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For the relevant details, I'm a young woman who for the last five years has been involved with a poly family. I've lived full time with both members for nearly three of those years. Today our family is changing. My Master is no longer involved with the woman I've called my wife, but we are all still devoted to the children and care deeply for each other.
I am bisexual. I am not trendy bi. I am looking for meaningful relationships with women. I am not interested in new relationships with men right now. Period.
I definitely am poly oriented. What I want most from life is a marriage situation with my Master and at least one other woman, though I'm open to any number of combinations. I identify with traditional marriage roles and do have an affinity for the traditional "polygamist" marriages, but probably would never fit into one myself. I guess my interest there is primarily because I am very family oriented. I like the focus on the "We."
Having lived it for five years, I've seen a model that can work. Although I don't believe that any two groups of people will ever achieve the same model, I do believe it's given me clarity for what I want in the future. I want a wife, a sister, a lover if the connection happens. I want someone to share my life with. Since my life includes devotion to my existing Master and children, I realize that is asking a lot.
Does this mean I am only interested in someone to bring home to my man? No! I want my own relationships and my own connections. If it were to develop in a way that allowed us to live as a family, even better. But, being polyamorous I am comfortable with the idea of having serious and committed relationships outside the context of a full time marriage. What I am not comfortable with is casual encounters. I am interested in real relationships and real connections. Deep friendships have meaning. Romantic relationships have meaning. I don't sleep with men or women just for the sake of doing it. I'm just not oriented that way.
I have strong convictions, both socially and religiously. I try to always do the right thing and I try to surround myself with people who do the same. This doesn't mean that I'm closed minded or that I can't appreciate people different from myself. I don't follow the "One True Way" model.
So, if you actually made it through that little piece of soapbox rambling and think I might be interesting then I encourage you to send me a message and say hello.
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