hear their troubles trying to get a little dominance from their vanilla boyfriends the more I realize there is no doubt that I am of a dominate mind set.  

I just don't understand the concept of a heterosexual male who says they are uncomfortable when a date says they want a spanking or to be tied down and treated like a sex toy.  How is that not a "Yes and ..." moment? 
5/22/2015 7:54:47 PM
Met a partner to mutually relieve some sexual frustrations.  Nothing 80 minutes of sex couldn't relieve. 

Need that more often. 

5/20/2015 5:19:32 AM
I have no real picture here so the evil ex will not try to use it as a ploy to get custody of the kids. 
5/6/2015 4:29:59 AM
Ah it is really spring now. With a week of perfect spring like weather.  Feels so nice, and see earlier post on the weather. 

5/4/2015 5:30:17 AM
Truth be told I often find fingering to be emotionally satisfying for me. Its the women I'm with that beg me to stick my cock in because they want more. 

5/3/2015 6:47:08 AM
I have read here posts by subs lamenting the women reading 50 shades and coming on here "just because they want to be tied up and fucked." 

I'm a bit more open minded than that.  If a consenting adult wants to try it out to see if they like it, let them learn and find their kinky side.

Everyone has to start somewhere.  And bondage sex is where I started my real life experiences too. Having a woman tied up is deeply erotic and a huge aphrodisiac. Doesn't mater if she is laughing and clearly loving it, or if she is mock fighting, feeling her helpless movements while pounder her is delicious.  
5/2/2015 3:25:19 AM
This has been a weird spring so far.  Started off normally but last few weeks have been unusual weather.  Normally this time of year (which I think of as human mating season) I have crazy horny.  But the cold weather seems to have cooled my desire to a normal level as well.  Wonder if this is true for others. 

Tonster01
 
 Age: 21
 Fairbanks, Alaska