FYI----- IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A SEX SLAVE OR SUB THAT WILL HAVE SEX OR PLAY ON THE FIRST TIME MEETING OR THE SECOND TIME DO NOT WASTE MY TIME OR YOURS BECAUSE I AM NOT THE ONE TO MEET!!!
I have nothing against those that do poly but it's not for me. So if you need more than one female i am absolutely not your sub.
I am a 42 year divorced. I am 5' tall and 170 lbs. I do not have my measurements. I recently moved to Phoenix, Az from Dalton, Ga. I live in a one bedroom with my two grown daughters whom are not moving out anytime soon.
I wish to have a relationship that is a male dominated relationship. I would like for him to set his rules even enforce them. I however do not want a dominate that would take me from my family or friends. I have no intentions to cut the ties with my children or family. Nor do I perform slave activities in front of my children or family. There are ways to live the lifestyle without getting perverse. ? I was raised in a home that the man ruled the house. Even in my teen years I was raised with "rules for girls' while my brother had the "rules for boys". While some do not understand that, those raised with the older values will understand it. As I got older I realized I personally felt a need for a controlling male as my significant other. ? I have an outgoing personality when meeting new people even though I am very cautious before meeting someone for the first time. I am not looking to change that or who I am. I wish to find someone to enhance my submission to bring out the part of me that thrives to please and obey him. That is not always done with brute force it is mainly something found deep in the male. ? I do not get into severe pain while I am not against pain in general. I do not get into animal sex or toilet sex. Nor do I get involved with being shared or sharing. To me if I can be shared or share then I do not think the feelings are what they should be to build a life time together. ? I started the BDSM and D/s lifestyle in 2000 online. In 2003 I was fortunate to meet and live with a Master as his slave for 5 years. I find I miss the connection we had as to me it seems to be a deeper relationship than a vanilla relationship. I am not looking to duplicate that relationship nor him. That would be impossible. Those years I also learned the Gorean Lifestyle and found I am not looking for a real life relationship built on that strict foundation.
I have been asked if I am a submissive or slave.? After a bit of time thinking about this question. ? I start out as a submissive. For a Dom to bring out the submissive in me it takes more than a whip and sex.? For me a Dom has to take time to be caring about me and my life.? That means to take time to get to know me from my everyday likes and dislikes. As well as my hobbies. After a time this creates a bond that in times causes me to want to do things to make a Dom happy.? Eventually this submissive nature ends up making me not want to say no to any kind of want or desire.
I drive a truck for a living so my time schedule is not going to be on a schedule. I work 11 -14 hours at a time then sleep 8-10 hours. I do this routine constantly.? I am home maybe two weekends a month.? I have text, and ya hoo along with Collar me.? I use my phone to get online. I do not nor will i get a laptop to get online. My downtime is not sufficient enough for that. If you want to play at being interested don't emotions and feelings are delicate.
4/19/2014 3:24:54 PM
If you look at my profile and think oh wow i will message her get to know her then she will move to me.
WRONG
Even if I like you I will not move from the Phoenix area.
Granted i do not plan to drive for the rest of my life however i will be doing it for the next year or two.
Have a problem with any of this well then keep looking elsewhere.
4/19/2014 3:12:09 PM
While i enjoy bdsm relationships i have to hand it to the Vanilla ones.
You can date, get to know one another no pressures, learn each other slow and easy.
Bdsm or ds you have to have a book on a person and then twenty questions before the next faze which has nothing to do with building a relationship.
The next faze is how to map out the sex that is not built up to thru kissing flirting and such but planned expected and demanded like a chore or duty.
Doesn't that make it sound as appealing as a cold shower.
Anyone ever think that there were quite a few from the 50s that divorced or by the time they divorced were sleeping in different beds.
Even now Doms and Domme speak of having trained multiple subs and slaves in real life.
I mean if you and your methods were so awesome then why are you single now looking for a new one to train. So yeah your methods are so awesome you will go thru your golden years alone.
4/12/2014 10:05:23 AM
If your not in Phoenix AZ area or interested in relocating to Phoenix AZ then do not waste your time or mine.
Not wanting a game of what ifs.
4/7/2014 12:50:48 AM
What exactly is the point to put a warming post on your profile about copy right? I have not found a profile that says anything special or pictures with reusing for another site.
3/16/2014 10:19:55 PM
Just an opinion here. Goreans can be narrow minded and arrogant. Specially if you do not read the books and walk away with the same views as they have formed on the lifestyle.
Don't think so? Try to discuss the lifestyle with a Gorean especially a Gorean Free Man! Not all of course just the ones I have spoken to.
Even had it proved lol. Seems to prove you are a Gorean kajira you must send nude pictures with in twenty messages while at work or your fake. Haha what a hoot!
1/20/2014 12:53:16 PM
If you have the DADEE syndrome do not message me and waste your time or mine. Dumb ass Dom enlarged ego syndrome.
