The Term Switch
Surprising as it may seem the term switch is actually very literal and means that the person identifying themselves as a Switch has the ability to switch from Submissive to Dominant and visa versa... Shocking I know...
So here is the thing about some of us Switch folk, we are actually very good at playing both roles, and enjoy doing so. Therefore asking us to be in a relationship that is only one or the other is really not very appealing to some of us... Im not talking about the Subs and Doms who are ok with plying the other side for a scene every one in a while. Im talking about the True Switch... the 50% Dom 50% Sub... (or 60%-40% even the 70%-30%), asking us to give up one is really very selfish of you as a lover.
Or in other words, if your looking for someone to just kneel at your feet and do as you command 100% of the time - look for a someone who identifies as a sub or if you are looking for someone to tie you and slap you around 100% of the time look for a Dom.... dont look at me- I AM A SWITCH, and i am not interested in giving up ether of my kinky sides for you.
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