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| Been far removed from the lifestyle for a number of years. After many years of being active in the lifestyle, reality just sort of made it difficult. Losing a beloved wife/partner simply drained me of my drive and desires. Not to mention the practical matters of being a single parent. None of it was easy, but I look at it as the price to be paid for so many years of amazing pleasure and fulfillment. Obviously, the pain did not last forever, though it can never be totally forgotten. . The years passed and, slowly, the hurt and loss has faded. I'm not ready to jump into anything, but I am here to see what things are like, after all of this time. And, let me make it clear that I am not here to waste anybody's time! I would welcome simple and honest friendships! No matter where, if anywhere, they might lead.
I was used to an almost elegant kind of lifestyle! I don't mean elegant as in money, but more of a vintage style of expression. Her manner of dress was most romantic with long, pencil skirts, corsets, etc. Being dominant, in my mind, did not mean that I had to be arrogant or overbearing. It also did not mean that there was not plenty of room for intensity. I married a strong woman and would never have guessed that she was as deeply submissive as she could be independent. As our limits expanded, my dominance broadened - and, we were both surprised! She never feared where we might end up, as we explored new things! That is the attitude that I hope, someday, to find, again, in a woman!
Anyway, I am quite single and, except for what age does to a body, in pretty good health. As I said, it has been a number of years and I am seeing what the lifestyle is like, today. I have kept some contact with friends so I am not totally out of touch.
Just want to make some new friends, feel my way back into things slowly. I'm not superficial or casual and, in time, I might like to begin a new relationship but, for now, I just want to make some new acquaintances. I just have the feeling that there is, for me, a lot of catching up to do!
My aim would be for an honest, deep sort of relationship. While playing might be a good way to get involved, I would much rather find a contemporary woman, whatever her situation, for something much more committed. There is so much to share! No need to be hasty! I guess that my level of experience might also make me a very good teacher for that person who is just checking things out.
I will welcome any gestures.
Ultimately, should I get back into this lifestyle, I am looking for that spark, that connection that is so rare between two people. But, that is, for me, where a foundation is found and, from there, we can move forward. I guess that the current term is "sapio" and that , very much identifies with me!
My lengthy experience has meant that there is so much I have experienced. And enjoyed. For me, a submissive woman is beautiful if she is naked, in leather or latex or just in her weekend grubbies. And, in my mind, she is always a lady!
My profile picture is a few years old, but I decided that a touch of discretion was not a bad idea.
I would welcome hearing from any people who want to be friends and who are contacts for further interaction, as I slowly become involved in things, once again. I am not going to rush into anything, other than sharing with good friends. Admittedly, my hope is to, in time, find the right person wth who I can create a special kind of relationship.
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I am honestly just sticking my toes in the water and seeing what things are like. That does not mean that I will waste anybody's time. I am simply being careful and cautious. |
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There is no connection, between a man and a woman, that is deeper and more significant than what is forged between a dominant man and a submissive woman |
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| Age: 22 |
| Virginia,
Virginia |
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