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If you are a cis-gender guy, (whom I do not already know. Or a guy who doesn't know what "cis" means) please do refrain from contacting me.
BDSM is all about respecting each other, so please do show some respect towards my sexuality and my wish to not be in contact with you. At all.
In other words, guys: Don't message me and don't comment on anything on my page. I'm not here for you, I'm not yours.
I'm a femme-appreciating not-so-very-classical radical left queer feminist butch dyke with a playful approach to my kinkyness. I am enjoying my adventures in exploring kink dynamics within wonderful, heartfelt connections with a of lot of laughing.
I am flirtatious, communicative, affectionate, caring, warm and deeply enjoying my playful sides. I love playing in ways that involve a lot of body contact and struggle, punishing pain and teasing caresses. Communication is the one wasy to my heart (and below). The culture of practising verbal communication and stressing the importance of consent were amongst the things attracting me to this wonderful world.
I am curious about playing more with more than two people involved as well as further exploring "daddy" dynamics.
In the past, I have had periods of only bottoming or topping. Now, however, I find my desire for more switchy playing is blossoming. I love belonging to the circles and communities that I take part in and I deeply enjoy the extended family feeling of these. I believe that communities are important in creating healthy and playful cultures around kink and I want to be able to assume that we share some key ideas about the world. I am here to be in contact with dear ones, flirt and to find events. BTW: I don't befriend people on that I do not know, so if you want to get to know me, it's a lot easier to write me a message on why, or to catch me in "real life" And just for info: Pronoun: "She". Never "they", please!