Few things in the word annoy me more than people that are quick to judge others. Live and let live mf-er. What is the point of judging someone anyhow? No one likes to be judged unless they are in the pageant circuit, so since you aren't how about you shut the fuck up? I am an incredibly shy person except online, I would like to get to know everyone, but the second someone says some shit like, "I think if someone does ___ they are trailer trash" or comments on how another genuine sub isn't extreme enough, I immediately write them off as a dick. I may still talk to that person, but they will never get special information, the relationship will never blossom. Don't we all have someone in our lives that doesn't appreciate our lifestyle, someone that is always trying to give us shit for it? Then why the hell would one judge another on how extreme they are? Can't we just give people credit for thinking outside of the vanilla box? I cringe when I see some of the really well developed bruises that people show with such pride. Do I look and say, "that shit is nasty, whoever did that is a perv"? Nope, I don't. I say, "holy shit that looked like it really hurt. I wonder what it was like. I don't think I can do that.  What a trooper." Then again I don't bruise easily so I am thinking about how much harder it would be for me to look like that. Should I be ostracized? Nope, I should be left alone. I would think this community would be large and open-minded enough that it could accept those with less extreme desires, all the way to those that want to take/be taken within inches of their life. Some people have a road block that doesn't allow them to do certain things. Share your experiences with them, don't criticize them. 

This rant was caused by someone talking shit about my sister because of the color of her hair. She is such a nice person that for some fucktard to judge just on that mad me really really mad.

BE NICE DAMN IT!!!

That being said, can we leave the 50 Shades people alone? I know that most of them are just looking for a little kink and not necessarily looking to be a part of the lifestlye, but maybe it will bring some real subs along. Possibly someone that was craving these things before and were too scared or something to actually go for it. Now it's getting to be a bit more acceptable, they can ride the bandwagon and be dropped off at our door and we will take good care of them, as the others leave with the next hot thing. 

rant over