A Dominant/Master
A Dominant/Master is someone that is strong enough to understand how you are feeling and to be there for you when you are feeling good as well as bad. He will provide the care and protection that you need emotionally as well as physically. He is able to take you to a place that feels so comfortable and safe that you are willing to do just about anything. He can also show you how you can truly can understand and learn. A Dominant/Master holds your hand and guides you to places that you have never been and no matter what, watches out for you when you are not as aware of what is happening as he is.
A Dominant/Master has the power to make you feel weak in the knees with a simple look or word. With a guiding hand, he shows you how to be the best that you can be and, at that same time teaches you how to take him to a place just as wonderful. He understands your willingness to make him happy but expects certain things from you as well. He is a strong minded person, who knows what he wants out of the lifestyle, which can vary with each relationship. He will show you in you in his own way how to get there and what it is that he expects and wants.
Together you both learn how to go about gaining the most from one another, with respect and guidance from him you will also prove yourself to him and yourself as well. He becomes not only a teacher but also someone you can confide your deepest darkest ideas and thoughts with. Without ridicule, he also and become the shoulder to cry on and the person to look up to. He will help with anything that may arise. Not only will there be a full understanding of what you both want and desire but he also works very hard to show you the way that things should be and to reassure you.
Being there for you and letting you know that you are doing a good job is only part of the responsibility he takes on. He will also let you know what you need to work on allowing yourself to grow more openly with him. Together you join together and grow with each and every experience that you share together building a solid foundation so that you both can reach heights.
A Dominant/Master not only governs you but he also takes charge of you and guides you with a loving touch, a gentle voice, and offers his support. At times he can be strict in demanding that certain things happen or that rules are followed. He has the right to accept or refuse your embrace or make you wait if he is displeased in anyway. For instance, he asks that certain duties be performed before any loving attention is given and can hold out with this for a long while if he decides, it is his option. He accepts your opinions and suggestions but he will ultimately decide the outcome of the situtation. He accepts your limits and in so doing he expects you to accept his rules, or for a lack of a better word "his way of doing things."
A Dominant/Master has many roles in your life once you accept his guidance in this lifestyle, not only does he protect and provide guidance for you but he also lends a shoulder and an open ear when things aren't going well. He also shares with you his experiences and knowledge of how he prefers to go about handling things in this lifestyle. He also provides an understanding for what you are dealing with, concerning emotions and feelings. Whether it is dealing with being scared with not knowing what to expect next or something such as posture, all are known to cause distress to many. He is there to offer assistance and guide you to the best way and showing "his way" to doing things.
A Submissive/Slave
A submissive/slave is someone who allows herself to be taken to even higher points of reality by the one that she fully trusts with her body, as well as her mind and soul. She gives to him a part of herself that no one else could possibly understand. Her trust in him means everything, to break that would mean to sacrafice a part of herself because she defiled and his trust as well.
She craves his loving arms, his gentle embrace, and his gentle word. He becomes a very important part of her as she becomes a part of him also. She learns how to please him by listening to his words, and watching his body react to the things she does to and for him. By learning what he likes and pleasing him in not only sexual ways but also small simple ways also, she learns that he is pleased with her as a person. He knowingly pushes her limits a bit at a time, which alows her to open up more to him and allow him full access of her mind, body and soul.
If he a true Dominant/Master, he will cherish these gifts that she gives to him with the utmost sincerity and love her even more. No submisive/slave with a true Dominant/Master falls short of having the ultimate loving relationship between them in a way that nothing could defy them or their status as a couple.
A submissive/slave must not only learn what is expected of her but she must also be willing to open up her mind and allow him to help her to express her wants, desires, and fantasies to him. Her Dominant/Master takes this knowledge and helps her to openly enjoy not only him as a man but as a friend, lover, and more. She learns to express herself to him with simple words, gestures, and even simple touches. These simple gestures mean a great deal when it comes to the comfort of both the submissive/slave and Dominant/Master in the relationship.
In bearing her soul to him, he accepts her as his and she begins on a path that will take her to places thought of only in dreams. That place that no one could understand if not taken there with a loving hand, a gentle voice, and a bit of encouragement. Then after ward, she knows he will be there to comfort her trembling body, and love her more than before. Her Dominant/Master knows her better than she knows herself. A submissive/slave must understand that nothing he does should make her feel scared, or grow fear of him from it. If fear grows, the relationship dies.
A submissive/slave should treat her Dominant/Master with great care, and understand how difficult it is for him to keep composed when she is at his mercy. As she stands before him whether bound or on her own allowing him his pleasure. He is always on guard watching over her to make sure she is safe with everything he tries to do or continues doing. She as a submissive/slave must allow herself to experience what he offers her in order to fully understand him and his desires.
