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Time for a change... Here we go...
I have had several play partners over the years and have been involved in a number of D/s relationships and relationships in my view require balance, mutual respect and understanding.
Personally I identify as a sub, but I am interested in meeting people and forming relationships and have shifted my role orientation to reflect this to switch.
I am a university lecturer and do not wish to be identified and I will have the say as to who I divulge my true identity to...
The rest is what was left over about a year ago... and it still gives you an understanding as to who I am...
I am a fiercely intelligent sub, professionally employed, sophisticated and experienced in the scene. I've taken a sabbatical of late, due to personal reasons and am eager to return. Due to work commitments at this stage, I am only seeking casual play with mutually compatible individuals, although I am certainly not against a more permanent arrangement developing with the right individual.
Regarding play, I like it hard and kinky, the more the better. Of late, I have developed a fascination with locking toys such as collars etc. latex, suspension as well as few other activities and seek to explore this part of my persona with the right people.
I adore bondage and light to medium S/M, heavy when the mood is right. My submissive triggers include sensory deprivation amongst other things disclosed in due course. I consider myself sexually adventurous and maintain few hard limits, willing to give most things a try. I am curious in the potential exploration of needle play (maybe), medical play, breath and edge play as well as gender and head fucks.
Physically, my health is sound and I am in reasonable shape. As a minimum, I would expect a similar level from a potential partner. As for my persona, I'm a grown up goth of sorts, achieving a state of meta-cynicism, enjoying life for the first time in a long time. I am happy with who I am and what I am doing. I am happy to meet new people and hold very few prejudices and I feel that this is the right time in my life to be doing so.
I identify as a sub, not a slave, meaning that my power exchange is conditional not absolute. It is mine to give and I am not the sort of individual who would willing hand it to the first passer by, I am not a doormat. I am not dispositionally paranoid either, on the contrary, I am charming (of sorts), friendly fellow, somewhat unconvential, wishing to meet compatible individuals. I am simply trying to be as honest and transparent as I can, as not to waste either of our time or resources.
I am interested in meeting and potentially scening with unattached women, not with men. I am not bi nor polyamorous and respect peoples existing relationships. I may decline invitations from couples or people in existing relationships or anyone else I feel does not share common groud with me. Please do not take offence, it is in our mutual best interests.
Should this introductory epistle attract your interest, my inbox welcomes messages. I apologize for the length of this introduction, however I did not have time to make it short. Although I often and openly defy the tyranny of precedent, 'tis customary to end with a quote;
"The political spectrum leaves one with little alternative, one must therefore either become a dunce or a rogue"
- Emma Goldman
I have shown you my colours; as best as this brief missive allows, I eagerly anticipate seeing yours...
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