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| I am mostly a dominant, but wouldn't mind the lady taking the initiative in the bedroom once in a while :) So I guess I'm more switch-like. But seriously - life is too short for us to be bound by definitions.
I am looking for an intelligent educated woman with a sense of humor (a must!), I'm pretty self-deprecating myself and have a hard time tolerating people who hover in Olympian heights. Maybe we will eventually meet, but we will certainly talk a lot first. But we will hopefully play too. "You can learn more about a person during an hour of play than during a year of conversation" (Plato).
Finally - I am married. My wife couldn't care less for bdsm, but she is tolerant of my dark desires. The way she puts it - "Do whatever makes you happy, as long as I don't know". Anyone who is less tolerant than that - please spare me your lectures on infidelity. And please appreciate my telling you this - I could pretend that I am single and that I will be all yours and then run away after the first meeting. But I'm not doing it. Let's hope honesty is rewarded with understanding.
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