I believe that I am a lucky because I enjoy both D/s roles. The role I select depends on the woman I am involved with and the cerebral and physical dynamic between us. I started off as a sub and learned to Dom later on.
The ever present question of what am I looking for is not easy to answer because there is no cookie cutter response. I enjoy intelligence and confidence in a lady and find that stimulating. Physical attractiveness is certainly a component of what I am looking for but it is not my primary criteria. The fire that burns within a D/s woman has little to do with her outward appearance. As for me, I am physically fit, not overweight, told I am attractive and have a full head of hair, so you wouldn't run away screaming if you met me....unless I had those really nasty nipple clamps in my hand and a devious smile on my face!
I have been into D/s for over 20 years. I am have learned that patience is a big part of this kind of a relationship and like a good wine, it takes time to mature. I certainly want to get to know what kind of things make you tick before we play.
My hard limits are no children, animals, scat, blood or pee. After that I have levels of likes and dislikes as do all of you. My particular areas of interest do vary depending on what situation I am in but bondage, gags, prolonged teasing and body worship would be part of of any good scene for me.
I know that switches are the minority out there in the D/s world so I am open to other arrangements but I would be less than honest if I didn't say that, given the choice, I am first looking for a switch female and then a dominant female who can train me under her boot heel.
I was recently chastised for not saying this in my profile so here it is: I AM A SINGLE MALE. NOT CHEATING OR PLAYING AROUND. SINGLE AND AVAILABLE. Hope that takes care of that little oversight. :)
6/27/2012 2:31:02 PM
I am amazed at how many "Dommes" on CM equate rudeness, a lack of manners and common courtesy for being dominant.
10/3/2011 5:28:20 PM
Hello everyone. First time on this site and just doing a bit of exploring.
