I'm a 29 year old well-educated eccentric living in Birmingham. My interests are spiritual and creative including meditating, yoga, writing and art. I also like obscure films and music like free jazz, neo-folk, electroclash, industrial/ebm.

BDSM-wise, i am really a switch, although most of my previous experience has been as a sub. Most of my fantasies involve corporal punishment in school or prison settings with a slight Victorian ambience. I have tried and enjoyed caning, flogging, pegs, clamps and the basics really wanting to try out more sexual things too. I am also very curious to experiment as a top, which is why I have not put sub- something which is is fast becoming a tenuous self-categorisation

I would very much like to meet a kooky spiritual, intelligent or artistic (or all three) woman with a perverse streak.

You might be either dominant or switch but most importantly should have independently thought about putting your pre-experience fantasies into practice rather than being sucked into the whole Master-Mistress/slave positions etc blackhole which is gravely infecting everything.

As for the relationship, I do not think it is realistic for anyone to be thinking of packing a suitcase for the first couple of months at the very least but on the other hand, seeing someone less than twice a month would not be worth my effort.

Any dommes looking for a gardener, maid, or sentient cash machine are way off track here. And similarly any sub women looking for training or submission to their true master- i recommend they either try religion or psychiatry for something more meaningful, because I am not a fake. I am me: something far less terrifying.

Thank you for your time.