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I am polyamorous.
Right now I only have one partner (live in). My secondary partner recently moved out of province (he is still my secondary tho obviously not in the same way as before, man I miss him). I am only casually considering adding anyone else to the mix at the moment.

I am heteroflexible.
I am not fully bisexual. I love and am attracted to men in general. My love and attraction for women has a somewhat more narrow focus. But it does happen.

I am a sadomasochistic switch.
For some i lean towards being a masochistic submissive. For others a sadistic dominant. And so far for one lucky guy, both.

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I live an outwardly vanilla life. My kink is mainly a "when we can find the time" and "at play party" activity. I love being kinky. I love playing at my areas monthly party. I am mainly interested in making friends at this point. After all nothing more can develop until that has happened.

I am a quiet, introspective person. I think a lot, I read a lot, and I speak up when I feel I have something important to say. I am not a fan of the drivel of chit chat. I learned early in life that a lot more can be learned by sitting back and watching and listening, allowing natural silences in conversation to stay silent, than can be learned by constantly needing to fill those silences with inane chatter.
It is amazing what you sometimes hear when people 'forget' that you are there.

I come across as quiet, shy, aloof, yet sweet. If you get to know me you'll find that these (other than the quiet part lol) are nothing more than illusion.

It usually takes a lot to frustrate me or actually piss me off. I tend towards being easy going and letting things slide of my back. But when i do get to that point I sometimes have a habit of exploding or imploding. I've been working on speaking up before I get to that point.

I am very much aware that I can be a raging bitch if I get pushed far enough, or am confronted with enough of what I consider to be stupidity. And at that point I really don't care what you think of what I have to say.

I don't need you to like me.

I like myself well enough and I have friends who know that while I may sometimes think their ideas, thoughts or words are idiotic, and may even let them know I do, that it doesn't mean I think any less of them or like them any less.
It's ridiculous to think that you are going to like everything about any given person, even more ridiculous if you allow that fact to keep you from continuing a friendship.

I won't accept random friend requests.
I don't care how fabulous you think you are. If you don't message me with a polite, non sexual message that catches my interest and proves you've had the decency to read my profile, then you don't get that privilege.

When you message me be sure to comment on what it is that I learned early in life. ;)
I also don't like text speak or unintelligent writing. I usually (there are exceptions) take the time to make sure that my spelling, grammar, punctuation and so forth are as correct as I am able to make them. This is not always easy as they do not come easy to me, and do have a tendency to ignore capitalization lol. But I do expect the same courtesy in return.

and....

I do not cam.
ever.

ask me once and if I'm in a good mood I'll simply laugh at you and call you a twatwaffle.
ask me more than once and I will block you.

kink on.

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Tullejente
 
 Age: 28
  New York