Hello to all you out there, firstly I would like to wish you all well on your search for what you look for.

For me ? what do I look for. I am looking for a long term relationship, I have got over the divorce thing, oh that sounds bad does not it “ got over the divorce “ what I should say I have moved on from the divorce and re-assed what I want in life and from life, yes that is why I am here.

Always had an interest in the non-vanilla side of relationships and now looking to push that further. Yes the picture is me and yes the face is hidden as I do work and currently I wish to remain private in what I look for. This is not to say that this will always be the case but for time being due to work etc then I hope you will not mind. I am more than happy to send picture without face blackened along with being on cam to show it is me.

I have put myself down as a switch but more towards the sub side, ie can dominate when required.

Will admit to be a cross-dresser but until now has been rather secret as ex was defiantly not in to that type of experience.

To expand what I look for and would like to get from this site.

1. Find a female with similar interests

2. Long term relationship with total power exchange

3. Friends with similar interests

What I am not looking for is sessions or playing a cash cow for some person. This is each to there own and if that is what you want or look for then please go ahead. Having read a number of the profiles here they have “tribute” required that is great as then I know that this person wants money and I will not waste my time or there. Would it not be useful that if collarme put a tick box or something that allowed people to enter if the want money and then as part of the search criteria you could have looking for someone that wants money or not. Then profiles can be reported and removed if deliberately mislead.

Anyway back to what I was saying, I do not have a list or what ever saying that I want this , you must have , we must do this, I will not do that. I think that finding a partner here is same on any dating site or anywhere else for that. I hope that I will treat all that I contact with respect and I expect same to start with.