Logged on today to say "Who's  that masked vixen?"  And when I logged on the picture was quite coincidentally a lady in a mask.  Touche!  The vixen I had in mind of course is my friend i met here a few weeks ago. Awesome gal.

Someone told me she is bisexual but monogamous. Huh?  Does that means she had sex with a woman once upon a time? She says she only has sex with her husband. Never with women. I think that doesnt meet the meaning of the term bisexual.

As they said on Sex and the City, "if you dont dive you are not a lesbian, honey." Same holds true for bisexuality (if you are female).  I think flogging women doesnt count as sex. I could whip a man, that doesnt make me gay or bisexual. Sucking a cock would make me bisexual. So whats in her head anyway?  I don't get it. And dont really want to. I like simple minded, straight-forward, no games, no drama.

Tried to edit my profile...just wont take anything I write. Sigh

I went to a a munch. Met some old friends, and made some new ones.  So many different persuasions represented. Tops, bottoms, switches, voyuers, exhibitionists, floggers, lovers. Couples.  So  much to pick from!!!!!!

Right now I want to  spank a bare bottom mercilessly.  I'm usually more creative than that.  But today is a day to punish you.

What are munches? Why do I ask if you have been to a munch or go to any?  Here's why.

I wrote this (below) to someone on here I've chatted with for a few weeks. Its about munches. She asked me what a munch is. So I answered. 

On (that other kink site)  there are groups of people who get together (locally here in Minnesota) for a vanilla meeting to discuss kink lifestyles.  They often meet in a restaraunt.  If you join (that other site)  you can join various groups here in Minnesota. Almost all of the groups have  a rule that to get invited to a party you must attend one or two munches put on by the group.

Later I wrote this:

"So,  yeah,  munches are the real people in the area getting together to chat face to face in a friendly non-threatening non-play-oriented setting.  Almost everybody I met in the last year will not give you the time of day if you dont go to their munch. Thats because  cyber players are a totally utterly fucking waste of time and they are sick of it.  I generally never friend anybody on I havent met in real life.

  If you are just doing research for a class project then God help you -  (rest of comment deleted)  My assumption was you are legit.  But sometimes one cannot tell, know what I mean?"

It started out as a backrub.  I eventually have you face down and pull off you last threads, your panties.  I rub your feet, and ankles, and run my palms up you legs, over your cheeks, u your back, over the shoulders, and across your scalp in a senuous route. I am standing by the side of the bed, your head faces me, and your face is down off the side of the bed toward the carpet.  I rip off by shorts. You can see my legs out of the corners of your eye. if you peek up you can see my cock. But I firmly correct your heads motion.  Then I slap my cock on the back of your head so as to dub you princess, and to let you know its there waiting to pleasure you.  Then I start back down the reverse route, scalp, to back, to legs, to toes, but take a different path this time. Up and down, up and down, repeat, repeat. You get more relaxed as time slowly bubbles by.  Your sighs of relaxation let me know you enjoy this.  As I rise up the path across you body I find a path on your inner thighs.  You discreetly spread your legs on millimeter at a time. You cannot help your self.  I start flicking my fingetip across your rosebud on every pass,. Just a tease. You are getting very hot at this.   I move onto the bed by your feet.  I lick your tailbone. "Dou you like that?" I say? "uhhhhmmhummmm" you can barely mutter in reply.  i put my tongue on your tailbone acgain but press it one inch down your crack. "Like that?"  "Ummmhmmm".   I spread your cheeks and lick a bit deeper, pressing harder. Your tailbone starts rising. It starts goig up and down slighly as i lick deeper.  Soon the tip of my tongue carresses your rosebud. i give it a flick and circle it. 'Oooooo" you mutter.  By now your knees have slid up the bed to give your rump more altitude, exposing more delicate parts. I begin what I call my "stem to stern" manuever. I start at the tailbone, lick down your cheek, past one side of your anus, down one labia. twirl round the clit. Back up the other side in the same way, very slowly. So many routs are possible. Up and down, up and down. Sometimes sucking a labia for a moment. You are very wet by now. 

What do you wnat me to do next?

I tied up my cousin Jennifer in the hayloft of the big barn.  She was melting, panting, begging with her eyes. I almost whipped out my cock for her .. she had been asking earlier that day if I'd ever fucked.  But just then we got caught! Grrrr.  I've wanted her sooooo much since then.    That was my first D/s  scene.  

So farm girls get extra points. 

Dont seem to be able to set a title to the entry.

Weekend update on no particular subject whatsoever.

My fav slut went out of town for the weekend. i am sitting around stroking it while watching porn, interspersed with gardening and landscaping and doin the books.  Wish I had another part time sub who get off on giving head and getting frosted and eaten. 

I'm wondering when women get all reved up hormonally what part of them starts to shout "I need it"?  Is there a nexus of that desire (like the g-spot)  or do they feel it all over?  Is it a visceral feeling, or what?   Or is it different for different ladies?

In order for her to be completely fulfilled, her Dominant needs to respect the woman in her, care for the little girl, and fuck the slut."

  -Miss Hart

Well said.

  -Me.

I dont believe physical pleasure can be found in pain. Only psychological pleasure.  Thats more related to submission and belonging and connection than it is to pleasure.  Many will disagree.  But it makes me a gentle dom suited for the shy and wary and untrusting. A bond must occur before I could dish out any pain.