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Wow, there are people on the internet who like being tied up!! who knew?

Hi there.

What better way to show someone you love them than helping them to place their freedom in your hands and taking care of them when they can't help themselves?

What better way to show someone you want them than kneeling before them, eyes lowered, hands on your head in surrender to them?

Thanks for viewing my profile. It's a bit short, not many photos, but hope you may find enough about me to see if you recognise any interests that we share.

Photos are available, but I prefer not to display them all to the world. Just ask. Or imagine some generic man, which would be about accurate ;)

I think I'm a switch. This is probably the confusing part ;) Hopefully it's not as weird as it sounds, and switches are compatible with lots of people.

If you're sub, you might just notice this as a desire to be tied sometimes. If you'd really hate doing that then leave now, but if you think it might be interesting challenge then we could get along.

If you're domme you might notice a bit of brattiness occasionally and some attempts to turn the tables. If you're strong enough to keep control anyway, then that's great. If it worries you to think of that happening then it might be a problem.


6/28/2008 5:54:58 AM
Wrestling is great fun, and an ideal activity for kinky couples.  It gets your heart rate going, you're in intimate contact with your partner, and depending who's winning (or who's supposed to have won) either enjoying watching them struggle and seeing their pretty little face grimace as they struggle to show that they're not helpless... or feeling their total control as they pin you down, pull your arms, and ruffle your hair daring you to challenge their supremacy...

But what do you do when we're not equally matched?  or if the physically weaker person wants to dominate?  any ideas?

All I can think of is making the loser wear mitts, so they have more trouble grabbing onto things.  Or having some short leash between their ankles to restrict the amount of leg holds they can use.  What would you do if a big strong man wanted you to beat them at wrestling?  What would you do if you wanted someone smaller than you to easily win?

6/28/2008 5:03:03 AM
What do you think about the use of crafts as as task for whoever is in the submissive role...

It would be time-consuming, taking all the person's attention.  It would be a chance for them to show their dedication by being careful and neat in their work.  It would produce something they can both keep as a reminder later of their dedication.

It might even be something practical to use in a scene.  Imagine being told to take your coat and a sewing kit, and produce your own straitjacket. 

Lots of people use diaries as an example of this, requiring the submissive to write diary or poetry or drawings about how they feel, what they enjoy, and what they might like to do in the future. 

Extending that idea to craft work, giving the person a choice of what to make allows them to express their ideas about sessions they might enjoy.  They could be told "make something that will punish you" and one person produces a harsh metal device while another type of person might invent an elaborate game they must put themselves through. Each person knows themselves best.

Ideas?


6/27/2008 2:56:30 PM
Just testing the journal thingie...
goddessalexis
 
 Age: 27
 Bristol, United Kingdom