I'm looking for a man to take control both in the bedroom and out. I need to be attracted to you physically and mentally. I prefer successful men that want to take care of me and discipline when necessary. I'd like to be kept on my toes; it keeps things interesting. I feel that vanilla is how most people live their lives and I will continue to live mine this way in public[[hearts and flowers]]. In private that is a very different story.. I have been in relationships that I found myself testing the limits of my man. I want someone who is going to set rules and make me follow them while pushing my limits sexually.