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ATTENTION , updated : after considerable thought and not yet finding what i desire i've decided to say a little more about who i am and what i ultimately seek. although i've been actively researching this lifestyle by all means possible throughout many years of my life, i,ve never been blessed with an opportunity to have met a like minded woman. yes....... i've played every chance i had.....in vanilla relationships with vanilla women. everybody knows or should know the dynamics more than likely are just never gonna be there. so here i am, looking for the one. most that know me would say i'm old fashioned maybe old souled in a way.i'm a protector and provider by nature,i feel my familys well being is my duty,(emotionally, mentally and physically) i have old fashioned values and beliefs, but....... i,m happy with who i've become and where i am in life. i grew up in a very small town here in iowa. i am self employed "residential const.", my only reason for no pic lol. i have many hobbies mainly in and around my home. i'm kind hearted,strong willed, caring,honest,loving,respectful,considerate,open minded,and YES UNFORTUNETLY LOL i am also well aware of my downfalls. at times i can be stubborn, hard headed, i over think most everything,i'm a perfectionist,i can be a little rowdy at times,i have way too much pride at times, i,m a sucker for stray animals,i drive like a geezer at times because i can LOL, i,ve over planted my yard with perennials etc. etc. etc. . so anyway theres a little more about me to those that have made it this far. ideally my long term goal is a LTR. i'm by no means here for sex, i seek something on a mental, spiritual and emotional level first,the rest will follow. with that being said im a very single male, no attachments,no children, no drama im looking to meet a like minded woman to go on this journey with. preferably single, with an exception: i may consider a non live in LTR with a mature married woman seeking more than home has to offer, im not real picky but i am very serious about the lifestyle and i ask you to be the same. squirters automatically go to the top of my list LOL. i will exchange pics if your interested .
7/11/2008 3:17:43 PM
okay, let me clarify myself. i seek something long term,not a one night stand . i'm not desperate or willing to settle, i desire a mental and emotional bond as well as physical. i'm serious and sincere about the lifestyle, although not as expierienced as some i'm learning and i would love to find a special someone to learn and grow with. i'll chat with anyone near and far but ideally i seek someone near the CEDAR RAPIDS area.
radashe
 
 Age: 25
 Columbus, Indiana