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Educated, Sensual Submissive seeks intelligent, multifaceted, straight DOMINANT MALE who is local, *LEGALLY SINGLE*, age 50+ plus, to build an invested, longterm relationship. Sorry, not interested in subs, switches, females, couples, or married men -its not the dynamic I seek. No cyber, one-liners or long distance as I will NOT relocate and I need someone nearby.

IMPORTANT I only correspond with men who wish to know me first as a woman BEFORE they learn about me as a submissive - and who approach me as an individual - and not with the same intro that could be sent to any submissive. I have been in the life many years Im not a Stepford sub, or a novice. I wish to meet a man who I would find in the vanilla world and date, but also adds the dynamic we both enjoy.

** Please do me the courtesy of reading my complete profile before reaching out I will be able to gauge whether or not youve read it. Thanks! **

ABOUT ME
For me, its all about connection. I crave that extraordinary intimacy experienced when we connect on multiple levels cerebral - spiritual - emotional - as well as the physical. You NEED the same.

I find intellect to be one of the strongest aphrodisiacs and emotional intimacy allows a true connection to be felt. If you do not engage my mind on an intellectual level FIRST, you will never captivate my ... lust.

I am a single female - no children - committed to my career, but with a longing for more. Im told I have an exotic, Mediterranean appearance - extremely pretty with soft features, dark brown eyes and an alluring smile. Sorry, I cannot include a full face photo here for professional reasons.

I appear youthful, have a good figure, and I am feminine, warm and loving. Im a true romantic, cultured and refined - yet I can be playful, sexy, spiritual, intuitive and creative. I love to laugh, tease and touch. You will be happy.

I am by no means a wallflower. I am educated, intelligent, a recognized leader in my field and an accomplished communicator. I care about how I look and carry myself in public. I engage people actively, and I am told I am very sensual in both my presentation and my interaction.

Music, creativity, and the sciences are personal passions, and I appreciate good food, the arts, and meaningful conversation on a wide array of topics from philosophy, psychology, and poetry, to many of the soft and hard sciences. I am always learning. Admittedly a sapiosexual, I find intelligence extremely attractive and sexually arousing.

I have a deep appreciation for the beauty of nature, animals, and the natural world and find peace and harmony working in my garden during warmer months.

While the above qualities provide a sense of my public persona, they are a study in contrast to my inner desires. I am a natural submissive, and I am happiest when I can let go of the responsibilities and expectations of the vanilla world and immerse myself in the intensity of a man who can envelop me completely.

I am a sensual submissive, not a pain slut or an edge player. I appreciate the role that some sensual (light) pain plays as part of the Ds dynamic, and I actually crave erotic kings from practiced hands! Please understand - if you enjoy constant discipline, are a dedicated sadist, or prone to verbal abuse - I am not for you.

Although I will always be submissive to my Dominant, I still wish to be appreciated, respected and cared for as an equal, and have the kind of relationship where I can interact as a partnered couple and as an accomplished individual within the vanilla world. I seek my best friend, kindred spirit and soulmate.

ABOUT YOU
You are intelligent, with relaxed confidence and poise, with a sense of humor and a romantic side. You may have been called a Renaissance Man, or a Daddy Dom (and youd be able to bring out the little girl in me while treating me as the fully sensual, sexual, adult woman that I am), although you would not approach me about anything overtly sexual until you got to know me. Chivalry and thoughtfulness are gratefully appreciated and bring out my feminine yin to your masculine yang.

You are accomplished in your own life, but because you are naturally wired as Dominant, you are seeking a fulfilling relationship here. You reside in the greater Boston area so we may get to know one another more easily and distance will not be an impediment to spending time together.

You invest the time to gain a solid understanding of me and my motivations, and you will claim my mind as your first prize. This will provide me with the deeper levels of trust, intimacy, and passion that will allow me to surrender my body and soul as well. You will know how to make me hunger for you and understand that this is a prerequisite to my submission.

The Dominant I seek is strong and confident, while intensely sensual and erotic in his desires and his actions. He will safely guide me to learn more about myself and my own hidden cravings. Your calm demeanor and quiet, in control confidence will enable me to pay attention to your whisper.

You are supportive of my personal career growth, respect me as an intelligent woman, and have the time and genuine interest in providing guidance, protection and being a mentor in life.

If you are the right Dominant for me, you do not turn on or off in session, but you consistently maintain your natural Dominance. Needless to say, you could never entertain the idea of switching or being attracted to a man in any way.

You are attractive, keep reasonably fit, Safe, Sane Consensual, STD Disease, Drug Smoke-free, and love nature, pets and animals as I do.

I particularly enjoy fit men in their 50searly 60s for their maturity, worldliness and life experience.

While I appreciate hearing from much younger men, it is doubtful we will have the same long-term goals. Sorry, but I am planning to find a lifetime relationship with someone in sync. With kink. (Smile).

Also, if you are a conservative politically, then we most likely will not get along as I am liberal in my politics and I feel as strongly about my viewpoint as you do. CNN is my go-to station for national news.

I wish to share both my Ds and vanilla world together with the Right One.

If you have read this far and are interested in a discussion, please mention the word, *rainbow* so Ill know you are sincere. I hope to hear from you soon!

Please read about the 3 Styles of Domination (copyright Owlm48), in my January 21, 2012 Journal Entry The Style of Domination that Resonates with Me THE EQUALITARIUM DOM. If you do not relate to being an Equalitarian Dominant, it is doubtful we would match. Thank you.

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