Who am I?

I am a well rounded (very well in fact) bbw with an ample chest, red hair and a personality to match.

A newly discovered lover of custard and all things messy, I'm not a masochist (I don't even think I know how to spell it !! ) although I do enjoy a moderate amount of pain at times. I adore sensation play, flogging and thuddy toys are my favourate. My other likes include violet wands, wax play, bondage and other things that I can't remember right now. Knives and other sharp objects provide endless facination and fun for me. I make my own pin wheels and always with the motto of "the sharper the better!"

Away from BDSM, I am a slightly mad, energetic person who doesn't like to stand still for very long. I'm maddeningly absent minded, stubborn and bouncy at times. I thrive on being busy and occupying my self with mischief. I work hard and try and play hard too.

I love music...... rock, metal and indie are my favourates and I love to go out dancing, raising general mayhem and singing on karaoke! I enjoy reading and films have a particular interest in Japanese geisha books, Asian horror movies and anything else that is gory and makes your hair stand on end.

I'm normally found at the York and Leeds munches and also Nemesis (where I'm often sighted scuttling about the place barefooted).

The most important people in my life are my family, my best mate and my cat!

What am I looking for?

Right now I don't know if I want to become involved with someone on a long term basis however I am hoping that I will find a play partner and someone who's company I can enjoy and who would enjoy my company too. Also someone can appreciate my mad, twisted and rather childish sense of humour!

Although I am submissive (I think bottom is probably more appropreate), I would never class myself as a doormat or a slave. I have no intention of becoming you're slave and I'm not here to "serve" you. I feel that BDSM and play should be based on mutual consent, respect and power exchange. I have firm limits on things and will happily vocalise them if needs be. If you think that women are here to be punished and to serve you and need reminding of this or if you're a sadist and take great pleasure in inflicting pain, then I'm not what you're looking for so thanks for reading. I am a sensation slut, not a pain slut!

I'm quite strong willed and if I were to really submit to someone, it would have to be a strong person.

So in an ideal world, what exactly would I be looking for? A strong, Dominant man who was tall (maybe 6'2 or more) and aged approx 21-35 and liked big girls. I don't ask for much huh and it's not an ideal world so I am fairly flexable. I am however, not looking for anyone a lot older than me. I know from experience that it doesn't work!

In the real world, I am open to talking and meeting new people but I can be quite shy at times. I'd like to think I'm a fairly intelligent and articulate person and if you get me talking about a subject that interests me, there's no shutting me up

So there you have it. I am who I am and I make no apologies for it. Like me or lothe me, I'm here to stay.

I'm a lovely person really, just a bit cheeky

t x

P.S If you want to chat, please memo me but please make it something worth reading, don't just ask for more information, all the information you need about me right now is on my profile. Thanks for reading